Khushi - Men are not toys to play with

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Chinu5

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Posted: 13 years ago

#121

Originally posted by: jwalamukhi

rubbish..utter rubbish...

atleast show some respect for character..there is a lot of difference in flirting and being friendly...

She thinks NK is a good friend of hers...thats why she behaves that why...

and regarding irritating arnav...she is doing it..to control herself...

She is one of the gem on women world...who is so pure from inside and outside...Being open with men doesnot implies flirting...and she does n't even know that she is making arnav jealous...

before coming to conclusions just think once...

completely agree with you

@SUNAINA.. haha what a title i thought you are promoting some AHEM product...

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Maria

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Posted: 13 years ago

#122

Agree guys.. this is going OTT.. For what reason she's trying to irritate him.. not fair.. bechaara arnie.. now nani and anji too will taunt him..

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Frigate

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Posted: 13 years ago

#123

This is a good point... but, may be KKG can be excused for being 18 and naive. I remember when I was 18-20 yrs. old, I was really naive (and I was one of 2 girls in a class of over 100! yes, engg. college). I usually got wind of a guys intentions or at least an inkling, but some were quite sneaky.I distinctly remember this one guy who was overly friendly with me and I flat out asked him if he had another angle to where the friendship was going and he said that he only wanted to be friends and platonic and all!! I hung out with him and other friends of his until he gave me gifts on valentine's day! That was the end of our "friendship". I can't say how many times I have lost what I considered "good friends" because their intentions were not righteous as I had expected of them.

In KKG's defense, she may be unaware of what NK feels for her. She may just enjoy his company. Nevertheless, you all make good points about what ASR may conclude esp. when Shyam's truth is out! I can only feel sorry for Khushi. It is sad that girls are so innocent at that age and guys know just how to take advantage of them (not saying Nk is, but he seems to be going down that path).

In any case, I really did not enjoy today's episode. Somehow, left a bad feeling 😲.

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inanyregard

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Posted: 13 years ago

#124

My beef is with the fact that Khushi can't seem to see how twitterpated NK is with her. ASR was so right when he called her clueless about her surroundings and oblivious about the repercussions of her actions. Granted, Khushi is free to be friendly and flirt with whoever she pleases, but honestly, can we really say that the intentions behind the flirting is innocent?

On the other hand, I agree that Arnav doesn't own Khushi. He doesn't want her, but at the same time doesn't want anybody else to have her? It doesn't work that way.

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Subha

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Posted: 13 years ago

#125

Originally posted by: Keshriya
This is all I have to say, Khushi conveniently did not hear Anjali and Nani pairing her up with NK but definitely heard what ASR had to say. She should have heard both and raised objection to what Nani said. But the dumb Cvs have written that she will rile up ASR by moving closely with NK. This is why manyy of us feel that she is showing wrong signals to NK. She might not be doing it on purpose, but after going thru an wild experience with Shyam, CVs are not changing her character to be little more cautious. She is all cautious with ASR only but when it comes to everybody else, its out the window.

Also this is an SP show, no matter what women will have an upper hand and the male lead has to change and eventually chase the girl, that's what Cvs have made ASR do. Even when Shyam's truth will be out I don't think she will be made a scapegoat, the channel and CVs very well know how to justify her.

So more and more the show is turning to be how a ruthless, hearltess person like ASR is being changed by a naive innocent girl. It doesn't matter if she falls in love with him or not.

Prema, You said it right! But that's the way, Khushi's character is written all over. She did'nt tell anything back to Naniji, because she never takes a stand as far as her feelings are concerned. She worries about all the other people in the world!

Regarding NK, she trusts him, implicitly, same like the way she started trusting Shyam! She believes in an ideal world! But when NK pushes her a bit, she'll push back (for sure)! Once that happens, she won't use NK as a shield, like the way she is doing now!

I don't know about other SP shows - but so far in this show, ASR and Khushi have been given equal footing. I feel that ASR is the only one who truly understands Khushi. Like I said in a previous post, when Shyam's truth comes out, ASR will trust her, but will want her to defend herself. And she to keep all lives intact, including her family may take the blame on herself!

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goguma

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Posted: 13 years ago

#126

at a glance, one would think that kushi is a playgirl...

i think she has not come to terms with this new sweet side of arnav yet,
and she is scared of the hidden emotions that he, only he, brings out of her..

by tagging nk along, (who is obviously fond of her, but will remain as a friend if get dejected)
she may just be teasing arnav..

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HeadOverHeels

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Posted: 13 years ago

#127

Originally posted by: Ariel

even if I give you that , that he did hurt her, he has apologized too. Also it fits right in with his character. He acts (hurts) first and thinks (regrets) later. The main point I was trying to make here was that didnt fit with Khushis image. And the farak padta hai was solely to open Khushi's eyes, ASR style. Didnt he stop when he saw it caused pain? I clearly remember him sitting in the car and regretting it. And we got a monologue (which La was listening to) where he says he he doesnt understand what comes over him when she is around. but given the limited insight we have into Khushis character, I'd still say it doesn't gel with her.

If her asking NK to pick bangles is not open flirting then I dont know what is. And neither is it done unwittingly. Again, flirting is not wrong. I enjoy it too. I'm just worried for her (some foreboding we have had) and it doesnt fit. When the shit hits the fan, it wont be pretty. and no one will be around to clean it up for Khushi.(though I do hope ASR is there)

also, please dont say she doesnt its flirting because she does. Everytime she sees ASR shooting daggers at NK, she jumps right into this routine. Its not spontaneous and neither is "come help me pick bangles NK' an innocent response.

ASR using La, right in his character sketch. Khushi using NK, not so much. Again my opinion, my farak!! 😉

Agreed with the bold part, but if you take in from the pov of her character, it fits. She's not flirting, she's looking for a reaction from ASR, because she senses, (more than notices) that he does not like it. However, this girl is far, FAR from knowing WHY he doesn't like it, and I'm thinking if she does find out, she'd faint. 😆 She's playing with fire, and I think it's too soon in their relationship for this to be happening. I was so enjoying the chase track, and her slowly coming to realize through Arnav's attentions (and stalking 😉). I didn't want it to end, because you know, he's so freaking sexy when he smiles wickedly. 🤣 Now again he's all huffing and a puffing, and we've had enough of that the last so many months. Throw them both in the pool I say!! Let them cool off.. or heat the pool.. whatever 😆

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DiamondLife

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Posted: 13 years ago

#128

Originally posted by: HeadOverHeels
I don't think she's flirting as much as reacting thoughtlessly. To be honest, I think Arnav started the game, and did so intentionally. And, he's playing it with a bubbly, and immature girl, then getting pissed off when she reacts without thinking. It's BS behavior to be honest, and the whole "back gazing" nonsense he got enraged about turned me off completely. Yet, she realized, and all he did was smirk at her. He's freaking 26 or 28... That's a LOT more mature, and he should put away the matches now, and LEAD, not play cat and mouse with this girl.

Please don't die of shock. I adore ASR, but Khushi is single, and free. He doesn't own her, and shouldn't behave as if he does, yet hold off where it matters. The CVs have given the impression of "serious" then stick with it and let them hash it out. Misunderstanding tracks based on stupid things are getting old.

VEry well said..Its ARnav who has started the game..he has feelings but not admitting and trying to corner her now and then..forcing her to admit her feelings towards him..Yes he kissed her and then said challenge. 😆 If i am Khushi, who is competely new to these feelings, and dont forget she is dealing with ASR..who has shown similar caring and love before to her..and what he did..BHOOM..said "SHE does not mean a thing to her"..heart broke.

I think Lalit Moahn did say, this tom and jerry fight willbe ending and theere will be a huge conversation from leads soon..

They both have EGO..dont want to admit openly..

Again Arnav has never approached khushi, i mean during Sangeet..it was very bad to see Bua dragging that big trunk..no one said i will help u Bua...Where is gentlemen??? The moment they both saw Khushi..They r ready to halp her. At least NK help her, while ASr telling to get HP for help..😆

I know, Su will tell me that u want ASR to drag that trunk in front of everyone..thats embarassing😆 I mean Nk is humble..Same with gift bags, NK iniated it immediately..ASR still thinks..ASr alsoalways helped her. But now he has to be fast before NK😆

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callyd

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Posted: 13 years ago

#129

Originally posted by: HeadOverHeels
I don't think she's flirting as much as reacting thoughtlessly. To be honest, I think Arnav started the game, and did so intentionally. And, he's playing it with a bubbly, and immature girl, then getting pissed off when she reacts without thinking. It's BS behavior to be honest, and the whole "back gazing" nonsense he got enraged about turned me off completely. Yet, she realized, and all he did was smirk at her. He's freaking 26 or 28... That's a LOT more mature, and he should put away the matches now, and LEAD, not play cat and mouse with this girl.

Please don't die of shock. I adore ASR, but Khushi is single, and free. He doesn't own her, and shouldn't behave as if he does, yet hold off where it matters. The CVs have given the impression of "serious" then stick with it and let them hash it out. Misunderstanding tracks based on stupid things are getting old.

Absolutely agree with you. Khushi was all flustered from the kitchen scene with Arnav on Friday as he was cornering with the voicemail and mehendi stuff. She discovered that Arnav gets mad/jealous with NK's attention on her. So she used it to her advantage. Thanks to that we got a kiss by the pool. After the dori/Hair band scene she realised Arnav's intentions and also realised NK was oggling and so she stopped flirting. NK was embarrased and disappeared too. I thought he would back off after that incident yesterday.

In today's episode Khushi was absolutely not flirting and I don't think she is going to flirt with NK again. She actually was looking at Arnav disappointed that he wasn't the one to go with her.

I don't Arnav will misunderstand her based on these. He will be angry with her for keeping the Shyam fiasco a secret and not telling him about it.

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Ariel

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Posted: 13 years ago

#130

Originally posted by: HeadOverHeels

Agreed with the bold part, but if you take in from the pov of her character, it fits. She's not flirting, she's looking for a reaction from ASR, because she senses, (more than notices) that he does not like it. However, this girl is far, FAR from knowing WHY he doesn't like it, and I'm thinking if she does find out, she'd faint. 😆 She's playing with fire, and I think it's too soon in their relationship for this to be happening. I was so enjoying the chase track, and her slowly coming to realize through Arnav's attentions (and stalking 😉). I didn't want it to end, because you know, he's so freaking sexy when he smiles wickedly. 🤣 Now again he's all huffing and a puffing, and we've had enough of that the last so many months. Throw them both in the pool I say!! Let them cool off.. or heat the pool.. whatever 😆

Anne, what I think here is very contradictory is that she is trying to provoke ASR into reacting, but she still remains blind to why she is doing it. Thats just poor character scripting. You dont want to make someone jealous if you are not interested in them. Unless you are sadist. Which also fine with me, being a sadist that is.But Khushi is not. If she runs away when her heart is dhak dhaking and prays to devi miayya so doesnt see him, why does she also taunt him instead of just walking away..?

Even I wanted a chase with no NK, nani or crybaby. But *sigh*. now my brain is heated up so I'm jumping into that pool😆