Sushpective: Ouch! - Page 7

Originally posted by: MsUniverse

Lovely discussion peeps! Thanks for keeping the thread alive...enjoyed all the wonderful points made by Priya, Ratna, Princess, Renu, Isita, Sharu, Asha and so many of you! We don't want to give up on him ...do we...😉? Here is the thing guys...what P****d me off today is that he interjected him being a rich guy into the break up...Why on earth does he need to bring up the fact that his keeping the payal close to his heart or not is related to him being rich...!!

I think the rest of it...I don't blame him for...I understand it is his defense mechanism, his ego, his inability to allow himself to anything that remotely resembles losing control...all that is fine..I can understand...but accusing Khushi that some how she would cherish their relationship more because he is rich is inexcusable...He did cheapen their moment by saying so...There was nothing pretty about that!!

Sorry guys...I am not bashing anyone...but what is right is right and what is wrong is wrong...and this aspect of Arnav is just not right...

haha actually sush first time i could not make out what he said, so i had to rewind and hear again
i was when he said amir ladka 😡
but sush dont you think CVs always have a way of putting things subtly
you are p****d for this one sentence now 😆 what will you do when he will insult kushi
before the hate marriage and after words 🤔
all i can say is lets bash him together at that time 😆🤣

he will tell her you wanted money right you get it from me, but my love you wont get it
and all kushi wanted in her life is shaadi and a loving husband 😳
haha but only point is arnav loves her and cant help it whatever he does 😉
i am waiting to see their fight in their bed room away from anjali and naani 😳

Sari

Originally posted by: Priya_128

@sush : yes, while i agree with all the anger he feels and all the pain hes going through...the choice of words he uses doesnt really reflect any of it...like u rightly said some of his words were defi in poor taste...ok make that all of it :D im sure we'd all have loved it if he voiced to her what his true anger was directed at...why hes actually annoyed with her...

does he get her ? this again i dont know...i think he does get her at some random level...seeing the last week on how he preemptively did things for her...but the anger blinds him so much...he forgets it all...

why he regresses into the gold digger bit always too soon... maybe because it soothes his pride (?) it probably makes him rise over the situation so he can tell his mind that chalo di was wrong...this is not love...

if hes doing it as an attempt so that she distances herself away from him and is no longer affected by him...it could be given some merit...but most probably not... !

i dont know...but for his sake i hope they give it a little more depth..

for all the faith that we have in him...i sincerely hope the CVs dont make his character a shallow one...i would love it if they'd show the regret and an attempt to soothe the hurt...even if its an unseen one...

im not sure if im making any sense at all...so i shall stop the ramble :) thanku for a great discussion post...

Originally posted by: incandescent

I wish Shyam wasn't just a lustful psychopath but a cold calculative antagonist with some hidden ajenda. That would have been more fun to watch. Shyam is no match for ASR.

Originally posted by: lwfw

haha actually sush first time i could not make out what he said, so i had to rewind and hear again
i was when he said amir ladka 😡
but sush dont you think CVs always have a way of putting things subtly
you are p****d for this one sentence now 😆 what will you do when he will insult kushi
before the hate marriage and after words 🤔
all i can say is lets bash him together at that time 😆🤣

he will tell her you wanted money right you get it from me, but my love you wont get it
and all kushi wanted in her life is shaadi and a loving husband 😳
haha but only point is arnav loves her and cant help it whatever he does 😉
i am waiting to see their fight in their bed room away from anjali and naani 😳

come on guys, just when our ASR turned into Arnav we were all with him and even forgot Khushi but now when he's back in ASR mode, we are pointing at him. Remember he's Arnav Singh Raizada, he could nail us to the wall too u know!

Originally posted by: cindrella255

@ Shwetha & Sush- I m not saying what he did was right...If some one said the same to me, I wud have buried him next moment
If doing nautanki and hare brained ideas are Kh's flaws...This is his!

And he did dat cos he s aware dat he loves her! He did dat deliberately...
But I don't understand When someone starts open a thread about hating KKG several other posts are started to answer them, But when ASR is crucified people want to kill, want cry along with Khushi, want Khushi to get a new man! 😕 😕

Originally posted by: mommy2000

Loved your post, as always, BTW, changed your profile picture - cool!!

Trying to put a soothing bandaid on the "ouchie"😃

Ok - against the current, but two "anti" theories here 😉
1) He wanted her to hate him, remember him as ASR. It is easier to walk away knowing she will hate him and move on than to leave with her loving him!! He was hurting too!!
2) She walked out just to say thank you and he brought up the rest. decoded in bold (credit for this goes to Geet's post)
Ek ameer aadmi tumhari paayal seene se laga ke baitha tha - holding them close to my heart

Payal or us cheeze ki koi (importance) nahin - they were important

tumhare liye hogi - he knows that she loves him

Ofcourse, she is right now disillusioned and my heart totally goes out to her!!!!

Originally posted by: areeba123hina

come on guys, just when our ASR turned into Arnav we were all with him and even forgot Khushi but now when he's back in ASR mode, we are pointing at him. Remember he's Arnav Singh Raizada, he could nail us to the wall too u know!

I think ASR was at his best in yesterday's episode. He jut wanted to let his system know out loud that he isn't someone who could fell in love. He have himself sealed in and created boundrais around him but Khushi had no problem from the start to break those walls! She was the only person who coulod change him and she was changing him. The kiss made him realize that tioll now it was ok but damn this is getting serious! he needed to built that wall over agai and he knew this time she won't argue back because she got no stamina this time.

Other thing i can say is that m,aybe he wanted her to object his decision and argue him, to give up on herself and fall inlove with him like he always gives up on his self control whenever she's around, and Khushi just showing that nothing mattered to her enraged her. She was testing his patience and he didn't want that pressure! i'm glad CVs didn't chande ASR into Arnav and kept both of them because even in reality we all have two sides of our personality! A strong one and a weak one. For Arnav, ASR is his srong side and Arnav is his soft side.

@bold - 🤣 I wouldn't be half as kind as Khushi was & ASR wouldn't hesitate to show me his badtameez side...🤣

HI Sush ..Tried to keep away but the Forum is very addictive 😊