@TM
In your post you clearly mentioned that you saw many posts calling her regressive for being a doormat and for doing pati parameshwar jaap.I am one of them who ranted on Redux Anika in this whole week,i think i explained there why i call her regressive but you didn't reply there,you made a separate post questioning my opinion or others who had same views.
First of all i want answers for these questions
1)Where did i call her regressive just based on one week episodes?
2)You saw only one week episodes,How can you confidently say she is not regressive based on just one week episodes?Redux Anika scenes started 5 months back.How can you know what is Redux Anika if you missed remaining 19 weeks of episodes??
We are not fools to call her regressive based on just 2-3 episodes as you were claiming.
Yes i call her regressive,the reasons i already had mentioned in my first comment in this thread.Pls go through them and again repeating my tape recorder here if you want to hear:
Yes this is 21 st century where women are educated equal to men and earning equal to men.Still there is no equality in marriage.When we being the women start worshipping men as a god,then how can you expect the men to show equality in marriage.
I am not married yet,but i has been watching my parents since my childhood for more than 20 years,so i know marriage kya hota hai,Marriage is not just about wearing sindoor,mangalsutra and giving lectures on them.And husband is not a god to worship,it is highly regressive according to me,Anika has been doing this same regressive stuff from 5 months.Love,care,understanding is more important in any relationship not only in marriage.I am not seeing any love,understanding from Anika side,the writer didn't show any organic development of bond between them.She is worshipping him as he is husband,thats it,she didn't try to understand him or when,how and where did she fallen in love so much with Shivaay??
Now she is forcing him to wear something,to drink something.This is not the way to deal with PTSD patient,if he is not comfortable to share his problems with her,she could have tried to taken him to the counselling.And if she knows the truth about why he shot Tej,she could have tried to discuss this with omru.Her actions look fake when she keep on telling pati patni,how should be the marriage and all if she is not showing it in actions.Acting put on chirpiness wearing beautiful sarees,large bindi,heavy jumkas without trying to do anything substantial thing dealing with the root cause of the problem.It would have been better if she tried to investigate further into the ma tter and trying to get proofs and Show it to omru.As this is what RU Anika could have done.
And other reasons i call her regressive i already mentioned but again i am repeating as you didn't get the point:
She has no identity or individuality other than just being a wife of Shivaay based on what they have shown.I know nothing about what her idealogies,What defines her.And she was a self pitying individual who cried a bucket for making dosas.What's wrong in making dosas?,She had no dignity of labour unlike RU Anika. RU Anika was never self pitying and crying buckets for her fate of being an orphan,having handicapped brother,insulting by SSO based on her NKK or background,She was very confident and never bend before anyone even when SSO brought her on the roads based on 3 day challange,She give it back to him joining as wedding planner in his own house and put a check mate for whatever bakwas he had done for 3 day challenge.
pls Don't try to twist the words according to you,begging is not equal to staying in the house for Dadi.Redux Anika literally begged him holding his legs after the forced marriage to not leave her and to accept the marriage.pls watch those scenes,that is called "Begging"RU Anika never did this.
Regarding RU Anika staying in the house after forced marriage,Indy already well explained about it.My two cents:
She even left him and the house after he taking the bullet for her when pinky asked her to leave his son.She came to house only when Shivaay who was shot by bullet and operated few hours before "BEGGED" her saying "I NEEED YOU".She would have never return to the house if he didn't beg her
And when kamini aunty insulted their relationship,she asked him to either leave her or give the name to their relationship.She DEMANDED the answer there.Shivaay was the one who BEGGED her to stay with him.
Even when she LOVED her SSO,she never wanted patni tag,she never called herself his " patni"Their relationship was actually beyond all these supercial mangalsutra,sindoor things.They were soulmates and that is what writer had to prove in this Redux.But when they hardly actually TALKED with each other ,love,understanding tho door ki baat hai.
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