Sushpective: Ouch! - Page 9

Originally posted by: ayesha_80

Hey Sush...nice post, as always! And yeah..i love ur profile pic.

In a rush...coz of Eid preps...so, hope can make some sense. Besides...everything has already been said here...so, i don't have much left to say.

Well...most of the ppl are generally writing abt ASR...some hating him for wat he did..and the other's defending his actions. LOL!

Tbh...i'm very disappointed and pissed off by the way he treated Khushi and I don't think there could be any justification for his behaviour. Arey bhai...what is Khushi's fault...that u kept her payal wid u...that u were sooo lost in her that u were on the verge of kissing her...that even a single tear from her eye makes u restless...that slightest of her smile transforms onto your face...that seeing her in pain hurts u?? She has never asked you for anything...then WHY do u want to own her...and when she responds through her eyes...somehow you show her that u wanna disown her?? Its all his own inner battles...a battle of his insecurities, fears, apprehensions, logics, ego...versus his heart that made him lose his cool. But heck...he has NO right to brutally murder the dreams of the girl...dreams that she has barely started to weave and he crushed them ALL mercilessly.

For him...he thing its the ONLY way he can deal with his inner turmoil. The more he hurts her...the more pain he gathers for himself also. But what he doesn't kno is...that the distance his words n actions have started to create...he CANNOT reduce it easily now. Khushi has agreed for the wedding...and ASR will soon have a dose of his own medicine. Atm...his mind is not thinking abt anything else...he just wants to show her how unaffected he is after w/e happened b/w them at the poolside...but at the same time...he is dying to know how it has affected HER...coz he can see it in her eyes. So...as they say...love is a very complicated affair for him at the moment.

Coming to Khushi...i really feel bad for the girl. She's goig through sooo much...on EVERY front. Its like the entire world is against her...and she's standing all alone...on the edge of a long, dark tunnel...waiting for some light...but the one person she was counting on, to show her some light...he also ruthlessly shut her out of his life, making the darkness take complete charge.

What an irony...before even getting on the road...love has made Arhi walk in the opposite directions...but it is this love that will constantly make them cross their paths...ensuring time n again that the direction is set straight and they walk "together" towards their common destination.

I hope...and i'm sure...that very soon, Arnav will realize what he has lost. An impulsive decision from him...followed by what all he said to Khushi...he thinks that he has shifted his entire burden on the young, innocent girl. So wrong he is!! Very soon, he'll realize that its HIM who has lost...or is on the verge of losing everything...So, the burden is very soon gonna multiply for him. The repercussions of his actions and words is very soon gonna hit him. I really HOPE that the CVs don't rush here!!

More than anything else...I want an even stronger Khushi now. I really want her to maintain the "distance" that Arnav has brought b/w them. Its payback time...and i really want that she stands firm now. You kno...when she said that "he's not allowed to have sweets"...It was a much-needed blow for Arnav. Despite putting her through sooo much...she still cares for him...and his heart defo had a dip there. However, i would've prefered if she said the SAME line in a slightly different way...as in...that showed how deeply hurt she is...and even then...she cares!! I HOPE that this time Khushi calls the shots (in a way). Like she refused to go back with him after the Nainital trip...i really want her to be like that now.

Originally posted by: MsUniverse

Hmmm...He has to choose if he is the one making decisions or he is a victim of the decision...! He can't play both cards at the same time!😃

Any way, on a more serious note...your point is that he knows that she knows the truth so he has to try extra hard to distance hislef from her...OK...I understand...But why come after her to give her a ride...why try to talk about it in the car, why come back to her house...all to distance himself? He could have just chosen to not do any of that and there was nothing happening to bring them together...Khushi wasn't chasing him any more...if anything she was running away...

Originally posted by: asha...

Yes that seems to be his MO...

Enjoy your Eid dear! ASR is only a fictitious character...He can have his flaws ...😃

Originally posted by: MsUniverse

oh sush i do not know why keep defending characters and CVs
but i guess somehow i feel IPK has huge potential from CVs side and actors side.

here goes my theory.
i very well understand what you are saying. so lets go back to ramayana and tell me if you think
rama did a mistake by sending sita to forest 🤔
i know the example may be too out of way as of now and Arnav may not have any valid reason as of now to say why he did it and said it

but though i hate arnav for saying those words i know whatever arhi may think or do they are made for each other they will stand by each other in pain and happiness.

thats though there was miss the kiss scene and jaadu was pushed to second spot
i feel the whole song sequence had the upcoming track in it. the guy is so smitten by her
he cant live without her but he gets damn scared about his emotions that were not there for long time coming to surface now tell what the h... he should do.
just see where she goes out of his sight for a second and he looks so lost. and he said
koi faraq nahi padtha 😕 going to repent high time but alone not infront of kushi or others ofcourse. and i guess kushi will forgive him because she loves him and he will protect her when required, did you see the new promo, see he is take care of her 😳

so many times i feel arhi behave like couple in most of the time, he is scared and he vents it out only on her and she got hurt cos she just does not understand their relationship equation but i think she also has that inner strength

but said this the epi where he behaves badly i will be super angry with him and bash him along with you 😉😆😳

Hi Sharu...Yes, I think Ram was wrong in entertaining the ill conceived thought by a dhbobi on Sita's character and punishing her for it...That part of Ramayan does not reflect my values where I think trust between two people is more important than what others are saying...Women have suffered for ages becase of what others will say...it has been too easy to put them down because of that...and it is not right.

Originally posted by: MsUniverse

i do not think so he is playing , me again supporting arnav 😆
i think he just does not realize the enormity of the situation.
he is so used to having he around. let see what he does if she does not come to RM 😕
he is with peace with himself when she is around him, if you see he has reduced the shourting at other people too. but the moment emotions overflow happens and she is also aware of it
he starts running and hurts her and himself because if she is hurt it hurts him also
i think he is fine with loving her also along in his room 😆 he should learnt to take the love from others 😳 and kushi should be able to teach him that she loves him but does not want anything in back 🤔 i guess thats when he will come back on track 😆

and yeah he is fictional so he can be majorly flawed too 😆

Originally posted by: lwfw

@ Bold...when she doesn't come to RM and he finds out about her engagement...he will definitely realize ''the enormity of the situation''...although i do think that he's realized what a big mistake he made by announcing the engagement...and when it comes to hurting her in the process he's hurting himself more

the game thing was just a way of explaining what Arnav is doing...hes going round in circles

arent we all sticking up for arnav 😉