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Posted: 13 years ago
#31

Originally posted by: serialjunkie



Hi anusarkar, yes I agree with your sentiments. Many people forget that this is a forum and each individual is entitled to
his/her opinion. I've been subject to ad hominem attacks too. unfortunately, a public forum affords anyone the anonymity to hide behind a screen name and hurl offenses at others without regard to logic of others' feelings.
Your strategy is the correct route - IGNORE them.
As intelligent people can have a hearty discussion and agree to disagree, we need to direct our energies at such individuals. rest is fluff and not worth the time.

Look forward to interacting with you in future as well and reading your well-written, cause-driven posts. Thanks for that!!

thanks for acknowledging.I look forward to discuss with you.
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Posted: 13 years ago
#32
Great post Anu!
Very sensible!
Absolutely love the critiquing
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Posted: 13 years ago
#33

Originally posted by: cxw1065

PLEASE stop watching, please stop torturing yourself (and us) by making yourself watch this show you so obviously hate

Anu please dont STOP WATCHING AND do NOT stop commenting!
As long as you are not abusive (which you are NEVER)
I dont think any one should ask you to stop!
Isnt there a CCC for advising people negatively?
I thought we should be free to post FOR and AGAINST view as freely as some gushy fluffly posts😃
PLEASE dont quit Anu
I SEARCH for your topics😃
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Posted: 13 years ago
#34
OFCOURSE! They are degrading marriage
They are degrading the female gender by portraying all THREE leading ladies as dimwits
I fully agree Anu
La is a fool who is not even seeing whats happening in her own house
Khushi is a glutton for punishment by allowing ASR to demean her every week
Anjali is only bothered about pooja and tyohaar
WHY is she is in her parents house?
Is it not Bhartiya sanskar to live with the husband?
Why didnt Shyam and Khushi get introduced yet?
The show has been on for 8 months?
Very sensible post Anu
Splendid!
Thanks for making such intelligent commentary
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Posted: 13 years ago
#35
My prediction is:
Khushi and ASR will be married, he will continue to "hate" her😃
Shyam will NOT get introduced to her until the last show😃
La will spin dreams and hang around with nothing else to do
In typical "Bhartiya naari" style Anjali will forgive him in the last episode.😃
You never know they could show Khushi marry Shyam AND marry ASR😭😭
It will definitely be original IMO
I mean HOW much longer will it be before Shyam's conmanship comes out in the open?
I think the story is riding on deception alone at this point
Its pretty obvious the leads are attracted to each other.
Edited by aditee - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
#36

Originally posted by: anusarkar

... and marraige. It all looks as it has no importance in the society or in relationships !


It depends on the society in which we live
Marraige is a lifelong promise and commitment and engagement is the first step towards that promise.

Agreed

The way you are portraying these rituals is really upsetting and insulting to the sanctity of a marraige. Marraige is an institution.

I beg to differ here. IMHO, so far the CVs have not mocked at any ritual. Infact its the other way round., they have tried to elevate the essence. In addition, there has not been any scene so as to insult the sanctity of a marriage.
It seems as if you are mocking the whole concept: The sequences you have shown till now...
1) First and foremost...Shyam although been married has the liberty to play with two innocent lives...he with Khushi's adopted family forces the poor girl into a forced engagement completely against her will.

Shyam plays the negative role in this show. And people like him are out there in this real world. Yes, he is trying to get into a farce relationship. But that is the ultimate point isnt it ? How Shyam inspite of being an ardent devotee of Devi Mayya tries to sabotage relationships and gets whip lashes in return (read the so called engagement) while Arnav, being angry with Devi Mayya for the hardships he has faced is being helped by Her by sending Kushi to end all his miseries.
2) Shyam is almost getting away with a crime Bigamy ( funny he is a lawyer).

He is trying to get away, but has he really ? No. the series didnt end to make conclusions out of it.
3) You show a dramatic engagement between ASR and Khushi in the tekple with chants and bells. What was the meaning ?

The meaning is, eventhough Kushi and Arnav try to stay away from each other, they cannot. It is destined for them to be a man and a wife. And this is Devi mayya's decision and hence forth her witness along with her blessings.
4) Now, ASR wants an engagement with LA with whom he basically does not even have a friendship.

This is ASR. He is not acting. He is counter-acting ! His decisions once were taken according to his will. But everything changed once Kushi entered his life. He is now taking decisions solely based upon Kushi's actions. He is busy calculating them to prove that he can break her morals, not realizing that he is the one being hurt the most.
Do you really have nothing worthwhile to show other than fake engagements and farce marraiges?
There has not been any fake engagement and farce marriages in this show, atleast according to me. Shyam did not put the ring in her right (left) finger, at the right moment and most importantly with no blessings from the bride's father. So this is no engagement (atleast not ritually).

I would really appreciate that you spare us from ASR and LA engagement, because logically you will be discrediting the whole dramatic supposedly ASR and Khushi engagement...not to mention the trps will go down through the drains.

We really have to wait and see as ASR has only announced his engagement. I am not jumping the gun.
Anyways, I really like Khushi's character in IPKKND and you have managed to degrade her enough...I have begun to lose interest already...I know there are many out there who are in the same shoes as me.

IMHO, Kushi's character is very much intact. Like ASR, she too has too many layers. Its about the matter of patience to peal, analyze and dissect her character.
And I am very much loving this show. It has managed to interest me from day 1 and amazingly, its growing day by day.


Well, thanks for the post.
Edited by pkni - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
#37

Originally posted by: anusarkar

... and marraige. It all looks as it has no importance in the society or in relationships !

Marraige is a lifelong promise and commitment and engagement is the first step towards that promise. The way you are portraying these rituals is really upsetting and insulting to the sanctity of a marraige. Marraige is an institution.
It seems as if you are mocking the whole concept: The sequences you have shown till now...
1) First and foremost...Shyam although been married has the liberty to play with two innocent lives...he with Khushi's adopted family forces the poor girl into a forced engagement completely against her will.
Maybe they want us to assume people from small towns are fools and they will get their daughter married to which ever crook shows up at the door?
2) Shyam is almost getting away with a crime Bigamy ( funny he is a lawyer).
Thank God, they did not show Shyam conning both girls of the family!
That would have been the limit of assuming the audience members are fools, "anything" goes in a love story
3) You show a dramatic engagement between ASR and Khushi in the tekple with chants and bells. What was the meaning ?
Nothing! It means ZILCH! It means even tho WE are rejoicing on the symbolism of the leads engagement, they take her home and show her get engaged to Shyam🤢
4) Now, ASR wants an engagement with LA with whom he basically does not even have a friendship.
This was the best joke of all time
Do you really have nothing worthwhile to show other than fake engagements and farce marraiges?
Unfortunately, yes...
With leads that look so good if only the story telling was a lil sensible😭
I would really appreciate that you spare us from ASR and LA engagement, because logically you will be discrediting the whole dramatic supposedly ASR and Khushi engagement...not to mention the trps will go down through the drains.
Anyways, I really like Khushi's character in IPKKND and you have managed to degrade her enough...I have begun to lose interest already...I know there are many out there who are in the same shoes as me.

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Posted: 13 years ago
#38
n do consider la's point of view too. she has almost changed her lifestyle 4 asr and nw and a broken engagement wil be carrying it too far
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Posted: 13 years ago
#39

Originally posted by: Kamalika..

khushi-shyam engagement is ok, but ASR-LA it is a torture

How is khushi shyam marriage ok ?? Do u think Kh deserves some1 like Shyam Kamalika dear ??😕
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Posted: 13 years ago
#40

Originally posted by: barunroxx7

How is khushi shyam marriage ok ?? Do u think Kh deserves some1 like Shyam Kamalika dear ??😕

khushi shyam engagement ok, not marriage. and it is ok bcoz it was not properly done. no subh muharat. and we all know shyam will get punished. but ASR-LA enagement, lavanya will be hurt later and a big chance lavanya to be vamp. that's why LA-ASR engagement is torture for me

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