lovers but not friends-misunderstanding inevitable

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sg-honey

@sg-honey

Beginner

Posted: 13 years ago

The major thing that I found lacking in this relationship is friendship and /or companionship.

I think there are bound to be misunderstandings in a relationship where the 2 individuals don't talk to each other.

I mean yes they feel the pull etc etc. But! I have yet to see either of them talk properly or them to hold a conversation, say like friends.

To sustain any romantic or other relationship you need to be able to talk to each other, to share space amicably, to communicate companionably ie TO BE FRIENDS at some level (I dont neccessarily mean BFF)

Because if there isnt any friendship then once the love and attraction settles down, and /or there is a misunderstanding (like this one about to happen) there develops a very wide communication gap. I mean lets face it you have to be able to talk more than sweet nothings with the person you share your personal space with, there has to be something apart from romance that one talk about ( even if it is occasionally)

May be the CVs have unintentionally (or intentionally) overlooked this important aspect of a relationship I dont know, but it stares in the face of anyone who has been or is in a long term relationship.

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Tina

@TinaEskay

Rocker

+ 7

Posted: 13 years ago

Agree there's very little conversation n therefore not much trust and understanding btw them

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Frigate

@Frigate

Dazzler

+ 2

Posted: 13 years ago

That's true. Most of their conversation has been through untold words; if that makes any sense. They have so much in common (being orphaned at a young age, self made from Lucknow...) that the CVs could have easily addressed this.

May be, it's intentional... when their past comes out, we will see them share more with each other?

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No1KoosieFan-

@No1KoosieFan-

Explorer

+ 2

Posted: 13 years ago

100% right here dear! You nailed it... The last "sensible" convesation I recall them have is the one by the poolside where he asks her about his mom... And even that was short-lived... In a relationship where saying nothing says more, trust definitely is lacking... And like Zee said,building TRUST TRUST and MORE TRUST is the major focus of this track which essentially will give new scope to their relationship and definitely deepen it :)

-Sush