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@ incandescent - I was told about that earlier,I am sorry I genuinely forgot.You are right,that should be blamed too.

I see your point..well its really fictional character and people do get carried away...Waise I am big Arnav supporter I must say..and every time I get a post bashing him and all ..I do give my healthy points on it..defending his actions and all..this is not to demean anyone..but as basher has right to speak against him..I have right to speak for him..but people do get overboard sumtimes..coz of their love for this character..Where I believe we should draw a line..I mean if we are all in healthy atmosphere lets point positive and negative both..for what you feel..I respect your post on manners and ethics that must be followed ..You know even I get so hyper with some posts..that I wish writing and thrashing that person..but then I laugh at myself..for being angry wid one that I dont know and also for a unreal character..😆..a simple solution for all those who get angry like me..Avoid opening that Thread which says all that stuff..and if you do open..please consider the other as your friend wishing to have a healthy debate and nothing else..

Originally posted by: Ipepe

@ incandescent - I was told about that earlier,I am sorry I genuinely forgot.You are right,that should be blamed too.

@ saarika - yes character bashing is against the rules too but honestly I do think bashing the members because they bashed the characters is worse.

I did ignore,many times c'mon now it shouldn't be always ignored.

Completely agree with you. Its disuturbing to see such posts, and thus, sometimes I refrain from coming out in the forum.

Originally posted by: Ipepe

@ incandescent - I was told about that earlier,I am sorry I genuinely forgot.You are right,that should be blamed too.

@ saarika - yes character bashing is against the rules too but honestly I do think bashing the members because they bashed the characters is worse.

I did ignore,many times c'mon now it shouldn't be always ignored.

@incandy...no, i see the same people doing that again and again.. even if the character was really nice in one episode they cannot genuinley praise them.. thats why i said Khushi and arnav basher and not general basher.. its sad that they cannot see the good side of the character even when there is one..
soory if my words hurt you..

ipepe.. i think both are worse.. because i like arnav character a lot.. so it hurts when someone says he should be made to suffer very very much and be sent to jail.. that is why i never reply on such posts..
personal attack is also worse because people get carried away by the character..

Originally posted by: Rabba-Ve-Delena

Sadly it comes with the territory, I think with comments like those which demean people who are merely criticising a fictional character - shows that the one demeaning and insulting the other member really lacks maturity. They're fictional character therefore fans don not need to get so personal and what is worse is when people accuse poor actors! I mean poor Abhas!

Originally posted by: LadyLaLa

I agree... What one has to understand is we are analysing the character and not making personal inferences to the real actor.. I too have been a recipient of personal attacks but have either ignored them or told them to refrain from making them...

even disagreement can be put in a civil manner rather than resorting to personal attacks and making judgements about the topic maker...

exactly! I get that being nice and civilized does get hard when our favorite characters are called a disaster or a villain or anything else.

loved ur post.sum ppl do act like dey own dis forum.wen i read sum thread i felt like der is no freedom of speech here.everyone has deir own opinion.u cant just step on them and say 'well u are a psycho,go and get sum treatmet if you are weak hearted(der was a thread sayind dat if ppl are weak hearted,if dey r plannin to read online update,bcos dey cant c arhi separation),ifelt dat was offensive,hurting sumone's feeling.pls man respect other's feelings.u cant force ppl on ur way.its just a serial.sum ppl get too much involved with the character.dey feel the pain.so give them the rite to speak.

Originally posted by: Ipepe

exactly! I get that being nice and civilized does get hard when our favorite characters are called a disaster or a villain or anything else.

I have been rude,slightly mocking but don't really think have made any kind of extreme comment.

@bold, does calling a character villain, psycho, dumb considered bashing? If that is so, most of us, including me have been bashing .. I have called Shyam a psycho, cad, weasel etc 😆 Oopsy daisy 😆