Khushi - Men are not toys to play with - Page 11

Originally posted by: music1

I though after Shyam truth was revealeds to her she would atleast be cautious when around guys...but guess she is still a poor CHILD even after all that.She is gonna be crucified from all corners when Shyam's truth will be revealed...dunno when this girl will turn mature.18 is a young age but not a stupid age😲

exactly..she should be careful with men after what happened with shyam...she trusted him completely... but he betrayed not only her but the whole gupta family..when shyam's truth revealed that creepy snake going to blame her ...now with all this flirting with men in front of whole family obviously nobodys going to believe her and gupta family..ASR will say like before kkg will do anything to catch richman...remember that word..fewtimes he said that if iam not wrong

My problem is that she was shown flirting only twice or may be thrice... and today she was just being her usual self... no trying to make him jealous nor flirting with NK... so why is everyone so irritated? or are we watching different episodes? While I have no issues with people giving comments on the character sketch... there is a difference in the way it is done right? At least I have felt that in a lot of these comments which is what made me post... i honestly didn't see Khushi doing anything today purposefully to make him jealous... so the discussions here took me by surprise...

wait. I don't understand. How is Khushi playing with two men?! Umm... as far as I know, she has not yet understood that she's in love with ASR. And NK is just a really close friend of hers. She doesn't even know that NK feels THAT WAY about her!!!

Originally posted by: frockstar

Didnt she just hear Nani and Anjali talk abt her paring with NK?

I am not saying she should not flirt with Nk or anybody else...

But if she does plan on doing that, she better be prepared for the repercussions.

@bold - yes, lets see what happens tomorrow, it just happened today so we will see how this leads to her next actions.

Originally posted by: ---Pari---

wait. I don't understand. How is Khushi playing with two men?! Umm... as far as I know, she has not yet understood that she's in love with ASR. And NK is just a really close friend of hers. She doesn't even know that NK feels THAT WAY about her!!!

All she knows is that when she talks to NK, it makes Arnav angry.And that's why she does this! So what's wrong in that?

She's just teasing Arnav! Heck, if a guy that I hated (or think i hated anyways) felt jelous when I talked to a really close friend of mine, I would do it too, just like Khushi is doing!

But I agree, kissing Arnav in front of all of them was not needed. We get it, she's bubbly and all, but that doesn't mean that she doesn't think before going and kissing someone... hmm...

Hope my comment was not offending to anyone! <3

Mes loves u's alls! :D

Originally posted by: sunaina02

Let me clarify one thing -

firstly we are talking about traditional Indian context and

Men , especially south Asian men misunderstand frank and friendly behavior of girls (as they have the superiority complex imbibed in them by their mother from early childhood) and think that the girl has fallen for their manly charms.

Sunaina, I think you are assuming a lot. In india things are changing. Last time when i went back to india, i did not see such things. Infact i have seen many boys and gals roaming around as friends. More over IPKKND is not into much traditionalism. And more over NK's main purpose in the show is to make Arnav realize his feelings, how he can live without Kushi and whether he can see Kushi going with others in-front of his eyes.

WHy should Kushi say that she should go with Arnav? What is difference if she go with NK? Both are trying to flirt her. From Kushi's point of view both are same, but she has feelings for Arnav. Arnav neverr said he loves her, but showed it. The same with NK. Kushi is always naive. She never understood Arnav or NK. We love Arnav and Kushi, but that does'nt mean others are bad.

Originally posted by: sunaina02

WOW - my post got so much response .😃

Thanks everyone . I hit the nail on the head I presume.

Let me clarify one thing -

firstly we are talking about traditional Indian context and

secondly I am not blaming Khushi at all .

If she were my daughter, I would also give her the same warning .

Men , especially south Asian men misunderstand frank and friendly behavior of girls (as they have the superiority complex imbibed in them by their mother from early childhood) and think that the girl has fallen for their manly charms.

So when they are rejected - vengeance burn in them and there are so many killing or raping or acid throwing due to this .

Sorry , i cannot take part in the discussion right now but will try to go through the whole thread when I reach home

Originally posted by: serialjunkie

@bold - yes, lets see what happens tomorrow, it just happened today so we will see how this leads to her next actions.

Agreed. Anjali talked of her pairing with NK. But that doesn't mean anything. That doesn't mean that NK is in love with her, or that Khushi is in love with NK. Hazaar log hazaar baatein bolenge yaar!😆

Originally posted by: Ariel

I dont think ASR ever flirted with La outright. Half the time he barely noticed her. He didnt flirt even when they were dating. During the farak padta hai, his attention was on khushi but he was flirting

with neither women. he stopped immediately when he saw it caused khushi pain. But does khushi stop now?NO!! She is being a little sadistic no?

If khushi was hitting on ASR and he responded by flirting with La then we can equate that to what is happening now. But that didnt happen. Coz we all know how sanskari khushi is right? Not!! But ASR now a single man is flirtingwith her and trying to make her see what she is too stubborn to see but she responds by flirting with NK. Either respond by flirting or asking him why the sudden interest in her or just stay quiet because using NK is not right, makes no sense and doesnt fit in.it just feels out of place . And not to mention it doesnt fit with Khushis character either coz she never knowingly hurts people!! Even if its asr!! she jumps in if anyone even offers him something sweet to eat and now she does this? Seems out of place like i said.

Edit: seeing people talking about morality, i wanted that im not talking about morality. I just dont buy that Khushi would this .

Just my two cents.. Dont mean to offend anyone😊

Originally posted by: frockstar

1 thing i agree with you is, true she is not playing with 2 men. Atleast i dint think she is playing with arnav. He is playing with her!!

rofl rofl! Ya man, Arnie boy is playing with her good!😆 rofl! Such a double meaning dialogue!😆