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Posted: 13 years ago
#51

Originally posted by: DiyaS

Ufff ... what an episode!! Am divided as to whether it was SP style, or whether it was exactly as the original story ordained ... and my feeling is for the latter ...

All the characters were true to themselves ... the Guptas have always used Khushi's adopted status as a whip ... whether it was Payal's first marriage - where Garima said the same thing - you're not my daughter, Buaji brought up ties of blood there as well as during the forced Shyam engagement ... it seems Khushi has lived with this all her life ever since she lost her parents - a loving family on the surface, but every single mistake she makes is not because she's a young girl, but because she is not their own ... and she's spent her life trying to BE their own, be a part of them ... but she never quite has belonged ... and never will. In spite of making all the sacrifices ... like she did again today.

Nani and Anjali were justified in being disappointed with Khushi - they have always given her love and respect, they always recognised that she had the courage and the power to challenge Arnav and stand up to him when no one else did, even them ... they always encouraged her when she did ... and they are disappointed deeply that in this most important event of Arnav's life, important for them as well as for him ... she apparently gave in to him ...

Mami was being Mami ... losing no opportunity to humiliate and insult ...

Arnav was being Arnav ... acting recklessly, thoughtlessly, in anger, and then running away from the consequences of his actions, leaving Khushi to face the mess ... AND deeming it his power, not his weakness ... he vowed he would destroy both Khushi and Shyam, he has started with Khushi, the softer target ... hello Arnav bitwa, be a man, and go after the real culprit instead of punishing the vulnerable innocent victim ... WHEN will his dimaag start working again?! Hopefully it will soon ... because he has always been the cause of her troubles, as well as the one to rescue her from them ... but his road to redemption is getting longer and longer ...

The marriage - Arnav has a long way to go yet ... true he realized the significance of the rituals and the mangal sutra and sindoor and gave Khushi that, in her Devi Maiya's temple, no less ... but has he truly understood the significance of marriage? That it's NOT just about those symbols and rituals, but the trust, the love and understanding and the true bond they signify. Marriages are said to be made in heaven and solemnized on earth ... marriage is a social contract, sanctified by God and certified by witnesses ... he gave her half of it, but not all ... the symbols, but without recognizing the true meaning ... the empty shell. Chalo, at least his journey has started there to bringing back his faith ... following the rituals because they were important to HER ...but this is only the first tentative baby step ...

Khushi has reached her nadir today ... abandoned by everyone - her adopted family, the Raizadas who took her to heart and now have abandoned her as well, and the man she fell in love with, who has now crushed her twice over ... thrice if we include the video tapes ... She has no way to go but upwards ... she will rise ... she has to ... from the ashes, the phoenix will rise again ... stronger than ever ... Sanaya was heartbreakingly awesome today, especially in the temple scene as her world just crashed to dust around her ears ... 😭



HI Diya. I just dont understand this LIKE button when it decides to work and when it does not.
The same way I am not able to decipher Arnie's behaviour. So conflicted . Loves her yet wants to punish her. Marries her in a mandir in front of a god he does not believe in as if to say "Look Khushi I am doing this to you and your DM can do nothing about it. I make my own destiny " Why all that trouble to drive up there. Married at his own free will but standing in front of the family avoiding eye contact. Rushing to his room abandoning the girl who he just walked in holding her hand.
His ego and hurt coming in the way of asking a simple question about the facts of her dealinfs with his jija... And the precap which i dont wish to comment on much..using her as a pawn in his game with his jija.
My prayers are with Khushi coz only she can do something about this pathetic situation that ArHI are in. Get up my girl and fight back and dare you sleep on the floor ...
How long did zee_news say this wil continue before it gets better ? Boy this is tough. Where is that picture i just posted of the happy couple ?
Rgds
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Posted: 13 years ago
#52

Originally posted by: MsUniverse

Sheila...No it wasn't a mockery of her faith...it was a statement...HERE ...YOU GET YOUR MS AND SINDOOR ...NOW WE ARE MARRIED...OK? A statement that he does not care for those tings but an acknowledgement at the same time that she does...so it was essential for her to have it to go to the next phase...

So true Sush, Arnav didn't have to get married the way Khushi wanted but he knew how much it meant to her.
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Posted: 13 years ago
#53

Originally posted by: MsUniverse



Sharu I don't agree that ASR is an emotional coward...He is foolish, insensitive, rash and highly emotional at times one thing he is not is...HE IS NO COWARD...



I agree with you on this. I don't think he is a coward in any sense of imagination. Like he said, why is everyone overreacting? He was surprised by the ambush and he said what he had to which was, shaadi karni thi to kar liya. Bus, there is nothing more to say. Even when he broke off with La, he had the same reaction. He is a very closed person & he expects everyone to respect that.


The reason he didn't think Khushi would need his help is because I think he has seen a spirited Khushi from day one. He never probably knows how seriously damaged she could be emotionally by his actions. He still thinks Khushi wouldn't need anybody's help to defend herself. Also he is mad & thinks she deserves it, he is in no mood to help till he sees a damaged/broken Khushi & that will come soon enough. At the moment, he thinks her tears are crocodile tears


First things first, he thinks he has won half the battle by marrying Khushi. He thinks once he marries her, Shyam like a sharif man will back off. Which is where ASR is wrong. By now he should have figured him out when he openly challenged him but they have to drag it out.


ASR is suddenly shown as a dimwit especially Khushi's mangetar Shyam = jijaji Shyam should have been an instant batti jali moment but pls let it not be a 6 month moment😆😆😆
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Posted: 13 years ago
#54

copy pasting what I wrote in another post

I'm sure Star plus made a deal with IPKKND for couple of nominations and including Sarun in the promos..
I guess SP convinced (armtwisted maybe) PH to show marriage, crying leads, no SR and huge misunderstanding in exchange for some SP support.
and since PH is not much experienced into too much crying, didnt know what to do.. normally its only the female lead who cries in other shows.. these guys got over excited by the deal and not only made the male lead cry but entire supporting cast cry too..
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Posted: 13 years ago
#55
@Diya: I thought Garima and mamiji were true to form but the others could've all been a little less hard on Khushi. Way to go, trample and crush her when she's down and out. How does one spell BULLY? Didn't expect that from Nani and Anjali. Why not break down Chote's door instead?

@Meens: No matters how the marriage came to be, bauji is the only one who knows what a fortunate move this is for Khushi. He's the only one who knows Shyam's true colors. I agree that was a nice scene - the two mute people communicating with each other!

@Ratna: I guess Arnav's dimaag is on strike, so he is acting a bit schizophrenic, eh? Even if things don't get resolved anytime soon, I want the tears to stop and the spine to resurface for ArHi
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Posted: 13 years ago
#56

Originally posted by: sukri

copy pasting what I wrote in another post

I'm sure Star plus made a deal with IPKKND for couple of nominations and including Sarun in the promos..
I guess SP convinced (armtwisted maybe) PH to show marriage, crying leads, no SR and huge misunderstanding in exchange for some SP support.
and since PH is not much experienced into too much crying, didnt know what to do.. normally its only the female lead who cries in other shows.. these guys got over excited by the deal and not only made the male lead cry but entire supporting cast cry too..



🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

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Posted: 13 years ago
#57
Whoa!

Wat an epi...Reminded me of purane movies...

1. Hero dragging heroine 2 temple (Hayee y dar was no wind with whoosh! effect n dry leaves flying?!)

2. Deserted temple mein u, me n ur devi maiyya...

3. Magical appearance of mangalsutra...I tied it applied vermillion...u ban gayee meri ...no chup chupke rasleela with jeeju for half a dozen of months

4. V-hi5ed-aftr-each-scene-lost-memory-due-2-smoke-frm-agni- v-can't-go-beyond-limits-with-our-chottey-so-v-r-shaking-u-like-milkshake-answer-us

5. Nani-ha! sanskaar!parmpara! shaadi! mangalsutra...

6 Anjali- It had been always *pout* chottey *pout* aap kahaan ho* pout *inhe vo accha lagta hai*
*pout* aap bhi na ...(insert *pout* pooja wherever u want)
with her new found voice
How dare u not respect mangalsutra...u shud hav performed a nautanki like me!

7. ASR - Hmmm! Shaadi done! didi safe...Yikes! these pack of wolves n wild dogs...lemme run n sing my woeful ballad!

8 .Shyam *twitch* *twitch * *twitc*

9.Bua n Garima -She was urs when u lived on her work...nw since has done something wrong she s nt urs...tell me10 diff between Gupta ladies n parasites except the latter not having vertebral coloumn...

10 . Payal crying- Reason discovered - no laundry for continuously 24 hrs...bhaad mein jaaye baaki (lifted from Ajeeb thread -courtesy -Priya)

Sush...dats wat I perceived frm first of the epi...didnt bother abt other half!
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Edited by cindrella255 - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
#58

Originally posted by: docgirl

@Diya: I thought Garima and mamiji were true to form but the others could've all been a little less hard on Khushi. Way to go, trample and crush her when she's down and out. How does one spell BULLY? Didn't expect that from Nani and Anjali. Why not break down Chote's door instead?



Sheila - I am not concerned about naniji. I think naniji will come around sooner than we expect. I think she has very high regards for Khushi and was just disappointed. She knows, if anyone can stand up to ASR it's Khushi. More than anything else both Anjali & Nani know, that ASR needs a Khushi in his life.

They both have witnessed the connection😉 but they just want to make sense of the haste. She even said, we know his nature but why did you comply? Very unusual for Khushi & that is what they are trying to figure out. I think once Khushi asks nani for forgiveness, nani will be good. But mami is getting on my nerves & at the moment both sisters are in no position to fix her. Khushi would have but she is in deep sh*t herself
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: --Sari--

Sheila - I am not concerned about naniji. I think naniji will come around sooner than we expect. I think she has very high regards for Khushi and was just disappointed. She knows, if anyone can stand up to ASR it's Khushi. More than anything else both Anjali & Nani know, that ASR needs a Khushi in his life.

They both have witnessed the connection😉 but they just want to make sense of the haste. She even said, we know his nature but why did you comply? Very unusual for Khushi & that is what they are trying to figure out. I think once Khushi asks nani for forgiveness, nani will be good. But mami is getting on my nerves & at the moment both sisters are in no position to fix her. Khushi would have but she is in deep sh*t herself


Sari, I agree that both Nani and Anjali will come around sooner rather than later. But that they both badgered Khushi , who was a sodden mass of tears, didn't seem true to the kindness/compassion we've seen them display in general. O well, I guess drama calls for extreme measures. 🤔

Mami is a bully, so I'll suspect we'll see her press home her advantage. I don't think we'll get a break from that.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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@Diya, the Guptas indeed stayed true to their characters not wasting yet another opportunity to remind Khushi she is adopted. I really hope when the truth comes out Khushi isn't shown going back to them. Khushi is better off without Garima and Bua's fake love, they only love her when it suits their needs other than that they could care less about her. It was so cold the way they hugged Payal and talked about her being the good daughter while Khushi looked on like a stranger.
The CVs continue to take baby steps with Arnav, this time around it is with marriage. I think when Arnav realizes its significance it will be too late. Before I wanted Khushi to find out why Arnav was so angry and work hard to clear those misunderstandings but not anymore, why should Khushi be shown fighting to earn his trust when it is him who should be fighting to earn back hers? I hope it is Arnav who is shown finding out how wrong he was and let it be him fighting back to win Khushi's love after the way he has crushed her heart to pieces all over again.

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