Shivika and the meaning of Family - Page 5

Nice thread.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

I don't think this is really about Shivaay believing she gave the proofs in the police station...it's more about him feeling let down that she didn't trust him...that's what's fueling his heartbreak...her trust broke before his...and he wants answers for why that happened...no matter who told her what...he seemed to expect implicit faith from her because she assured him that he had her implicit faith...so I can't blame him that much for taking her for her word😆

Shivaay's entire personality is based on "Main sab theek kar dunga"...for him, there is no greater proof of love than someone showing faith in him...and that is what Anika gave him since ages...to shake that very bedrock was bound to shake Shivaay up too...that his Anika actually thought he could betray her.

Everything else is just adding to the hurt...his mother's state is a living symbol of the cycle of events that unfolded once Anika walked out without giving him a chance to explain.

Originally posted by: angel_nonu

Nice thread.

Not to start a war but I am amazed at few people that they only remember what all shivaay has done for annika & its like ahe has done nothing. Like she didn't take bullet for him, she didn't risk her life again & again to fight with villains.

She is totally wrong in walking away without confronting him or even informing in any way that she is leaving or angry. But not wrong in MU bcoz of what all happened with her in that day starting from veer almost killing to getting know her father actually did suicide & shivaay lied then seeing everything live but she should have still confronted and I really hope CVs do give some thought on her character here and show some progress rather using her as scapegoat for trp.

Shivaay is equally wrong too from hiding stuff to telling things in jalebi form & then really using word hate. But still he is at least trying to look for her be it for revenge or confront but

In no way i am going to hate annika or as few people conveniently forgot that she alao has done so much for him & not only he has done everything

Originally posted by: chottekikhushi

Sorry for the reaally late reply. AY, with all the butchering done, both are equally to blame.

Coz even though I sympathise with Shivaay, the truth is that Shivaay has placed Ani on a pedestal always and the last time she walked out and he found the reason she stayed , he was just overwhelmed by her I dunno, greatness? Goodness ? Love trust, whatever...Hence this amount of resentment, I get that...But In a way , its a bit unfair to Ani too because when she has shown her loyalty to him at every step, it is fair that he believed that she gave the evidence to the police? He should have belived that she could have never done it as well... How can he blame Ani for not having trust in him when he is acting exactly like her? Thats why I said in that aspect, both are equally to blame...

What annoyed me about Ani was the fact that while he is hell bent to find her for answers, she has conveniently managed to turn her back on him and not look back...maybe its because she is too hurt or maybe life has made her that way but shutting out a person completely like that seems kind of too much , thats all...

Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli

i ended up gifing the fav moments

You made a thread AY? Missed it completely. Let me go read before I fall asleep

Edited: almost dozing off but wanted to say I love this post.
Both are being childish but somehow I am able to understand Shivaay more than Anika this time. And I am not at all surprised at the way he is reacting. Shivaay's hurt and anger is obvious. He is heartbroken and that hurt and anger will take some unpleasant forms especially in the absence of Anika to temper him. Anika's " narazgi is less easy to understand for me. Shivaay can handle almost anything that life or Anika can throw at him except Anika disappearing from his life. That is the one thing he cannot handle at all. Like he told her once "gussa ghar par bhi kiya is sakta hai'
Anika is confusing me. Obviously she has deep rooted insecurities and abandonment issues arising from her traumatic childhood for her to believe that shivaay can abandon her so easily and so casually. She has blocked out all the times he has put her first. He took a bullet for. He even stopped talking to his own mother. And yes the lack of "our with regards to the family was conspicuous by its absence but I (and shivaay too) had never realised this was festering within Anika. I am willing to look past all the contrivedness (it's a done deed anyway) if they now address all of Annika's Issues in this track. Let's see how the handle it. But they are mostly likely to take the route of some 3rd and 4th angle instead. Their track record is not very good on this.

Originally posted by: soapsuds

You made a thread AY? Missed it completely. Let me go read before I fall asleep

Edited: almost dozing off but wanted to say I love this post.
Both are being childish but somehow I am able to understand Shivaay more than Anika this time. And I am not at all surprised at the way he is reacting. Shivaay's hurt and anger is obvious. He is heartbroken and that hurt and anger will take some unpleasant forms especially in the absence of Anika to temper him. Anika's " narazgi is less easy to understand for me. Shivaay can handle almost anything that life or Anika can throw at him except Anika disappearing from his life. That is the one thing he cannot handle at all. Like he told her once "gussa ghar par bhi kiya is sakta hai'
Anika is confusing me. Obviously she has deep rooted insecurities and abandonment issues arising from her traumatic childhood for her to believe that shivaay can abandon her so easily and so casually. She has blocked out all the times he has put her first. He took a bullet for. He even stopped talking to his own mother. And yes the lack of "our with regards to the family was conspicuous by its absence but I (and shivaay too) had never realised this was festering within Anika. I am willing to look past all the contrivedness (it's a done deed anyway) if they now address all of Annika's Issues in this track. Let's see how the handle it. But they are mostly likely to take the route of some 3rd and 4th angle instead. Their track record is not very good on this.

Anika blocked all her childhood except the flashes in her nightmares until 2 days before D-day. She never talked about her life growing up in the orphanage except fleetingly hear and there. Obviously she has deep abandonment issues after all the trauma. Deeper than anyone has realised. She has brazened it out by thumbing her nose at the stuff life has thrown at her as a way to cope. But those issues have never really been addressed. Shivaay has tried to make up for her bad childhood by heaping enormous love upon her as a salve but even he doesn't realise that her issues are only buried not resolved and they resurface when the hurt and fear gets too much. Then she runs away before she can be abandoned. Maybe that gives her a feeling of control over fate. I don't know. But now having phailoed so much raita this is their opportunity to address this. That would still salvage things rather than further childish things like third parties. Shivika are beyond third parties. Underneath all their issues there is a solid bedrock of deep love that will last and overcome. They just need to find their way.

Originally posted by: soapsuds

Shivaay has tried to make up for her bad childhood by heaping enormous love upon her as a salve but even he doesn't realise that her issues are only buried not resolved and they resurface when the hurt and fear gets too much. Then she runs away before she can be abandoned. Maybe that gives her a feeling of control over fate. I don't know. But now having phailoed so much raita this is their opportunity to address this. That would still salvage things rather than further childish things like third parties. Shivika are beyond third parties. Underneath all their issues there is a solid bedrock of deep love that will last and overcome. They just need to find their way.

Originally posted by: soapsuds

Anika blocked all her childhood except the flashes in her nightmares until 2 days before D-day. She never talked about her life growing up in the orphanage except fleetingly hear and there. Obviously she has deep abandonment issues after all the trauma. Deeper than anyone has realised. She has brazened it out by thumbing her nose at the stuff life has thrown at her as a way to cope. But those issues have never really been addressed. Shivaay has tried to make up for her bad childhood by heaping enormous love upon her as a salve but even he doesn't realise that her issues are only buried not resolved and they resurface when the hurt and fear gets too much. Then she runs away before she can be abandoned. Maybe that gives her a feeling of control over fate. I don't know. But now having phailoed so much raita this is their opportunity to address this. That would still salvage things rather than further childish things like third parties. Shivika are beyond third parties. Underneath all their issues there is a solid bedrock of deep love that will last and overcome. They just need to find their way.