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Sunaina Mitra

@sunaina02

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Posted: 13 years ago

#171

Originally posted by: AR-ARHI_naila
give her some time sunaina. let the track reveal fully. its a bit too early to taunt her about this, in my pov.

anyway, sunaina after reading many of ur posts it seems like u treat ASR as ur son, overlook his mistakes and always try to see things from his side. and as for khushi u r more like a mother in law who has not yet approve her as daughter in law. lol

HA HA HA

You are so so right .😆

YOU have understood my psychology very well👏👏

But i have not taunted Khushi . I just want her to be careful and learn lesson form life. It seems she has not learned anything from her engagement fiasco.

But you know - though in the serials it is shown in a crooked way .Ma - in law and daughter in law relationship can be very warm and nice one . Both love the same person .

Edited by sunaina02 - 13 years ago

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Sunaina Mitra

@sunaina02

Inactive

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Posted: 13 years ago

#172

Originally posted by: uniquebluerose

hmmm vry new point of veiw even i was thinkging about that...because earlier i guess there was reply saying if Su was Khushi mother she would have warned her...

I wanted to ask did you think about warning Arnav that he should not cheat on Lavanya or that hugging Lavany when looking at Khushi or announcing the engagement after almost kissing Khushi is wrong!!!!!

I so not remeber any such post...this is typical attitude of most of the audience we want a perfect bahu who doesn't even lift her eyes at other men and becomes a doormat only to her inlaws and husband...and as for the man yup he can do anything!!!!

But I love Arnav characterization here...He is strong and clear minded man and he is being protrayed wonderfully by Barun...is isjust a superb actor!!!!!

And I am sure when he is ready he will woo Khushi in full fledge and get married to her and thing like NK or even Shyam for that matter is not gonna make him ever sit and cry (probably worried for his sister but never will he insecure about his relationship!!!!!)

I still respect him for the way he broke up with Lavnaya and also for the way he behaved totally gentlemanly with Khushi in ME...but then that does not mean I go about blaming Khushi for even her sneezes!!!!!

Her characteristically is supposed to be immature and is so!!!! and yes blaming her for childishness is OK but its sad how each and every action of hers is caught and balmes and her character is tainted sometimes!!!!

and always the excuse of Khushi character was not portrayed like this earlier...but then its CVs who want to change her character why can't they???????

Sanay is fablous actress and she is doing a mind blwing job...I started watching it only because of Sanaya and only after a few wpisodes did my admiration start for BArun...now both top my list in favorite actors...

I am thinking in the Indian context where men have the priviledge to do certain things and women do not . My concern is for Khushi because she will be blamed for over-flirtaton and everyone will think she is the one who encouraged Shyam .

Well I never wanted to warn Arnav ?

I never felt from my heart to do that . I do not absolutely mind - you people calling me anything or bashing me but I post here What i feel straight from my heart . I never pretend to be righteous or never try to be diplomatic .

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Sunaina Mitra

@sunaina02

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Posted: 13 years ago

#173

Originally posted by: pranatim

completely agree with you

@SUNAINA.. haha what a title i thought you are promoting some AHEM product...

I am a woman of 40 and know men from inside out . TAke my word for it . 99 percent of the time if you are open and frank with a man , he thinks you are flirting with him , especially if you are young .

I did not mean to insult Kkhsuhi or anything . I think creatives are showing her this way to make her the scapegoat of both the families when Shyam fiasco will be exposed .

And among everyone down there , the only person who really cares for her - is Arnav . ANd he told her directly - "YOU are so oblivious how others are treating you.?"

IF NK was only a friend of hers , he would not have oogled at her back . From where did NK got the guts to do that. ??

Edited by sunaina02 - 13 years ago

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AR-ARHI_naila

@AR-ARHI_naila

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Posted: 13 years ago

#174

Originally posted by: sunaina02
HA HA HA

You are so so right .😆

YOU have understood my psychology very well👏👏

But i have not taunted Khushi . I just want her to be careful and learn lesson form life. It seems she has not learned anything from her engagement fiasco.

But you know - though in the serials it is shown in a crooked way .Ma - in law and daughter in law relationship can be very warm and nice one . Both love the same person .

I know Su. even my relationship with my MIL is great. we both watch IPKKND together. but the main difference between us is that she is more conscious about shyams evil plan and anjalis future wheres my full concentration is on ARHI, their love and romace. 😆

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Jayshree

@Cinderella100

Voyager

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Posted: 13 years ago

#175

Khushi treats Nk in a distant friendly manner, the same way she treated Shyam. She should have learnt her lesson after the Shyam Fiasco but instead we see her get extra friendly & flirtatious with NK in Arnav's presence unaware she is sending out wrong signals to NK. I agree with Sue that she does need to be extra cautious because the Gupta family are treading on thin ice here. They have supressed the truth about Shyam from the Raizada's so their daughter can get married in that house. Anjali & Nani see Khushi's attraction towards Asr, Asr sees her playing Nk against himself. Khushi actions could be miscontrued & she is setting herself up to be called a goldigger again.

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ksnforums

@ksnforums

Beginner

Posted: 13 years ago

#176

Sorry Babes!!!
But hey girls are born flirts :) knew that the day we 'flirted ' with boys in schools, college etc.
Kushi is mad at ASR . Go girl!! piss him off . harmless flirting did no harm at all

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Marybarton

@Marybarton

Rocker

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Posted: 13 years ago

#177

Disagree. She is a Gemini and she's completely in character. There is nothing wrong with a little harmless flirtation on her part. Arnav got away with a lot more.

Edited by Marybarton - 13 years ago

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Blue Rose

@uniquebluerose

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Posted: 13 years ago

#178

Originally posted by: sunaina02
I am a woman of 40 and know men from inside out . TAke my word for it . 99 percent of the time if you are open and frank with a man , he thinks you are flirting with him , especially if you are young .
I did not mean to insult Kkhsuhi or anything . I think creatives are showing her this way to make her the scapegoat of both the families when Shyam fiasco will be exposed .

And among everyone down there , the only person who really cares for her - is Arnav . ANd he told her directly - "YOU are so oblivious how others are treating you.?"

IF NK was only a friend of hers , he would not have oogled at her back . From where did NK got the guts to do that. ??

So mean Khushi gave him the encouragement to stare at her back and if she has been cold and distant from the beginning he would not have!!!!! well so was she asking Shaym to get so obsessed that even after marriage he wants to lust after her and marry her!!!!!

Your point of nice mil and undersatnding dil is totally lost in me...well anyway what ever may be the case...if man almost gets engaged and hugs and girl while admiring the other is right..then so is Khushi being friendly right!!!!

She clearly is not loving NK or making nay false promises!!!!!

Let them make her scape goat at least we should try to understand...just because other world have double standards we stop supporting women and balme them...i will even we are wronged and have double standards somehow!!!!!

So tomorrow if the family (both Gupsts and Raizada are going to balme her even if she never spoke to NK and guess then you will say yup she encouraged Shyam by planning to fall on Arnav and get videotaped and acted up to have that relased and then made the goon appear when Shaym was there so that he rescues and also romanced with him so she deserves their lack of turst...

I sound nonsensical right!!!! Well lets leave it at this!!!!

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JuhiR

@JuhiR

Voyager

Posted: 13 years ago

#179

Originally posted by: momma1128

Trina I know the dance was not intentional nor the kiss - but she did it. And when that tape of the girl who fell from the stage in Lucknow comes out courtesy Shyam along with cancelled Payal wedding - things are going to go downhill. You can weave a story - and hell if we can weave lies about these occurences the CVs are going to have a field day.

KKG is headed for hard times.

Yes, there will probably be a negative fallout of her behavior, but don't you think that this will take the story forward? If everything goes nice and smooth, there won't be any story. in Gone With the Wind, Scarlett O' Hara had a lot of faults, but she is still loved and adored for her indomitable spirit, and is an all-time beloved character of fiction.

Several of us had thought that the CVs should bring in a nice charming man in Khushi's life who will open ASR's eyes and make him realize his love for Khushi. And this is what the CVs are trying to do. I don't know why you folks are so upset just watching two or three episodes. If we could tolerate ASR's behavior for so long, we can surely give Khushi a chance to flirt. We have too many goody goody heroes and heroines in other shows, so let this show be an exception. Our male and female leads are very different here, and we love them for that.

Edited by trinaroy - 13 years ago

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Ume Salma Kakal

@sunflower52

Rocker

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Posted: 13 years ago

#180

I agree with topic maker.

The harmless flirting of woman with a man is dangerous. Almost all men tend to think that the women who is flirting with him is interested in him and its true.

When a man flirts with a women, she tends to respond to him in a different way. We have an instinct to that let us know if the man who is flirting with us is real or not.

No matter how much progress or modern you become the basic nature of a man and woman do not change.

Khushi should just be careful around men. She in her innocence has no idea how men think and behave. I think in her growing up she has limited experience in handling men who is not her father.

After what happened with Shaym she should be careful around men and Nk she really does not him well enough.

This has nothing to do with gender discrimination. This is the reality men and women have different nature of responding when it comes to attraction and flirting.