JUST A REALITY CHECK (Trust and Truth in Lieu of Lies) .

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akashavani

@akashavani

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Posted: 10 years ago

ASHLOK... though seem to be slowly bonding with eachother. ..Deeply and Emotionally TOO...WITH LOVE...ISS BAAR ...as well as ... trying to help eachother in concern for eachother ...in Everyway and their Ownway . ...still seem to be having ...TRUST ISSUES and LIES . ...between them ...though in concern for eachother and.. A GOOD CAUSE TOO...which could lead to A MISUNDERSTANDING EVEN IN FUTURE ... which needs ...A BIG REALITY CHECK ... BUT WITH ...LOVE AND UNDERSTANDING : ISS BAAR...

WHITE LIES OR DARK LIES ... THOUGH WORK FOR SOMETIME ...AS INSTANT SOLUTION'S. ... NEVER WORK. ... CONSTANTLY ...ESPECIALLY IN... A LIFE LONG RELATIONSHIP. ...BASED ON LOVE AND TRUST...AND SO CHECKMATE US WITH HURDLES ...BAAR BAAR...AS KARMA ...

WHILE TRUTH THOUGH HARD AND HIDDEN CONSTANTLY. ..COMES OUT...INSTANTLY...BAAR BAAR...EK BAAR PHIR...LIKE THE SUNLIGHT IN OUR FACE AWAKENING US ...TO REALITY OF LIFE AND OURSELF .. THAT IT IS ONLY ... THE TRUTH...THAT TAKES US ON THE PATH OF LIFE ...WHICH FINALLY LEADS US TO FIND ...OUR OWN TRUE IDENTITY. ...FOR ETERNITY. ...

BUT SOMETIMES IT IS SAID...IN LIFE AND DEATH AND DIRE CIRCUMSTANCES ...THAT LYING IN RELATIONSHIP OR BUSINESS...IS JUSTIFIED...AS LONG AS ...THE WAY IS TRUTHFUL ... TOWARDS :::::::A PURE AND TRUE GOAL...MAYBE IN KARMA(BUSINESS) ...BUT NEVER IN ..DHARMA :

THOUGH LOVED ASTHA'S ideas of setting up food truck business...by her own Talent and Solutions ...as many woman are worn to do ...even rich ones...the real entrepreneurs...in they own way. ... Helping the Household in PARTNERSHIP WITH HUSBAND... ..loved Astha's way of bargaining with the second hand goods salesman ..,.who himself understood her need and so helped her in Deed ...and so accepted...the Bargain. ...loved Bappa like MB Choksi's timely help in lieu of Astha's help to him in DEED...and did whatever was possible to him ...to decorate and repair the goods...AND LOVED SHLOK'S HELP AND ..HIS REALITY CHECK TO BIWI TOO ...CAUSE...SHLOK. is a VERY GOOD BUSINESSMAN ...who though didn't understand the trails and hardships of... A Common man ..., . STILL HAD COMMON SENSE ...and His Business sense and Finance trials ...INTACT...AS SHLOK WAS RIGHT TOO...that own business without PROPER. .PRIOR knowledge could turn out to be A TROUBLE WITH A CAPITAL T...SOMETIMES. ...along with ...Telling Astha ... that SHLOK could not help her in anyway ...as he didn't have the know how or proper knowledge of hotels works...BUT allowed Astha to follow ...HER DREAMS ...WITH... HIS MORAL SUPPORT ...MORE IMPORTANT ...THAN ANY GAINS ... TO ASTHA .

BUT EVEN though ASTHA'S' LIES to SHLOK ...about selling or using .Ajju's gold coins ..in lieu for Money ...to set up the food truck business. ..., was good to a certain extent for... A GOOD CAUSE ... As women sometimes do need to LIE maybe to smoothe out problems ...OUT of concern for financial problems and dwindling hope of ...SHLOK finding ..A Proper Job..without Proper Certificates or with ..His Own Ability...BUT ASTHA is definitely wrong NOW ..to hide about the Gold Coins ... from SHLOK...who already questioned her in doubt of her Truth ... .. who already has trust issues. ..with Aai and Baba..goingvto the point of suicide too ...and has left Baba...Name and Riches too ...for being betrayed in trust...and has come out ...with Trust in only Astha. ...and also told Astha ...to use the gold coins ...after His Death out of Pride and Selfrespect ...ESPECIALLY...When Choksi and Apsara. ...the ALL and SUNDRY...whom everyone thinks is Unnecessary and Cheap ...BETWEEN ASHLOK ...knows the TRUTH...that Astha is Lying and Hiding to SHLOK HIMSELF. .. what will...TRUTH DO TO SHLOK...WHO NOW ONLY HAS ..ASTHA'S TRUST .and ...HIS PRIDE AND SELFRESPECT. ...IN LIEU OF RICHES...BABA AND NAME ...SHLOK LEFT BEHIND ..FOR LOVE AND TRUST..

SHLOK DIDN'T TRUST ASTHA TOO ..cause He knows Biwi well and her Penchant for LIES and Trouble too ..went to enquire Choksi out of concern for her ...and listened to Apsara's words ...even though the only reason was concern for Astha's failure and innocence. .. nothing else as ...She didn't know anything about setting up a Business . ...Small or Big...without A REALITY CHECK...which could lead to myriad financial and Political problems in future ...Especially when they were still not stable in anyway ...and so enquired with Choksi too with concern for Astha's ...Own Safety and Success too ..AS her Responsible Husband ...and ...WHO very confidently told Apsara. ...that Astha would never LIE TO HIM ..and so had left the door open to show ...Apsara ...Astha's innocence AS PROOF ...while questioning Astha ...to show the Gold Coin ..even though he himself was not Trusting Astha fully ... as Shlok knew Astha's pechant for White Lies or for Good Causes too. ...But was satisfied with Astha showing him the Gold coins in front of Apsara ...SO THAT ...Apsara will never again use Astha's lies to come BETWEEN ASHLOK in future...AND then Closed the... DOOR ON APSARA'S FACE IN REJECTION .

BUT what will happen when shlok thinks he had being made ...A FOOL.. in front of Choksi and Apsara who are outsiders AND whom Astha trusted more than him ...WHICH could make Shlok angry...OR Shlok may understand Astha's need to help him and forgive Biwi WITH LOVE ...BUT where own family members could not be trusted sometimes too.leave alone outsiders .PEOPLE LIKE APSARA ...and could take easy Advantage in future too against both ASHLOK which is not good for a HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP. ..AT ALL...ESPECIALLY ...in a strange place ...where Ashlok only have eachother...to depend on ...in everyway. ...WITH TRUST...understanding. ..and A REALITY CHECK ...OF ... What to do or not do ...THE Situation. .Circumstances. ...persons ...GOALS TOO...NEVER TO COME BETWEEN ...ASHLOK AT ANY COST.

SHLOK didn't LIE to Astha about His Job ...only postponed telling her ...about it ...till the Opening ceremony of the ...Food Truck ...in Concern of ...Astha's fear and enthusiasm. ...about setting up own business. ...and her tall dreams of making it A Big Success. ...NOT to spoil her Happiness...and Shlok helping Astha with the opening ceremony ...even though he had to go to office on time on the first day...which he might loose if late ...SHOWING that now SHLOK'S CONCERN for ASTHA. ...THAT ASTHA AND HER DREAMS ...was more important to him than HIMSELF. ...without Pride too...NOW...

ASTHA has always convinced SHLOK ...to follow the good path ...with just her ...unconditional love and nothing else...so even now can lovingly convince shlok ...with just her TRUST and LOVE...SHLOK NEEDS THE MOST ...Nothing else... ek baar phir.

HOPEFULLY IMPULSIVE ASTHA ...WHO HERSELF SAYS ...TRUTH THOUGH HIDDEN DEEP WITHIN LIES ALWAYS COMES OUT ..BAAR BAAR ... ...WILL HERSELF FOLLOW HER OWN ADVICE... AND TELL THE TRUTH to SHLOK...WHO HATES LIES AND SO HAD HATED ASTHA ONCE FOR LIES .. ... AND NOW LEFT BABA TOO..FOR BREAKING HIS TRUST WITH LIES ...WITH ASTHA HERSELF ...REVEALING BABA'S LIES FOR TRUTH ..BUT NOW LIED HERSELF TO SHLOK ...HOPE SHLOK will accept ASTHA'S TRUTH with LOVE AND UNDERSTANDING...if not ...TRUST ...will become an serious issue. ...in ASHLOK'S future ...creating MUs between ASHLOK...ALL AND SUNDRY. ..TAKING ADVANTAGE OF IT ..CREATING MUS ...AND COMING BETWEEN. ... ASHLOK THEMSELVES. ...BAAR BAAR. ...

Today ASTHA has opened her ..Food Truck with Aai Anjali's name ..and HOPEFULLY BE A SUCCESS ...and ...SHLOK HIMSELF has finally told Astha about the...Job opportunity in...A Large Institutes Like Agnihotri's...Where his presentation with his experience could get him a BETTER JOB ...WITH HIS OWN ABILITY...OR... maybe someone will recognise him as ..SHLOK AGNIHOTRI...and give him the JOB or not OR WILL FINALLY MEET ...GAURAV CHOPRA... ...LETS SEE...what happens ...

SHLOK ...today talked to AAI ANJALI. ..with an emotional deep hurt that he had left his mother in a ashram...when he hated to do so...due to his own circumstances. ...just like astha lied too ... .. ..due to NEED...and Shlok kissed biwi affectionately. ...for naming the truck ...on Aai Anjali. ...and love for Astha too...who in her own way ...always tries to help shlok and family ...without a thought to herself. ...so in future ...Shlok too willl not allow any ...MUS...to come between . ..., ASHLOK AT ALL.

HOPEFULLY SHLOK WILL GET THE JOB...AND ASHLOK WILL MOVE TO.. A BETTER AREA...AND BETTER ACCOMODATION TOO...EK BAAR PHIR...HOPEFULLY. ...WAITING EAGERLY .

I AM NOT CRITISING ...ASTHA FOR LYING ...FOR A GOOD CAUSE. ESPECIALLY WHEN NEEDED TO LIE .BUT HIDING...THE TRUTH FROM SHLOK ..WHO HAS TRUST ISSUES. ...IS DEFINITELY A MISTAKE...CAUSE SHE KNOWS SHLOK'S ANGER AND HATE ...WITH FIRSTHAND EXPERIENCE. ...BUT ONLY THAT NOW ...ASTHA NEEDS TO TELL ..THE TRUTH TO SHLOK ...FOR THEIR OWN GOOD ..AND LOVING RELATIONSHIP TO BE ...STRONG AND UNDERSTANDING. ...NOTHING ELSE...IF NOT ...THERE WILL NOT BE ANY DIFFERENCE BETWEEN. ...ASTHA AND BABA TOO...BOTH FOR THEIR OWN CAUSE ...GOOD OR BAD...ARE HURTING ONLY SHLOK ...WHO LOVES THEM ...VERY MUCH ...

Edited by akashavani - 10 years ago

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Kamal kulshreshta

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Posted: 10 years ago

Awesome superb analysis...Vani...

i agree with each and every word u have written

BUT what will happen when shlok thinks he had being made ...A FOOL.. in front of Choksi and Apsara who are outsiders AND whom Astha trusted more than him ...WHICH could make Shlok angry...OR Shlok may understand Astha's need to help him and forgive Biwi WITH LOVE ...BUT where own family members could not be trusted sometimes too.leave alone outsiders .PEOPLE LIKE APSARA ...and could take easy Advantage in future too against both ASHLOK which is not good for a HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP. ..AT ALL...ESPECIALLY ...in a strange place ...where Ashlok only have eachother...to depend on ...in everyway. ...WITH TRUST...understanding. ..and A REALITY CHECK TOO...of What tobdo or not do ...depends on ...Situation. .Circumstances. ...persons ...GOALS TOO.

@bold red

exactly my views

Shlok listened to Apsara ,an outsider...wrong...Astha taking help from outsiders and hiding the coins truth from her own husband...truly wrong

wat made Shlok that he went to Chowksi and confirm abt Astha's statement...he dont trust her even now or he is very much possessive abt Astha's happiness...

one more thing,Astha showing him artificial coins...she already bought those one to show to Shlok as proof...y...a criminal mind can only think abt this ...

one can never hide truth...Astha is hiding the truth...jus like NA did...Astha was hell bend to show Shlok NA's truth...now she is also following the footsteps of NA.

I want Astha to be successful in her food truck buss...else Shlok will stop trusting Astha ..and that can negatively impact on thier relationship after GC's entry...Shlok cant see a sad face of Astha and i cant see sad face of Shlok,if it ever happens bcoz of Astha.

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Simii14

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Posted: 10 years ago

Superb Analysis ..👏

My short view only about ASTHA .. At the moment looking at survival in mumbaiand circumstances in Ashlok Life ..What Astha did was very wrong but her thought were not wrong, nobody is perfect in this world , She crossed her limit by replacing the coins temprorily thinking, once money will start coming, she will replace it back and shlok wont know It is bad idea but she did with good thought process..thats how i see this situation,

I would not say she made shlok fool all , she cannot dream to make shlok fool infront of anyone or disrespect him, C'mon this girl left everything to be with her husband, its just the situation made her chose that path inspite of knowing SHE HAS DONE WRONG It is wrong what she did and she will pay the price ..and I am sure Shlok will Understand her pov one day and forgive her ...

Everyone doest mistake and Astha is doing also ..

Coming back to Shlok questioning her infront of Apasara openly was not very nice.. CVs should separate Apsara from Ashlok CONVO 😕

Finally Shlok got a job he was looking and I am sure he will do much much better , Let see how this track shape it up ..hope it will be interesting

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nandu_nan

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Posted: 10 years ago

Wow vanni as usual a beautiful analysis loved it...
hope shlok s job will b a perfect one for him ...

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akashavani

@akashavani

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Posted: 10 years ago

Thank you gals...@Deepa@Divya@SRI@Siimi@Nandu...will be back soon...to reply.

Siimi...Agree with you ...added the last para...please read...will come back with more comments...later.

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Swathiya

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Posted: 10 years ago

Vani

Nice Review!!!!

''SHLOK DIDN'T TRUST ASTHA TOO ..cause He knows Biwi well and her Penchant for LIES and Trouble too ..went to enquire Choksi out of concern for her ...and listened to Apsara's words ...even though the only reason was concern for Astha's failure and innocence. .. nothing else as ...She didn't know anything about setting up a Business . ...Small or Big...without A REALITY CHECK...which could lead to myriad financial and Political problems in future ...Especially when they were still not stable in anyway ...and so enquired with Choksi too with concern for Astha's ...Own Safety and Success too ..AS her Responsible Husband ...and ...WHO very confidently told Apsara. ...that Astha would never LIE TO HIM ..and so had left the door open to show Apsara ...Astha's innocence AS PROOF ...while questioning Astha ...to show the Gold Coin ..even though he himself was not Trusting Astha fully ... as Shlok knew Astha's pechant for White Lies or for Good Causes too. But was satisfied with Astha showing him the Gold coins in front of Apsara ...SO THAT ...Apsara will never again use Astha's lies to come BETWEEN ASHLOK in future...AND then Closed the... DOOR ON APSARA'S FACE IN REJECTION .''

I can not support Aastha's impulssive lying, in the same time I hated SHLOK's behaviour with Aastha after listening to Apsara!!! - Why he had to prove to an outsider about his personal relationship/ ?? How could he allow someone to talk against his BIWI to him??? A husband -wife relationship is very personal, No third party should be allowed to interfere, any husband or wife should not discuss about each other to an outsider!!!!!! - I would have been bad with my husband if he would have done this to me!!!!!!!

They should sort out their own issues in a closed door , not in front of others!!!!

I can not approve SHLOK's action!!!!!! It was very humiliating for any wife!!!!

Why Apsara would be allowed to use Aastha's lies to come between ASHLOK - it seemsto me he can not trust himself even!!!!!! SHLOK knows his BIWI very well!!!!!! He does not need to prove anything to others!!!!! He has accepted AAstha the way she is!!!!

''By shutting the door andSaying sorry'' could not be acceptable, He can yell at his wife in closed door and be polite in front of an outsider - This is the normal mannerism!!!

Aastha's lying at that moment to cool him down and to maintain her respect in front of Apsara was acceptable to him for that moment , BUT SHE MUST TELL THE TRUTH TO HER HUSBAND in a quiet time when he would not be in an angry mood or would not be tired afterr coming back from work !!!!!

But making a ''FAKE COIN'' beforehand - to befool hubby was not acceptable!!!!!!

It is reflecting weakness of her character, she was not only concernd about hubby's extreme anger, but also was concerned that he would be upset!!!! He was already going thru a tough time getting rejection one after another!!!!!

She herself must show the reason to hubby for her action!!!!!!!

Aastha is not going to set up a big hotel for what you need experience , big money & man power!!!

Starting a small food stall by the side of the road - you do not need much experience/ man power or money power1!!!!! - Do not we see this type small scale businesses are run often by the house wives when their husbands are facing problems?????

I have seen/ heard about many like that!!!!!

SHLOK should not openly discuss about AAstha's nature even to MB !!! he is exposing Aastha's weakness to an outsider once again!!!! MB could loss his confidence in AaStha very easily!!!!

I could not accept any of their actions in this respect - but this is reality of life - often we act but think later!!!!!!!

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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: Sathia007
Vani
Nice Review!!!!

''SHLOK DIDN'T TRUST ASTHA TOO ..cause He knows Biwi well and her Penchant for LIES and Trouble too ..went to enquire Choksi out of concern for her ...and listened to Apsara's words ...even though the only reason was concern for Astha's failure and innocence. .. nothing else as ...She didn't know anything about setting up a Business . ...Small or Big...without A REALITY CHECK...which could lead to myriad financial and Political problems in future ...Especially when they were still not stable in anyway ...and so enquired with Choksi too with concern for Astha's ...Own Safety and Success too ..AS her Responsible Husband ...and ...WHO very confidently told Apsara. ...that Astha would never LIE TO HIM ..and so had left the door open to show Apsara ...Astha's innocence AS PROOF ...while questioning Astha ...to show the Gold Coin ..even though he himself was not Trusting Astha fully ... as Shlok knew Astha's pechant for White Lies or for Good Causes too. But was satisfied with Astha showing him the Gold coins in front of Apsara ...SO THAT ...Apsara will never again use Astha's lies to come BETWEEN ASHLOK in future...AND then Closed the... DOOR ON APSARA'S FACE IN REJECTION .''

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I can not support Aastha's impulssive lying, in the same time I hated SHLOK's behaviour with Aastha after listening to Apsara!!! - Why he had to prove to an outsider about his personal relationship/ ?? How could he allow someone to talk against his BIWI to him??? A husband -wife relationship is very personal, No third party should be allowed to interfere, any husband or wife should not discuss about each other to an outsider!!!!!! - I would have been bad with my husband if he would have done this to me!!!!!!!

They should sort out their own issues in a closed door , not in front of others!!!!
<b>I can not approve SHLOK's action!!!!!! It was very humiliating for any wife!!!!
Why Apsara would be allowed to use Aastha's lies to come between ASHLOK - it seemsto me he can not trust himself even!!!!!! SHLOK knows his BIWI very well!!!!!! He does not need to prove anything to others!!!!! He has accepted AAstha the way she is!!!!

''By shutting the door andSaying sorry'' could not be acceptable, He can yell at his wife in closed door and be polite in front of an outsider - This is the normal mannerism!!!

Aastha's lying at that moment to cool him down and to maintain her respect in front of Apsara was acceptable to him for that moment , BUT SHE MUST TELL THE TRUTH TO HER HUSBAND in a quiet time when he would not be in an angry mood or would not be tired afterr coming back from work !!!!!
But making a ''FAKE COIN'' beforehand - to befool hubby was not acceptable!!!!!!
It is reflecting weakness of her character, she was not only concernd about hubby's extreme anger, but also was concerned that he would be upset!!!! He was already going thru a tough time getting rejection one after another!!!!!
She herself must show the reason to hubby for her action!!!!!!!

Aastha is not going to set up a big hotel for what you need experience , big money & man power!!!
Starting a small food stall by the side of the road - you do not need much experience/ man power or money power1!!!!! - Do not we see this type small scale businesses are run often by the house wives when their husbands are facing problems?????
I have seen/ heard about many like that!!!!!

SHLOK should not openly discuss about AAstha's nature even to MB !!! he is exposing Aastha's weakness to an outsider once again!!!! MB could loss his confidence in AaStha very easily!!!!

I could not accept any of their actions in this respect - but this is reality of life - often we act but think later!!!!!!!

Well said swathya... 👏 exactly my views
They both r at fault and so why to bash astha alone
And whatever their reasons r they both luv each other and accepted their weaknesses..
The reason astha is shown 2 b doing these fake coin blunder is..may b CVS r planning 2 bring a big twist by GC entry ..and all these small things will lead 2 a big MU between ashlok.
Otherwise if both r perfect the story Will not move fwd.
So let's enjoy the track and support our ashlok rather than bashing astha and making her the soft target 4 shloks character and screen space bashing 😡

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akashavani

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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: Dogan1
Beautiful vani
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Divya...Thank you very much. ..😛

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Swathiya

@Sathia007

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Posted: 10 years ago

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ell said swathya... 👏 exactly my views
They both r at fault and so why to bash astha alone
And whatever their reasons r they both luv each other and accepted their weaknesses..
The reason astha is shown 2 b doing these fake coin blunder is..may b CVS r planning 2 bring a big twist by GC entry ..and all these small things will lead 2 a big MU between ashlok.
Otherwise if both r perfect the story Will not move fwd.
So let's enjoy the track and support our ashlok rather than bashing astha and making her the soft target 4 shloks character and screen space bashing 😡

Hi Vani, @bold I do agree with you to bring the twist in the story line!!!!

Edited by Sathia007 - 10 years ago