Anyone else on ASR's side? - Page 9

Might I present a slightly different POV? From the precap it seems lke ASR was mad more because he saw her dancing, and less because of the jalebification of his party. So, the question is, is he angry with her for spoiling his party or just plain jealous? Bit of both maybe? Let's say he's upset she messed with his high-class shindig. (and she had no business doing that...the girl has no respect for boundaries, I agree.) Shouldn't the take down be more on the lines of "I can't believe you did this expressly against my wishes..etc?" I guess he must be a leetle bit jealous, no? OK, then. You're jealous. The girl you like is dancing like a bar girl in a party. Shouldn't the take down sound more like, "Why are you demeaning yourself by dancing to that cheap song with any Tom, Dick and Harry? I don't want you doing that again type of thing." Most likely scenario...seems like a bit of both. He was pissed she messed with his party, and even more pissed to see her dance openly. Does he have a right to be pissed? Surely, yes. Was his take down justified? Dunno...seemed a bit below the belt to me. He chose to focus on the inappropriateness of her actions vis-a-vis her broken engagement. What's that got to do with it other than the fact that he knows where to hurt her and does it really well? If he'd ranted and railed at her to purpose, I'd have been all like, you GO ASR. Tell her what's what. But the choice of subject matter put me off. Lastly, her wanting to desify everything annoys me too. But she knows no better. She hasn't had the exposure to know better. But Arnav Singh Raizada with all the advantages of education and travel surely does. And class comes from an innate ability to conduct oneself well under any situation. Nothing to do with clothes and whatnot. Grace under fire, that's class. As I see it, in the current situation neither Khushi nor Arnav are in possession of an iota of it. Her gracelessness is a result of her ignorance. That's bad, but not unforgivable. His gracelessness is a product of spite. That's worse. Much worse.

My 2 cents. Thanks for a thought provoking post. I enjoyed it and reading all the responses. 😊

Originally posted by: madmaxine

Might I present a slightly different POV? From the precap it seems lke ASR was mad more because he saw her dancing, and less because of the jalebification of his party. So, the question is, is he angry with her for spoiling his party or just plain jealous? Bit of both maybe? Let's say he's upset she messed with his high-class shindig. (and she had no business doing that...the girl has no respect for boundaries, I agree.) Shouldn't the take down be more on the lines of "I can't believe you did this expressly against my wishes..etc?" I guess he must be a leetle bit jealous, no? OK, then. You're jealous. The girl you like is dancing like a bar girl in a party. Shouldn't the take down sound more like, "Why are you demeaning yourself by dancing to that cheap song with any Tom, Dick and Harry? I don't want you doing that again type of thing." Most likely scenario...seems like a bit of both. He was pissed she messed with his party, and even more pissed to see her dance openly. Does he have a right to be pissed? Surely, yes. Was his take down justified? Dunno...seemed a bit below the belt to me. He chose to focus on the inappropriateness of her actions vis-a-vis her broken engagement. What's that got to do with it other than the fact that he knows where to hurt her and does it really well? If he'd ranted and railed at her to purpose, I'd have been all like, you GO ASR. Tell her what's what. But the choice of subject matter put me off. Lastly, her wanting to desify everything annoys me too. But she knows no better. She hasn't had the exposure to know better. But Arnav Singh Raizada with all the advantages of education and travel surely does. And class comes from an innate ability to conduct oneself well under any situation. Nothing to do with clothes and whatnot. Grace under fire, that's class. As I see it, in the current situation neither Khushi nor Arnav are in possession of an iota of it. Her gracelessness is a result of her ignorance. That's bad, but not unforgivable. His gracelessness is a product of spite. That's worse. Much worse.

My 2 cents. Thanks for a thought provoking post. I enjoyed it and reading all the responses. 😊

DITTO that...agreed it wasnt appropriate on khushi's part to desify the party...but this wasn't for herself, it was for her sister, to make her feel somewot comfortable..n lets admit it, the party was so boring...even akash kept throwing hints..lol...so on arnav's part he should have atleast considered who he was throwing the party for while deciding d theme..the guest couple only looked so lost...

As for the precap..just hope this leads to some conversation bw arshi..else, it's same old story!