Angry all day, no where to go

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If ever there was a day where I understood why ASR was so pissed off, it was today. Whereas before we had to chalk up his raging personality as a byproduct of his painful past (or lack of adequate fiber or sweets), today I got his rage.

Here is a self made man, ego the size of Mount Gibraltar, battling himself when it comes to Khushi. He is trying, oh how he is trying to be the rude boss, but he can't and he curses himself for it. She has come into his home to give her resignation by telling him to take his job and shove it while he can enjoy his first class ticket to hell, and he hasn't had a chance to respond. Not only that each and every time he has tried to have a conversation with her, she has walked away.

Side note on Khushi's walking away - I still don't get this - she is itching for this guy, she is dreaming about him, she is palating while telling herself don't do it and admits that she feels something is unfinished - and even still she doesn't allow a conversation. And please don't say it's because he treated her so badly she doesn't want to speak to him because she had no problem telling him in the storeroom he needs to stop giving gyan to other people and if that be the case, she shouldn't have expected him to be gentlemanly and given her the first cup of water. If you are going to dish it, be prepared to take it. (and actually this goes for ASR also - they each are so bad at this)

Okay back on ASR (not literally, but I know how many people are relishing the idea). In the storeroom, he is very clearly at a loss of how to deal with her, he keeps saying listen, literally chasing her until he corners her and says listen to what I have to say - so she tells him open the door first. So, Arnav Clark Singh Kent Raizada bashes down the door because he takes her at her word, and lo - she says she's not listening to him and walks out and also adds in and I'm leaving for Lucknow, leaving him gobsmacked and yelling her name.

So, what we have in ASR is the fallout of the resignation, of him being attracted to her, of him feeling vulnerable, of him hating himself for feeling like this, of him wanting to speak to her, and of him feeling manipulated when he opens the door and she walks out telling him she's leaving town. The only way a man like ASR can process this is through his go to emotion - anger.

So he goes home and he is FUMING at all the emotions he can't get a handle on and the things left unsaid. I got your anger today ASR, you are entitled to it. Now learn to cope.


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Posted: 14 years ago
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Call Arnav to our store-room 😆 I will give a serious reply later
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: momma1128

If ever there was a day where I understood why ASR was so pissed off, it was today. Whereas before we had to chalk up his raging personality as a byproduct of his painful past (or lack of adequate fiber or sweets), today I got his rage.

haha good post 👏 , trying to find the reasons 😳 his anger really scares me 😭😭


Here is a self made man, ego the size of Mount Gibraltar, battling himself when it comes to Khushi. He is trying, oh how he is trying to be the rude boss, but he can't and he curses himself for it. She has come into his home to give her resignation by telling him to take his job and shove it while he can enjoy his first class ticket to hell, and he hasn't had a chance to respond. Not only that each and every time he has tried to have a conversation with her, she has walked away.

The point is why he wants to talk to he 😳 because unknowingly he is used to her talking .
he does not know what happened but feels something amiss.
I am not sure even if kushi stood there and asked him fine now tell me he would have told her something 😭 cause i think he also do not know what to tell her 😛
but one thing is clear he knows he did not do right thing with her so he does not want to force himself this time, poor guy giving her the option and she picks which she thinks is right .
i felt bad for him, his life has taken a sudden turn and the reason for it is being unreasonable and for the first time he does not know how to deal with it 😭😭


Side note on Khushi's walking away - I still don't get this - she is itching for this guy, she is dreaming about him, she is palating while telling herself don't do it and admits that she feels something is unfinished - and even still she doesn't allow a conversation. And please don't say it's because he treated her so badly she doesn't want to speak to him because she had no problem telling him in the storeroom he needs to stop giving gyan to other people and if that be the case, she shouldn't have expected him to be gentlemanly and given her the first cup of water. If you are going to dish it, be prepared to take it. (and actually this goes for ASR also - they each are so bad at this)

And i think she is right. anytime he said anything to her either it was putting her in trouble
or shouting at her or hurting her or putting her down and making her life mess by one more point. she knows its enough so she scares what he will say so she just does not want to listen.
i felt that she thinks that all this happened cause she talks to much . so she does not want to talk
poor girl i felt bad for her when she was talking to her devi maiyya 😭


Okay back on ASR (not literally, but I know how many people are relishing the idea). In the storeroom, he is very clearly at a loss of how to deal with her, he keeps saying listen, literally chasing her until he corners her and says listen to what I have to say - so she tells him open the door first. So, Arnav Clark Singh Kent Raizada bashes down the door because he takes her at her word, and lo - she says she's not listening to him and walks out and also adds in and I'm leaving for Lucknow, leaving him gobsmacked and yelling her name.

@ he is at loss about how to deal with her , he would have been angry like before , he is angry but he cant hurt her 😳 he can break things actually the way he threw water cup and phone
oh he was in such a rage but he wont do anything to her 😳

so nice of him to break the door , he is ready to do anything so that she will listen to him
does that mean that kushi will again push him till the limits and he comes to a conclusion
that only forcing her makes her do things 😕
This may come in handy for the future track
marriage or otherwise


So, what we have in ASR is the fallout of the resignation, of him being attracted to her, of him feeling vulnerable, of him hating himself for feeling like this, of him wanting to speak to her, and of him feeling manipulated when he opens the door and she walks out telling him she's leaving town. The only way a man like ASR can process this is through his go to emotion - anger.

yes but the very object of his anger cant take the brunt of his anger now, so what will be his next step !! oh show is getting so interested that i just wish it becomes a movie and gets over in 3 hours 😆


So he goes home and he is FUMING at all the emotions he can't get a handle on and the things left unsaid. I got your anger today ASR, you are entitled to it. Now learn to cope.

thank god naani did not open blah chapter but blah called but it does not have any impact on him . she does not create any amount of feeling in him . a safer space for ASR


But i felt bad for kushi too 😭 she is so much restless that she thinks that going back to lucknow will make it as before , but it will not right 😭


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Posted: 14 years ago
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Awesome post
He too have to learn to adjust with others. Everytime others are adjusting with him.
This habit is not at all good
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Very well said anu.ASR's anger today was very much acceptable.
Even in his anger that guy listens to khushi,bashes the door down expecting her to listen to his words as she said she will,But she made him more pissed by not even giving him a chance.
Bandhe ki baat toh sun ne chahi ye usko!!
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Posted: 14 years ago
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@bold blue - but that is my point - if she does not want to listen for fear of what he will do, what is the purpose of being snarky in the storeroom with him and telling him he should stop telling people what to do? And I really found that door bit totally manipulative. You are right, her mouth is the thing that has gotten her in trouble each and every time since coming to Delhi. Do you feel that with the resignation letter, she bit off a little more than she could chew and now is scared of the repercussions?? That's how I am seeing it.

@underlined - Sanaya was great in that last scene, she was trying to convince herself that the best decision in her life will be to move to Lucknow - it was so half hearted - she didn't believe it for a second.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: rechup

Awesome post

He too have to learn to adjust with others. Everytime others are adjusting with him.
This habit is not at all good


I don't want him to adjust with others - i want him to allow for differences and not think that people are beneath him if they disagree with him. I love the way ASR is, I just don't want him to fly off the handle as readily - but an ASR that all together stops being angry is not ASR. I quite like the growl.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: ktms

Very well said anu.ASR's anger today was very much acceptable.

Even in his anger that guy listens to khushi,bashes the door down expecting her to listen to his words as she said she will,But she made him more pissed by not even giving him a chance.
Bandhe ki baat toh sun ne chahi ye usko!!


I know Shalu - I really thought she was being extraordinarily pigheaded and somewhat immature. If you do not want to listen to him, don't play games. Say it out loud and then also don't instigate him by saying you need to stop telling people what to do. Like I said, if you are going to dish it, you have got to take it. She took it from him and she gave it back in her resignation and now she's avoiding the consequence and her own feelings.
Edited by momma1128 - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago
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For some reason, I liked his anger.. Angry all day, well thats true but he was angry coz Khushi wasnt listening to what he wanted to say.. Maybe he wud have been sober after that but Khushi put the bomb of her going to Lucknow leaving him devastated.. He has reacted normally.. 😳
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: mishti_17

For some reason, I liked his anger.. Angry all day, well thats true but he was angry coz Khushi wasnt listening to what he wanted to say.. Maybe he wud have been sober after that but Khushi put the bomb of her going to Lucknow leaving him devastated.. He has reacted normally.. 😳


I like his anger too - it is just that too I felt it was totally justified - for his character today. She pushed his buttons.

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