Why this Hue and Cry about Advay...?

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Posted: 8 years ago
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This was always meant to be...he is a dark anti hero avenging his parent's death...that was his only intention from the very beginning. He was very clear about his intentions...he never sugar coated his words neither did he lure into a marriage promising love. He married her for revenge... he did declare that he hated her from the beginning... didn't he?

He is neither a sociopath or a psychopath...he is a grown man who lost his parents at the age of 13. He was a child himself. Yes, he may have misunderstood Chandni ...but we have to remember that when she was 8 years old... he was 13...they were both kids.

I loved the episode...and I loved Barun's expressions. This man can emote with his eyes. It's very easy to judge someone without been in their shoes... a feeling of betrayal by a close friend can scar a persons life...he was after all a child.

His hatred for her is understandable and is justifyable under such circumstances...what won't be justifyable would be any physical assault on her...no woman deserves that...absolutely not. I can't count today's standing all night in the category because he didn't say ' remain standing'...he said, don't move from the place...she could have sat down ...couldn't she?

I am not sure why I don't feel any sympathy for Chandni ..maybe because the Ms Tomar can't emote well enough or simply because I am too much of a strong individual who is in continuous contact with battered and sexually assaulted woman ( I work at a shelter) watching them standing up and fighting to live their lives day in and out..it's almost that they want to forget the nightmare. What I can't comprehend is Chandni s lack of self awareness...in one hand she feels the pain of an orphan and in the other she has made this baby an orphan...all for her step mother who she thinks will love her back someday...well, I am sorry this is not been afraid of been abondoned...it's called moving on and accepting the reality...? She has no right to make a decision for her sister...it's not her place ...and that too for a mother who she knows doesn't care...Chandni is selfish in her own ways.


Last thought...Barun, what an actor you are! 5 long years...and you are still emoting with your eyes

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Hmmm agree with all you say.

But still there is a small part in me that keeps emphathising for Chandni.

Her weakness is she thnks with her heart instead of her mind.
The day she learn to think with her mind , things will taks a different course.

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Yes. I still haven't been able to contact with Chandni and I don't know why that is. I think a part of it is because of the writers and part shavani. I don't feel anything when I watch her cry. Zero emotion, I feel like skipping the scene. I'm not saying she Is a bad actor, she plays sassy very well. But is very lacking in the emotional department. She's new so it's understandable, for now. I don't think I will be so empathic towards her 3-4 month down the line. This is where I believe the writers n her need to come together and really help each other.

I'm the kinda person who once cried when I watched a ghost die. It's very easy for me to get emotionally attach to characters and their emotions. The first time I actually felt bad and sorry for Chandni was yesterday. And too was not because of her but by witnesses the conversation btw niru n indu. That conversation made realize how lonely chandni must really be.

As for Advay, this is what I've been waiting for. The dark vengeful side of him to finally unleash. I only hope it gets darker. I don't get what the big fuss is about him making her stand. Like really ... that's nothing. It's a very kindergarten form of act. But the way he said it, his voice, expressions, his lines before that was intense.


Btw...I believe advay was 16 when this story of vengeance started :)


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Posted: 8 years ago
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Thank you for this post
He never told her to keep standing
He was always dark and never gave any fake promises
He never acted with her not give her any hopes
Every one knows he hates her
Of course one should understand where he is coming from
He has done nothing till now at all
People are making him an outright villain
He has some deep issues he has been harboring for such a long time
For a boy who has lost everything you cannot expect him to be happy go lucky
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I feel bad for Chandni
But I know she will fight back
She just needs time to settle down
And get used to her new surroundings
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Also the only person who can control Advay some what is Naani
He cannot fully ignore what she says
And she is with Chandni
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I agree that Advay was expected to be an anti-hero. So most of this was expected. But that doesnt mean he is right. He is a sociopath and psychopath in some ways... He does reveal in his enemy's pain...he does goes way out of line, so much as to threaten physical abuse to meet his aims. This is not normal. He is mentally unbalanced to do all this. Setting Chandini's shawl on fire was another instance.

I am not saying any of this is unexpected of ppl who are vengenful...just that they are not mentally stable. Revenge by financial ruin or defamation or even getting them arrested is what I can accept from a normal human who wants to see justice...marrying a girl and playing with her is abnormal...so if ppl are crying out its only because they simply cant accept their romantic cutie hero playing a mentally unstable negative character ... that is also expected...

See there is a line to which everyone is ready to accept...some will hate ppl like PP who wants a night with chandini to meet his end...some will hate Advay who want to create an impression of a night with chandni and ruin her ...

Its all about tolerance to crimes...
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: mira

I agree that Advay was expected to be an anti-hero. So most of this was expected. But that doesnt mean he is right. He is a sociopath and psychopath in some ways... He does reveal in his enemy's pain...he does goes way out of line, so much as to threaten physical abuse to meet his aims. This is not normal. He is mentally unbalanced to do all this. Setting Chandini's shawl on fire was another instance.

I am not saying any of this is unexpected of ppl who are vengenful...just that they are not mentally stable. Revenge by financial ruin or defamation or even getting them arrested is what I can accept from a normal human who wants to see justice...marrying a girl and playing with her is abnormal...so if ppl are crying out its only because they simply cant accept their romantic cutie hero playing a mentally unstable negative character ... that is also expected...

See there is a line to which everyone is ready to accept...some will hate ppl like PP who wants a night with chandini to meet his end...some will hate Advay who want to create an impression of a night with chandni and ruin her ...

Its all about tolerance to crimes...


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probably the most sensible Post I have read regarding th is whole matter.

Like I've said before In advays matter
: you can't expect a unhealthy person to think logically.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Liked ur thoughts 😊 Yes signed for anti hero n we r getting it 😊
Yes both want one night from Chandani.. PP real n advay showcase to society but yeah advay is legally owing her. Coming to epi yeah it was good n advay was jerk but yeah kinda expected this from him. N Chandani's behavior also I had expected of weeping since she is not getting time to think what has went thru her.. poor soul 😭 .. I just want chandani to run from al with that baby n really think of her to work as Sanskrit teacher far far far from all alas if advay let's her to breathe ..

But I want him to hate her most n redemption will be awesome if it's scripted.. I think I'm contradicting now.. sobtiboy drives me crazy ..

Wonderful wonderful work chemistry by our leads 😳
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I can only speak for myself when I say that I'm not able to understand why some people are getting so worked up over Advay's behaviour 😕 This was expected. Always on the cards.

We saw glimpses of a softer Advay in the recent past. Majority of that was to get Chandni to marry him. All part of the plan. Although I still feel that there were tiny moments where it was perhaps genuine. Tiny moments 😆😳 But what we are seeing now was inevitable! This man's soul has been on fire day in and day out. You think he's gonna go all soft on Chandni now especially after his plan is falling into place?

As a fan and viewer, I'll always been torn between Advay and Chandni. And whenever Chandni feels pain, I'll empathize with her. But this was sold to viewers as a dark and intense love story. And that's what I'm here for :)


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