Khushi's feelings for Arnav (La return update pg4)

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Posted: 14 years ago
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May be this topic has already been discussed to its death...If not, here is one more post to share your views on it...

A few weeks back when Khushi enteredthe RM...we thought OK...now Khushi' feelings for ASR are going to advance ...and she will fall for him ..they way he is falling for her ...She will see his soft side...will have FBs will dream about him and so on...And now we feel a little frustrated that not much seems to be happening in that direction...she is really trying to get LA and Arnav together...Why ...? She is still talking to her Devi maiya that if she gets La and ASR together ...Devi maiya may send a good match for her in reward...we feel a bit disappointed...Some of us have called her naive, some dumb, some of us frustrated with the CVs that they are not moving the story forward...
Lets see what Khushi actually sees and what she feels...
# She is brought into RM for helping La get accepted into the Ra family...by teaching her Hindustani sanskar...She was actually blackmailed to do this. The ultimate mission being making the "union" of La-ASR more acceptable to the family.
# In 80% encounters she has had with Arnav...he has reminded her of how small she is in front of mighty ASR...how different with her midle class mentality and how he thinks that her motivation is to make money...for which she does anything. The only time they have talked as equals was when he aplogized and on Friday...
# Of course, there have been the eyelocks and accidents when they land up in close proximity..and Devi maiyas indications when the marriage duppatta falls on her...but she brushes it off becuase this is suggesting something that is very much against the rest of it.
#Any doubts she may have about brushing it off must be constanly cleared by ...umpteen number of times he has told her to get out of his life and stay out.
# She does see that he is not the Rakshash she thought he was...when she saw him with Anjali..or when he did not get mad at her when she confessed to the pranks she was playing...She talks about it to Payal...she has stopped referring to him as Rakshash...and says people are not what they seem to be. So I think she has taken a major step towards changing her feelings for Arnav...
# Arnav asked he to stay out of the very personal matter of Shraddh...but then came back and apologized for being mean...This was a surprise for her...She is now beginning to see that beyond the hard shell there is a man who feels and has the courage to change when he realizes he was not right.
# She sees La, really trying and sharing with her that she loves ASR...following every advice Khushi has given her...even though it was so much different from who La was...Should she ignore all that and focus on the eye locks she has had with Arnav?
# And for something as simple in her mind as playing the "dress up" with La...that she thinks would have Arnav see La in a different light...they broke up...and now she is leaving for ever. Wouldn't she try to do everything possible to help them overcome this roadblock that she thinks of as a "Lovers quiblle"? She said it very clearly ...just as "sorry bolne se sachchai nahi badalati...its over bolne se rishte nahi khatm hote" ...Thats Khushi for you...thats what she thinks about relationships...
# Could she allow herself to feel anything for Arnav, who she thinks belongs to someone else...who she was helping in the first place with all honesty? And more importantly could she even think about it...when Arnav is fighting the feelings himself...not showing how he feels about her...and telling her to get out of his life...?
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Posted: 14 years ago
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haila sush yes she wont feel anything now.
good points 👏
i do not mind kushi has not feeling for arnav
there will be pull ofcourse but
she cant have till their marriage whatever circumstances it might be
see the FB pics is blah arnav hug real
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Hey Sushi! I said it already ...I love ur to-the-point way of expressing things!

Agree with u completely here...Being brought up in traditional manner, love for her is the thing dat happens after marriage...And above all he s in a relationship so even if she feels the tug she may tend 2 ignore it!

But Sush b4 apology, she said sumthing like "kahaan aap Arnav Singh Raizada aur kahaan hum KKG"...does that just indicate her desire 2 get an apology from him or did it mean something more? I still feel there is some pull in her subconscious level with which she is fighting... or she herself has not realized

And talking about her deal with devi maiyya, she has never expressed her pains with Payal so I think she was cheering herself! I m confused😕

let's c...

Dat was an amazing post yaar!
Edited by cindrella255 - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: lwfw

haila sush yes she wont feel anything now.
good points 👏
i do not mind kushi has not feeling for arnav
there will be pull ofcourse but
she cant have till their marriage whatever circumstances it might be
see the FB pics is blah arnav hug real

Hi Sharu...You may be right...if that is the case...then perhaps they will get to the marriage part soon...😃
What FB pictures? can you sen me the link please?
Edited by MsUniverse - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Khushi should succeed in her mission to make LA acceptable to Arnavs family. But her mission was not to make LA desirable to Arnav . So if we want Khushi to be successful - we should have expected Nani to come and get La back to the mansion .
Yes , Khushi is just disturbed when in physical proximity with Arnav and of course she can tell when Arnav is nearabout.. But her prim, prudent and proper 'middle class' up-bringing will not let her even think of having desire and love for ASR/Arnav while he is officially engaged or 'live-in' status with Lavanya.
So when that will start ?
Does the love for a middle-class girl start only when the she is sure the guy is single or only when the guy puts sindoor on her forehead?
With my experience in life , I personally think love - a relationship between a man and a woman (mind you, not between husband and wife ) is not bound by social norms , it is not pragmatic, it will not settle down only for eligible bachelor / maiden , it will not see whether the other party is married, engaged , belong to same race, religion , cast . It does not calculate the pros and cons , analyze the causes and effects.
Love just happens , spontaneous , without any reason .
The way exactly it happended for Arnav. There is pain in such love but that pain gives pleasure too.
I would have liked Khushi to love Arnav in such a way , without any reason , without any justification .
It seems in Indian TV as in real life only men have the liberty to love unconditionally , women do not
Edited by sunaina02 - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Hey Sush here is the link for the pics

https://india-forums.com/forum_posts.asp?TID=1889954
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: cindrella255

Hey Sushi! I said it already ...I love ur to-the-point way of expressing things!

Agree with u completely here...Being brought up in traditional manner, love for her is the thing dat happens after marriage...And above all he s in a relationship so even if she feels the tug she may tend 2 ignore it!

But Sush b4 apology, she said sumthing like "kahaan aap Arnav Singh Raizada aur kahaan hum KKG"...does that just indicate her desire 2 get an apology from him or did it mean something more? I still feel there is some pull in her subconscious level with which she is fighting... or she herself has not realized

And talking about her deal with devi maiyya, she has never expressed her pains with Payal so I think she was cheering herself! I m confused😕

let's c...

Dat was an amazing post yaar!

Hi Princess...and I wish...I could write poems like you and many other talented people on this board😃😃😃...but I can't so this will have to do...
About the apology...when she said..."kahaan aap Arnav Singh Raizada aur kahaan hum KKG"...does that just indicate her desire 2 get an apology from him or did it mean something more?...My read is that when she said it ..she said it for the apology...not expecting even that...but the fact that Arnav did it for apology...crossed the status divide...indicates (to me) that he may be willing to cross that again for other things...😃😃
Edited by MsUniverse - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago
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when creatives started La track i thought may be we can see some jealousy from khushi side but nothing happened like this???then i thought may be arnav can compare khushi and La and his attraction toward khushi but?????then i thought may be khushi will see hissoft side and develop some spark but????i dont know if no feeling b/w the leads then why this La track????and now our KKG is cheating arnav to write some letter from La and now these plants and card???iif La loves arnav i think she should do these things her own rather then khushi???but she asked the khushi that US NY MOJY ROKNA HO GA TU WO KHUD PHONE KARY GA???so its mean no love from La???so if u love some one there is no ego there???I
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@Sunaina...I have a difference of opinion withyou...I do not equate 'marriage" to "middle class mentality" ...More over I think it is prejudicial to mix some ones view about "marriage" with status or financial background. In the US...belief in traditional values are called "conservative" views...and trust me there are more rich people who have the conservative views than "middle class" people.😊
Edited by MsUniverse - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: MsUniverse

Hi Princess...and I wish...I could write poems like you and many other talented people on this board😃😃😃...but I can't so this will have to do...
About the apology...when she said..."kahaan aap Arnav Singh Raizada aur kahaan hum KKG"...does that just indicate her desire 2 get an apology from him or did it mean something more?...My read is that when she said it ..she said it for the apology...not expecting even that...but the fact that Arnav did it for apology...crossed the status divide...indicates (to me) that he may be willing to cross that again for other things...😃😃



Awww! If u call that as a poem, then it is my first attempt...I hav no experience in poems except some funny rhymes here in forum replies...

V need a reality check to understand what is in her mind...Arnav has to cross! but if he marries for compulsion once again status talks will come in between

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