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monsi08

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Posted: 14 years ago

#101

Arre ... !!! yaar ye tum Jayprakash ko kyun le aati ho beech mein baar baar...
chalo jaldi ye line phir se erase karo.. and bring the senseless kissing 😆

Originally posted by: romantic.chick
chalo... khush ho jaao... but u take it from here Vrush. JP ki line erase kar do...
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CHALO AB JAIPRAKASH KI ENTRY KARTE HAIN'

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--Nargis--

@--Nargis--

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Posted: 14 years ago

#102

Originally posted by: Hot_Indo_Chilly
Okie so I am a lil late in posting my views. Here they go:

1. Arnav knows the diff between a marriage and a live-in
Proof: He clearly tells La to not do things which constitute as wifely duties which he has seen Anji and prolly his maa doing.

2. Why live-in with La and not marriage?
reason:

1. If a successful young man has no female companion...he can be considered gay...and Arnav prolly doesn't want that!!!! 😆

2. He picked la, as she had liberal thinking in the sense she never thought marriage was necessary (again coming to arnav's diff in marraige and live-in)

3. A man always looks for some motherly qualitie sin his wife...Arnav when he first saw Khushi in a saree was mesmerized...in a sense he always viewed ladies in his house in sarees, and withholding their Lucknowi traditions. All the religious things that khushi does, her views on marraige and society represent to him his hidden unacknowledged views.

4. Wit the traumatic speculated past that he had, it can also be a self-defense mechanism, as maybe his belief in marriage has been shattered. No worries KKG will fix that

And there is no way I am agreeing with Shyamua and Arnav being on the same pedestal...😡

If Arnav was MARRIED to a wonderful girl like Anji, he would never have looked at another woman. Even in teh relationship with LA, he did not deceive her. He made it clear: no commitments, take it or leave it. However Shyamua has hidden the fact that he is married (and that too to a sweetie like Anji, wish she was my older sis!) and hell-bent on destroying another innocent girl's life whom he claims to love...he's such a sleazeball...

Hi Abs...so good to see you!!🤗 So then What did he expect out of a LIVE IN with la...if she is not allowed to go near him, cook for him, pick out his clothes, etc... what exactly does this LIVE IN constitute???

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--Nargis--

@--Nargis--

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Posted: 14 years ago

#103

Originally posted by: monsi08
Arre ... !!! yaar ye tum Jayprakash ko kyun le aati ho beech mein baar baar...
chalo jaldi ye line phir se erase karo.. and bring the senseless kissing 😆

I am with Monsi...senseless kissing is good...bring it on!!!😉

Monsi...don't worry...Vrush is continuing...lets see if she gives us what we want!!!😳

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solembaum

@solembaum

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Posted: 14 years ago

#104

I won't say that what ASR is doing is comparable to what Shyam is doing... But I feel it definitely is not right as well on more than one count...

I think one of his main reasons for bringing La home was to thump his nose at Nani... And I think he was prepared to go and live with La also for the same reason... although it was shyam who made it a Live-in at RM... I think his plan was to move out and live with La... to prove a point...

And I am still not sure abt the physical relationship angle... I feel that defly would have been a part of the relationship at some point of time... but he does seem to not be too interested in that either... But she definitely was considered more than a friend by him.. la bringing that cake for some anniversary of theirs and all that ... so there definitely was more than friendship there... Not sure of his motivations... May be just the physical aspect... but even then not those cant keep my hands off you types... While it is La who has always initiated the touching etc... he has allowed her to do that even in office and he has also told her you are one of the few people who is allowed to waste my time... So while La is defly an air head to not realise the difference in a real relationship and the kind he has with her... He is defly not blameless in this scenario...

Now coming to the live-in... he said he doesn't believe in marriage... he doesn't believe in all the reeti rivaz and pooja path... But by bringing her into his home with no thought he has actually put her in a bad situation... He has told her to keep Di happy and Di is happy when nani is also happy... so basically he has told her that she needs to keep Di and Nani happy... so although she has no rights on him and he is not interested in her, he happily expects her to do what it takes for Di to be happy... which amounts to being trained by Khushi to become a bharatiya naari and bahu... which is like u do the duties towards the family... but leave me out of it and I dont give a damn about you... If he is so unconventional and wants to have a live-in he should have told his Di and Nai that he wont stand for any attempted make overs of La... he doesn't do that either... so ultimately he is making her face all the rudeness from his Nani and all the makeover attemts by Khushi... and when the makeover is working he is giving her attittude... and behaving rudely and totally inconsiderate...

True La should realise by now there is nothing in this... But Arnav Singh raizada definitely owes her an apology... and a big one at that... She had not asked him for the live-in... he proposed the arrangement and gave her a quasi official status... the least he can do is treat her right and release her from this misery... I hope she realises soon and moves out in a dignofoed way and hopefully ASR remembers the Arnav mode and tenders that much required apology to her ... unqualified apology for breaking her heart...

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solembaum

@solembaum

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Posted: 14 years ago

#105

Originally posted by: adits7
@nargis :i remember in d initial office epis..hw laa used to call herself as ASR's GF n tk sum footage der..😆

only Anjali knew abt Arnav's frndship wid lavanya ...n she hd said dt shez sure dt he isnt in love wid laavanya to which he did agree...if u remember Arnav-anjali convo dt 1 day he ll meet a girl widout whom he wudnt imagine his life...he wudnt be able to breath etcetc...ASR replied dt wud nva happen...da means he nva mentioned laa as dat girl

the matter ws made worse by khushi who puked abt laa-ASR frndship to naani..she taught it ws an affair..pyaar types...

nyway i get ur point ...ASR's ego at times mkes him do things which he shudnt hv...lk i mentioned b4 lavanya ke liye ek sorry toh banta hai..shez gone out of her way to fit in his family widout his response...

Anjali and Mami had also considered La his girlfriend... and La had also made it clear to Khushi that she is the GF... and the kind of things she saw in office between ASr and La anyone would think the same... and her saying abt it to nani was a clever thing by nani which made her feel that Nanai knew abt La and Arnav...

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@Hot_Indo_Chilly

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Posted: 14 years ago

#106

Originally posted by: --Nargis--

Hi Abs...so good to see you!!🤗 So then What did he expect out of a LIVE IN with la...if she is not allowed to go near him, cook for him, pick out his clothes, etc... what exactly does this LIVE IN constitute???

Nags...He's too traumatized with his past to give anyone the commitment required in a marriage which he has witnessed. That's why he picked La believing that she never pressure him for marriage, but KKG did her magic and turned teh tables on him. He is emotionally drained, and doesn't want to deal w/ it. And live-in because he knows that there are no commitments, he can walk away from it whenever he pleases to (unlike marriage, where he's stuck for eternity...I feel bad for Anji saying this eternity thing...) and the fact that if he keeps a girl on his arm as eyecandy, the image taht will it will generate in teh press would be that of ASR and his GF...not other speculations by teh media liek Is Raizada empire's dashing young CEO ASR gay? And then this would bring nani to delve highre into squashing all this rubbish by insiisting that he marries, and Hello Hi Bye Bye prolly faintwa jaayegi eiii khabar padhkar noozpaper ma! 😆

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Radhe1085

@Radhe1085

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Posted: 14 years ago

#107

Originally posted by: --Nargis--

Radhe...If La was a friend...then why not ask a friend for help...and ask her to FAKE a LIVE IN...then she would have had no expectations out of this relationship...no? ASR is a brilliant businessman...I would think that he could have come up with a mutually beneficial proposal for both him and La...and still have kept Naani and the Marriage Mamas at bay...no??

Oh quite a discussion going on, I am not able to work here. I had to read 3 to get what Vrushali wanted to say, Vrush don't take it personally. You see I am busy with work and you gave such a good explanation of defense mechanism theory, I think I am going nuts.

May be I need some hot lemon chai just like Arnavbaba😆

Nargis, oh gosh I will be back. have to go sorry

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--Nargis--

@--Nargis--

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Posted: 14 years ago

#108

Originally posted by: Radhe1085

Oh quite a discussion going on, I am not able to work here. I had to read 3 to get what Vrushali wanted to say, Vrush don't take it personally. You see I am busy with work and you gave such a good explanation of defense mechanism theory, I think I am going nuts.
May be I need some hot lemon chai just like Arnavbaba😆

Nargis, oh gosh I will be back. have to go sorry

NP Radhe... I understand...i am on a conference call as well right now... and i agree that work is very distracting!!! LOL!!😆 Go concentrate on work...i shall have JP bring you some nice hot lemon tea right away!!! Do come back later to continue this discussion!!

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-RushTrip-

@-RushTrip-

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Posted: 14 years ago

#109

Ah now my defense mechanism in play i am trying to continue where Chick left off..

lets see if the collaboration works..

me jumping straight in..ok!!

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monsi08

@monsi08

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Posted: 14 years ago

#110

Arree ooo Vrush titaliya... tayar hua ki naahi... intezar mein baal safed huyi gaye Nandkisorrr...

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Originally posted by: --Nargis--

I am with Monsi...senseless kissing is good...bring it on!!!😉

Monsi...don't worry...Vrush is continuing...lets see if she gives us what we want!!!😳