Shivika and the meaning of Family

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Khyati8

@Khyati8

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Posted: 7 years ago

#21

I'd really want to know where do we chose one person over the other in a family? Thats how its supposed to be in life? I am a little lost here.

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@nakshatra72

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Posted: 7 years ago

#22

Originally posted by: Khyati8
I'd really want to know where do we chose one person over the other in a family? Thats how its supposed to be in life? I am a little lost here.

Usually any good person when gets married wants to be the part of the family not above the family

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AreYaar

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Posted: 7 years ago

#23

Originally posted by: chottekikhushi

I really dunno what is more heartbreaking, after all that these 2 have been through, Ani has somehow concluded that she is just so disposible to Shivaay that he doesn't even give her divorce but marries some random female ( under blackmail ofcourse coz she knew he was doing it for proofs to save his family) and Bua is the best judge of his character, so hey new biwi is suddenly the love of his life!! So she decides to walk out without confronting him even once, somehow even with all her insecurities or her feeling like an outsider or anything doesn't justify this stupidity to me.
Shivaay, who I initially trully sympathised with ( even though Ani is my favourite) seems to be no better and he has already held Ani responsible for all that the oberois are going through - believed that she was capable of giving evidence against his family and triggering the sequence of events which ultimately led to his mum being comatose. How different are they really?? Both were shown evidence deeming their respective partners to be guilty and both believed it! Was it Ani coz according to her everything (Shivaay and a family she considered her own had betrayed her) or Shivaay who had been blackmailed and the very person who he was trying to protect resulted in his family behind bars and his mums state.

They're not😆...who even said that they are? Haha saara problem hi yehi hai that at their core they are both way more similar than they realize...which is why faith was such an important cornerstone of their relationship...faith was what enabled them to overcome even their personality clashes...cuz otherwise based on the kind of personalities they have, they are destined to their worst impulses in anger and ego...it was their faith in their relationship and each other that was overcoming that since ages.

But now we seem to have reached a stage where expectations were not clearly set out, particularly by Anika...the irony is that Anika claims that Shivaay was the one who struggled with expressing his emotions always...but it seems like Anika too struggled with expressing just how much she wanted to be CLAIMED as a part of this family...with the official label beyond all the gestures of love and affection...and she made some presumptions that none of us could guess...least of all Shivaay...now it's all taken a very ugly turn...and it's just fueled his anger and ego too.

I don't think this is really about Shivaay believing she gave the proofs in the police station...it's more about him feeling let down that she didn't trust him...that's what's fueling his heartbreak...her trust broke before his...and he wants answers for why that happened...no matter who told her what...he seemed to expect implicit faith from her because she assured him that he had her implicit faith...so I can't blame him that much for taking her for her word😆

Shivaay's entire personality is based on "Main sab theek kar dunga"...for him, there is no greater proof of love than someone showing faith in him...and that is what Anika gave him since ages...to shake that very bedrock was bound to shake Shivaay up too...that his Anika actually thought he could betray her.

Everything else is just adding to the hurt...his mother's state is a living symbol of the cycle of events that unfolded once Anika walked out without giving him a chance to explain.

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AreYaar

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Posted: 7 years ago

#24

Originally posted by: Khyati8
But i would be lying if i dont say he is atleast looking for a confrontation anika simply walked off? That solves exactly what?Forget everything she didn't even stand for her right for being wronged she just...left?She has huge self worth issues that needs to be addressed not glossed over with bechari or mahaanta.

But that's very indicative of how their personalities are...they are both escapists when it comes to issues they are truly vulnerable about...in general, Anika has been more expressive about her emotions and thoughts while Shivaay has been the cagier one, he had a whole period of running away from his feelings for her too...

Anika was ready to stare down pretty much any and every challenge...didn't run away from anything until she fell in love with Shivaay...then she first tried to run away from her feelings from him...until she finally managed to accept them and over time gain confidence in them even if some issues remained unresolved it seems...

Running away doesn't solve anything...but that's the point...Anika doesn't seem to want to solve anything right now...she has as usual ended their relationship without telling him...lol under the presumption that he supposedly ended their relationship first by leaving her for a random girl...convoluted, but there it is.

Shivaay on the other hand doesn't just sit back and chill if he's been slighted...that's just not him...upar se this gets further complicated by the fact that there's a deep love behind all the gussa and hurt...he's never been one to let her go easily...even last time when she concocted the whole drama to get him to throw her out, he was still stalking her chawl while pretending indifference to her otherwise😆

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Khyati8

@Khyati8

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Posted: 7 years ago

#25

I am not understanding either right now sadly. Apart from the fact they both need to bang there heads on the wall.

I dont know if writers did this on purpose or a missed step from them. Despite the track being largely about anika's feeling of betrayal and sadness that she never meant anything to him they gave more time and words or rather emotional sense to shivaay's breakdown over the issue. I hope they show more clarity to anika's pov too. Issue i wont deny is a valid one but it needs to be dealt with in a more organic manner.

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AreYaar

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Posted: 7 years ago

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Originally posted by: Khyati8
I am not understanding either right now sadly. Apart from the fact they both need to bang there heads on the wall.
I dont know if writers did this on purpose or a missed step from them. Despite the track being largely about anika's feeling of betrayal and sadness that she never meant anything to him they gave more time and words or rather emotional sense to shivaay's breakdown over the issue. I hope they show more clarity to anika's pov too. Issue i wont deny is a valid one but it needs to be dealt with in a more organic manner.

LOL personally I'm able to understand Shivaay's emotions much better...they are giving more layering to his thinking...and it's typical of him to use grandiose terms to hide his feelings...so I'm not sure why everyone is so thrown off by him saying nafrat, hisaab pura karunga etc. etc. *shrugs*

Anika is the one that's been given the much more convoluted reasoning this time yet again and it's difficult to parse through...only thing I feel she had a valid point about today was the issue about feeling like an outsider despite everything...I'd noted it before also why they never say HUMARA instead of AAPKA ya MERA when talking about family.

The clarity will come much later if previous seperation was anything to go by...lol then also it took them AGES to give Anika a dhang ka inner monologue or explain her thought process which even then I mostly felt disconnected to but by the end everyone including Shivika just got tired of the conflict and ultimately ended it and forgot the loopholes...lol

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The Learner

@Free_Rein

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Posted: 7 years ago

#27

I think no one can make such a beautiful post on such a crappy track,i am tempted to watch the episode reading your post but after seeing the cap of Red saree pooja🤢 i can't😆,the most annoying thing is this third angle🥱.I am bored and fed up of this third angles.

The most annoying phase was their first post- separation in OM,i can't bear again those pakaov arguments in OM,CVs atleast spare us from one thing don't bring Anika in OM until they settle their scores🤢.Now the bonus is Anika will feel jealous or grudge whenever she sees ShivJa🤢 unlike in Ragini's case.

Sorry for the negativity i thought i can ignore the show and laugh at CVs until it gets better again but after seeing pooja caps my blood is boiling🤢

Edited by ...Nihara... - 7 years ago