Lack of Intensity A Different Perspective - Page 2

Shwetha...

lovely analysis...really beautiful perspective...have been feeling the same...the real hatred phase and the intensity cannot come back...though we loved it...but obviously relationships evolve slowly...

Great post, and I totally agree that they can't have that kind of intensity at this stage.
Another factor that they can't be like they used to be with each other is that fact that they're constantly around each other at present, and now their siblings are getting married so they're not at that stage of inferior and superior anymore, and are equals.

BUT, having said that, it didn't mean the CVs would make them act as if they've forgotten what happened earlier completely. The past two-three weeks took them on a rewind mode, and I had wished to see much better than them fighting over haar jeet at a sangeet and behaving like kids. They don't show each other their feelings, but the complete lack of reflection and self-realisation has been a put off. What I wished to see was them beginning to develop an understanding, and have more convos like the one we saw recently at Khushi's house where she asked him "aap aise kyun hain?" which was also cut off abruptly. I'd have wanted Khushi to wonder why Arnav said farak padta hai, and Arnav to question himself on why he broke up with La, some awkwardness between the two...

So yeah, am relying totally on Shyam to bring back the intensity that's flown off somewhere.

Totally agree, we can't expect them to go back to the way things were because they have come a long way since then. The dynamics have changed for both, they are slowly moving towards that next step.

really great analysis... spot on 👏

Shwetha, very well put ... and I agree! Their dynamics have changed considerably from the initial stage ... their relationship has changed, the equations have changed ... earlier she was a nobody whom he hated without even knowing her and she hated for doing what he did to her and her family.

Now he knows what makes her tick ... and although she doesn't still understand him fully, she doesn't hate him any more ... he occupies her thoughts 24/7 ...

I think the cvs are kind of back to the office track, but now showing that they are both hiding from themselves and from each other what they really feel. And hopefully you're right and it WILL lead to them going back to the Diwali days and finding each other ... probably just to the point of confession ... or at least realisation ... and then, BAM the Shyam truth will hit! And then the dynamics will be totally different, if both are in love yet forced to stay apart ... let's see how the cv's take it ... but one thing is for sure ... we need to be very, very patient 😆

Loved those scenes ... I remember what you asked me ... I will do it, I promise 😃

Originally posted by: DiyaS

Shwetha, very well put ... and I agree! Their dynamics have changed considerably from the initial stage ... their relationship has changed, the equations have changed ... earlier she was a nobody whom he hated without even knowing her and she hated for doing what he did to her and her family.

Now he knows what makes her tick ... and although she doesn't still understand him fully, she doesn't hate him any more ... he occupies her thoughts 24/7 ...

I think the cvs are kind of back to the office track, but now showing that they are both hiding from themselves and from each other what they really feel. And hopefully you're right and it WILL lead to them going back to the Diwali days and finding each other ... probably just to the point of confession ... or at least realisation ... and then, BAM the Shyam truth will hit! And then the dynamics will be totally different, if both are in love yet forced to stay apart ... let's see how the cv's take it ... but one thing is for sure ... we need to be very, very patient 😆

Loved those scenes ... I remember what you asked me ... I will do it, I promise 😃

@bold...so true...and @bold and red...something that needs to be pasted in bold and caps on the forum top page next to the banner...for all the impatient girlies out there 🤣

@sbanik: Thank you, and I too hope this is where it is headed.

@smitar: The sangeet is one of the ways to get them talking, arguing just like the old days. Cautious..That is the word.

@prathikri: Thanks.

@MrDarcyfan: I feel Lemme Finish would always be the best phase of their relationship till the CVs come up with something equally fantastic.

The attraction, the passion is slowly coming back. It is as if Rabba Ve went for a vacation and is slowly coming back. You can feel it in their interaction too.

@Appy: 🤗. That was the first ARHI scene I saw while deciding If I wanted to watch this show.

Even though I had no idea who arnav-khushi were or their history, His reaction when he sees her in the cupboard, Shocked and Damn I missed you and their interaction at the pool, This scene for me is the best arhi scene so far.

@showstruck: Lol, with you, afraid to hope too much, but I am seeing the old days coming back, so better wait and watch.

@neverbefore: Yes the intensity can no longer be based on hate and mistrust. It will have to be based on something else like you said the next phase.

Great analysis ... !!! have to agree with you