Call Spade a Spade and a Blindman one!

This is a love story i dig!!

who wants the regular boy meets girl
boy likes girl
he takes her for a date..
she is coy and smiles
she likes the furtive glances and he gives her the come hither glances..
in short aankhon aankhon mein pyaar...and baaki sab... do phoolon ke peeche

i want a passionate love story where "i love you" are the cliched words..and they become redundant..
i want sparks..
i want conflict
i want..what Arnav and Khushi have..

behind the barbs, behind the accusations, behind all the superficial hurtful words the love is so deep that it has layers, layers of passion mingled with who they are... what shapes them... their experiences and their circumstances...

they would move heaven and earth to ensure that the one they love are not bereft, alone or even lonely... and that is where this story has progressed to...

today i see many people see what was said... and are reacting...

i saw something different..

i saw her give a barb to him for he has always... done that to her... they both fight like cats and dogs..
they would rather tear the hair out from each other's head but that's their chemistry... they say the damdest things that they know would hit home... but when push comes to shove...

they will never never leave them to fight their battles alone..

he is the guy who expresses to her... his concern... over a phone... through his actions... that he will never hurt her anymore... he is a changed man... a man who listens to her.. who follows her when he knows she is hurt physically... goes to rescue her for he had put her in danger... he carries her home after she is unconscious... he even gives his shoulder to cry on..

she may say things to him that are equally hurtful... but first to care about his health... also when he needs a mirror...she is that she brings in front of him the reality of what he is doing whether it is to La, Anjali or Nani. Above this, he is the first person she runs to when she is in trouble... be it when her father was in hospital or when she was betrayed...

this to me is love... the anticipation is in them not saying the wrongest things and doing the right things..

the passion is when they find ways to be together... find their own place..

they are confrontational...
they are defensive...
they are who they are... and they both know what they mean to each other...

the words are a cloak... a mask... semantics... what runs between them is fathomless ocean of emotion and passion that on the surface looks like they hate each other...but this is one.. deep pool of love that brings them and keep them together... yet far apart

ego... keeps them apart
and passion brings them together...

they fight... but they will never let the other go...

this is what i saw

i also saw
NK - a smart man... he saw the sparks between them...the dynamics..that run..there..and me thinks he is going to get these guys together...

Naanav.. jo aaj kal maanav bann gaya hai..for why else would he be standing and listening to Khushi who told why she had come..and why she did what she did in the party... why she has a smiling face..rather than crying in one corner...

He is the brain in their relationship and she is the heart... here i go again..with my yin and yang theory...

They are not at opposite end...they are reflection of each other... she completes him and vice versa...

I see a lot of potential where... one day she will rage and he will calm her.. he will be the mirror...and i want that where shyam and her not telling him the truth about him..coming into picture..

i want something to happen to Anjali because of Shyam and her feeling that if she had had the guts to tell the truth to him that day to Arnav..this day could have been saved... if she had had more strength and told the one person.. what was happening..he might have done something and that mirror he should show...

The guilt... the what if... to be brought to fore by Arnav not in accusatory fashion but showing her.. that all the barbs..he had told her... all the words.. that were so called hurtful were to warn her about things..that would rob her of her effervescence... of what had happened to him... the past that he has lived...would become her present... and he would have to show her the mirror... and show her that she has become the bitter, unemotional person that he was before he met her... now that he was changing... the dynamics have moved again..where he has to choose between two most important people... and if only she had told him the truth first... to him... he could have done something about it...

i guess..i have said too much already... here's something to mull over...

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Vrushy...Kya kare...Nand Kishore..tune toh sab kuch bol daala...kuch baaki hi chorra!!!

Thartharte honth mere jo na keh sake chaha ke bhi
behte aansu keh gaye wo sab ankaha sa
aap jo na samjh sake dil ki zuban
aankho se hum hum bayan karte gaye
rakha jo tumne kandhe pe sar apna
hum rote rahe hontho ko bheenche siskiya bharte rahe
kahin tut na jaye tera koi suhana sapna
hum saari umar aansu ko peete rahe!

Janey

me always look at the bigger picture and also a little ahead...!!

me thinks.. what is all this leading to...

for... their love story is not the run of the mill kind now isnt it?

so lets say they say I love you

what next... i would be so bored...

me wants to be at the edge of my chair..

and say freak... she said..that...and he...is equally bad..and then rub my hands gleefully only to look forward to how they are going to make this one up...

and he has become a man who listens to her..where is that man who would have said.. "get out" at the first instance?

today he listened..when she showed him the mirror about his broken relationship..he turned..away... fire too hot...my friend? i wanted to ask Arnav

but then.. i want to look forward to what are they going to do tomorrow... and this kinda confrontation is what...will make me want to watch...

the soppy teenage love story is not what i signed up for anyway!!

wonderful post ... 👏

HI RushTrip

Thank you ! Thank you ! Thank you ! for this post..you have explained their connection so well ! I needed this after all the negativity in forum..i don't know you..but I love you ! :-)

thanks so much

iss pyaar ko kya naam doon... is about

not whether they love each other and if they will say it to each other..

but is it a journey to discover the depths, width and height of their love for each other... for they know..love is what is between them!!

and... in real.. after saying I love you...does the story really begin or it ends?

Originally posted by: Tinkers

Thank you ! Thank you ! Thank you ! for this post..you have explained their connection so well ! I needed this after all the negativity in forum..i don't know you..but I love you ! :-)

thanks tinkers...

i for one... had not liked certain aspects in the last few days..

but today to me is a turn of events.. yet again.. in the kaleidoscope of their relationship (my fav analogy) the pieces have turned once again.. and a new picture shall emerge in the coming episodes...