Signing up to watch an Indian show is like a woman's life after marriage. So there are rules.
1. It never matches your expectations.
2. It is always kabhi khushi kabhi gham
3. You can cry and whine all you want when you find it difficult to adjust with the situation where your expectations arent fulfilled, but no one ever gives a damn. You end up making a cry baby our of yourself.
4. So you either learn to enjoy things which are to your liking and ignore those which you don't like continue to live in the setup and don't spoil the peace of the home by not making it a battleground for every single damn thing you didn't like (or)
5. If it so unbearable for you, call the relationship quits and let others live in peace and you also find your peace.
That's all.