Can someone please stand by Khushi?

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Posted: 13 years ago

#41

Originally posted by: mizzneetu
I agree entirely. Looking at Khushi remembering when Payal's wedding broke off the for the first time, and then thinking it was all in her hands this time made me realize how much Khushi was sacrificing in order to keep her sister and her entire family happy. And earlier, she had taken up working at the Raizada Mansion in order to earn money for her family. Over and over Khushi keeps sacrificing to protect her family, and her family does not seem to appreciate this at all. It kinda makes me sad to see how Khushi is treated.

And then Arnav too, takes her for granted at a huge extent. He had always mistreated her. And then when he does fall for her, he allows one person, to make him believe that Khushi was doing something wrong. He didn't stop to hear Khushi's side of the story, nor did he question Shyam's story despite knowing Shyam's true face. He confronted Shyam about this, why didn't he stop to confront Khushi? Again, another instance of where Khushi is taken advantage of, and she has to fall to the mercy of others.

Just because she's cheerful, willing to please and unable to say no, everyone takes advantage of her..

And I think Arnaav dissapointed me the most - he fell in love with her despite himself, he has on occassions had to back down cos he has realised that he has been in the wrong, he has history to show that she has a heart of gold - yet he chooses to ignore all of that and condemn her!

What is really dissapointing is that he chose to punish the weaker of the two offenders, allowing Shyam to go scot free (for now) to allow his sister to continue in her imaginary glass house! He had and will have no qualms about punishing Khushi cos he beleives this will punish Shyam - so yet again, poor Khushi is the sacrificial lamb!

If I were Khushi, I'd really question Arnaav love as and when he realises that she is innocent and would be really dissapointed if she falls in his arms like a ripe plum! 😊

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Posted: 13 years ago

#42

Reserving for now.

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I agree with you. And I'm eager to see who if anyone will stand by her. I think the first few days she's up for a royal snub from all sides and condemned to shed silent tears of agony in the pool of darkness...okay I may have gotten carried away there but I read somewhere that she doesn't like to sleep in the dark and I think she will be made to do exactly that..yikes!

It's almost like these masochistic stories sell well!?... where the guy is straight from the M&B production line and the female irrespective of how she starts off as turns out to be a typical and ever sacrificial SP bahu (now I've been reading a lot of that here - and sort of agree that marriage seems to be the one and all solution to all life's problems in all the shows that air on this channel...go figure) who suffers through everything and gives umpteen 'agniparikshas' before she is accepted into the family and his life. eeks! I really hope this show doesn't turn into that...although it probably has already. Honestly, if you think about this objectively, how on earth is something like this even a solution to the problem Arnav faces with regards to his sister-who-needs-urgent-psychiatric-help's marital problems? Why does an innocent eighteen year old (not sure that's her age) have to be the one who suffers while everyone around her dishes out abuses both physical and emotional on her!? Why not the creepy dude or his sister who has to come to terms with reality at some point! Why is there no dialogue ever ! Why!? o Why!? even the courts agree to innocent until proven guilty...the unfortunate soul wasn't even given a chance to clarify...

I don't see who will stand by Khushi through all the rough initial days she is bound to face in the new house. If you think about it, the in the pretext of Payal-Akash wedding and the rituals after they've made us privy to the contrast between the two marriages- everything from family acceptance to what transpires between the married couples. Even while she was forced to get engaged with the creep, it was shocking how everyone heaped it on to her as if her life, her choices, her dreams - and her wishes don't really matter for the family. It will probably be sooo wrong to expect anything different this time. And the only one who seemed like he genuinely cared for her has been conveniently condemned to the wheel-chair as a mute spectator! I'm not sure what to expect from Payal because they really haven't worked on her as much. I'm more inclined towards Aakash - just a tiny bit but I do have some hope from him...may be he can finally rise from his brother's shadows and be a man for once.😆

I actually feel sorry for the poor girl. I suppose the blame really goes to the notion that this sells and hence why its repeated oh so often in every show. But it really does make a lot of people switch off too. Now irrespective of what they show, imo the Arnav has been damaged or perhaps he always was. If his thinking or lack of it by jumping into a quick marriage for six months emotionally blackmailing the poor and the weakest link - Khushi - man it really is the case of the strongest preying on the weakest, isn't it? I don't care what motives he had good or bad (they makers may indeed surprise us one of these days by revealing more) but nothing justifies his rash actions. Can he be redeemed after this?

If it was up to me, I'd make Khushi join a nice university complete her education, join the work-force and kick some serious butt. Yes that after she leaves his sorry-ass before the six months is up! Then he can 'try and woo her back'...since this is a love-story and everyone wants happy endings...sigh but thats just me😆 and that probably means low TRPs too 🤔

eeks! I think I've vented out all my frustrations (and digressed as usual!!) with the current plot here. May be I can finally enjoy the show now😆

Aria

Edited by olive.green - 13 years ago

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DMGFan-2b-not2b

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Dazzler

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Posted: 13 years ago

#43

Originally posted by: JuS**LameAHolic
I KNOW YOU SAID ARNAV DID ALL THOSE THINGS.. BUT YET I HAVE A FEELING ARNAV IS GONNA BE THE ONE TO STAND BY HER.. HURT HER HE WILL, BUT NEVER TO SUCH AN EXTENT, REGRET HE WILL AND TO WHAT EXTENT, WE DON'T KNOW! BUT HE WILL ALWAYS BE THERE FOR HER, LIKE TODAY WHEN GARIMA SLAPPED KHUSHI AND ARNAV WAS THE ONE TO HOLD, YES THE ASR PART TOOK OVER, BUT IT DIDN'T STOP THE ARNAV PART FROM REACTING!

I am not sure how standing quiet when her mother slapped her and allowing that to happen is standing by her! He's the one responsible for putting her in that place, and he could have easily said that it was a mutual decision. He may have got angry when she got slapped, but he didn't lash out at her mom asking her to back off since "they" had decided! It wasn't as if Khushi was the one who married him at gun point, lol!

His only redemption would be his willingness to protect her from everyone else even if he inflicts pain on her, though I am not sure even thats redemption enough!

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Zzabi

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Posted: 13 years ago

#44

If she is being all self-sacrificing and acting happy in front of everyone then really they can't be blamed totally for taking advantage of it. People who are too soft and let everyone else comes first always get trodden on. It's not necessarily the fault of the others - they may not even realise all the sacrifices that person is making for them. Take for example this wedding - if Khushi doesn't open her mouth and tell them that she did it to save Payal's marriage then how are they meant to be happy for her or think well of her? She's gone suddenly gotten married to someone and turned up at her sister's wedding like that.

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Dazzler

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Posted: 13 years ago

#45

Originally posted by: Exceptional
She is a lioness...she canl stand for herself ...just wait n watch.

Would be quite happy if that was the twist! A hindi soap heroine actually giving back as good as she gets! Yup, she;s got heart, hopefully that will come to her rescue!

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Dazzler

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Posted: 13 years ago

#46

Originally posted by: JuS**LameAHolic

obviously not! he still thinks khushi is in love with shyam, he loves her but he is trying to hide it by going back to ASR mode..and lol i am talking about present! the arnav part is still there which is what is gonna make him regret! and which is what made him so angry todayy! but true, the CVs probably will..but i feel sorry for them coz when it was all funny episodes, people wanted more serious things..now they got that, then they are hating on arnav for doing what he did and some on khushi for not asking WHY? etc etc ..mixed signals for the CVs...at least the plot is better than other star plus shows (like saathiya or yrkkh - no offense to those fans.. it's just true coz they have no story which can make fans react the way IPKKND can) 👍🏼

Valid point 😆 TEh CVS must be a confused lot!

Seriously though, sure I understand that the plot needs to have twists and turns otherwise how does it carry on for long or how do you keep viewers hooked on? But my issue is really with no one bothering to stand by Khushi. She may have done something unforgivable from their perspective but no one is willing to stand by her and then take her to task later!

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rechus

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Posted: 13 years ago

#47

I agree with u..poor khushi.. I feel very sad for her..

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Dazzler

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Posted: 13 years ago

#48

Originally posted by: XlolnehalolX
I KNOW! I mean Arnav and Khushi have gone through a lot in their life, but at least Arnav has his Di, Akash and the rest. Khushi - she works like crazy to get the family income and what does the rest do - complain and scold her! At least she has her paralysed father and Arnie! 😊

Hopefully once tempers cool, her family will start to wonder and question... but knowing Hindi soaps, Khushi will contiue to hide the facts and suffer in silence!

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Dazzler

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Posted: 13 years ago

#49

Originally posted by: Fazila~

Hate arnav today, he cant beat shyam so hes taking it out on the weak...not fair Arnav, u might be powerful and strong, donet give u right to push n pull n hurt anyone...if ur angry go n break a leg...leave khushi aloneee...:(

All through when her family was berating her, he just looked triumphantly at Shyam, almost taunting him with no thought or care for poor Khushi. I guess anger blinds you to everything and when its anger fueled by blind devotion to his sister, Arnav Singh raizada and feel nor hear nor understand any reason.

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Dazzler

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Posted: 13 years ago

#50

Originally posted by: Fazila~

Dont they know Khushi??? how come hes not ask Arnav what they did?? All hell will fall on khushi only...men dont suffer as it is :(((

Clearly no one does! No one trusts her no matter what all she has done for them! I guess thats the way Hindi soaps go! 😊