RiKara: Connecting the Dots. - Page 6

Originally posted by: lovesick23

This is actually brilliant and yeah yesterday only I realised that Gauri's sirf bahu tag might have put him off big time. He does say aap aap hai hum hum, sirf bahu, tum meri samajh se bahar ho! Maybe he wanted her to really accept that his little stunt at the dhaba hurt her so that he could then clarify that he only did it because she said she only came back as a bahu but Gauri never gave him a chance because from her pov he never felt anything for her. Great post really!

Thank you!!

And yes RiKara give us so much to analyse and think and dont we all love them for that.

Originally posted by: Priya_Iyer

I am still confused too. Was he gauging the 'Sirf Bahu''s reaction or it was said in the moment without him realizing it.

Om isn't someone to make such life altering comments without putting any thought into it!

So dunno what to think.

Thank you for loving the post. :)

Originally posted by: kala16

Truly wonderful post priya. I badly want Omkara to speak with gauri first in this situation as he knows she is broken completely. She might also open up a bit like she did with shivaay.Om should know what she thinks abt her being not fit for him.

Iam scared CVs would drag this. I want proper track for Rikara like the elder couple so that viewers will be able to connect to them easily. As a Trp viewer i feel no connection between their scenes. But thanks the IF and brilliant writers like u who are coming up with different theories.

Yes. They both should speak to each other, come clean with their feelings and what they want from each other and their relationship. If not that, at least say when and what hurt!

And you are right! The five minutes scenes are scattered over the episode which somewhat doesn't help with the emotional scenes we are getting right now. Continuity has always been the biggest villain in Rikara story. Sigh. Its good that we have some great performers who can make any scene worth remembering! :)

Originally posted by: BIaddict

Thanks for making this pos Piyu. This makes total sense and connects all the scenes. Until Fridays discussion at the AT, I haven't thought of this. As everyone is wondering I was also wondering why Rikara story is lacking consisteny. Why Om makes comments abut their Jodi, not letting anything happen to her, she being a part of his family etc and suddenly flipped at the dhaba. Also that scene didn't go well with how he reacted to Annika's move on comment. But 'sirf bahu' theory makes complete sense cos he is worried about Gauri's reaction if he pushed the patni or shadhi word with her and so he is cautious. I think the guy is petrified at the possibility of her leaving him again if he make a wrong move😆

Lack of clarity on Om's thought process has made every one confused with his dhaba reacton and him not introducing Gauri as his wife.I wish they give some monologues on Om now to clarify this confusion. Being the private person he is they may not show him sharing his thoughts with anyone. He didn't even share with shivaye his worry of gauri getting mocked being the reason of not asking Gauri to the exhibition, he just told him she will get bored. So there is no way he will open up with regards to his fears or feelings to anyone but Gauri. All Rikara needs is a open conversation😆

Yes! We need a monologue badly. Just one sentence will do too.

But with Om, you always have to read between the lines. Since IB's inception. He rarely got any monologues. Whatever lil they give shouldn't be neglected. He sees a lot but says a little. For example what he remembers when he sees Kavery, his flashbacks first of his parents and then of what svet did to to his 'biwi' Gauri! As I said, the flashbacks, the sequence of it are important too with Om!

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Originally posted by: manny136

I think it was a slip of the tongue subconcious thing but the convo was more about sarcastic remarks towards their or should i say gauris plan failing that neither one realized what om said😆coz they were more distracted by the shaadi drama😆

Yes! Sometimes I think its a slip of tongue, sometimes I think otherwise!

The confusion is rubbing off on me big time. 😆

Nice analysis Priya! 👏👏

Originally posted by: ActionChirraiya

Nice analysis Priya! 👏👏

When you think of it even Gauri has been just as confusing to Om and Om is to poor non-experts like us. 😆 Can't expect the poor guy to read her mind. Lol. He thinks she's over them, she thinks there's no "them" since he isn't ready to accept their relationship. Bas mann hi mann me both keep thinking and none is ready to talk. These kids!! Sigh.

Another thing i don't understand is when did gauri get a personality transplant? Before dangal track, she had almost given up on omkara and their shaadi, and now she's actively hoping for him to acknowledge her. Maybe dangal track and his ready acceptance of the shiv-parvati parallels raised her hopes. I always thought that deep inside she still had some hope, but not to this extent!! The way the exhibition fiasco broke her, I just don't get it. I know she's pretty much rationalising Omkara's behaviour but it doesn't make sense that something she already knew and had accepted would break her like this. Plus, this English spoiler. I don't even want to speculate on it before it airs, whatever "it" is. But it does seem troubling. Gauri has always been comfortable in her own skin. Hell, she didn't even want to change her clothes when she thought Omkara would ask her, and now she'll learn English for him? Something doesn't compute. Either Omkara's rejection/Pinky's taunts have broken her to the extent that she has no confidence left in herself or she's suddenly become so desperate for acceptance that she'll do anything for him. But when did either of these things happen? Both seem ooc to me. Ugh! I just want the epi to air to see what happens next. My heart can't take this stress 😆

Edited to add: about the Mrs.GOSO thing, i don't think it was a slip of tongue, cause omkara corrected himself and said Mrs. GOSO lol. . He was just trying to make it sound poetic. Cause in the next sentence he said rudra singh oberoi. Like you know, two fools related to each other and their foolish plan backfired. Something like that 😆

Originally posted by: ActionChirraiya

Nice analysis Priya!👏👏

When you think of it even Gauri has been just as confusing to Om and Om is to poor non-experts like us. 😆Can't expect the poor guy to read her mind. Lol. He thinks she's over them, she thinks there's no "them" since he isn't ready to accept their relationship. Bas mann hi mann me both keep thinking and none is ready to talk. These kids!! Sigh.

Another thing i don't understand is when did gauri get a personality transplant? Before dangal track, she had almost given up on omkara and their shaadi, and now she's actively hoping for him to acknowledge her. Maybe dangal track and his ready acceptance of the shiv-parvati parallels raised her hopes. I always thought that deep inside she still had some hope, but not to this extent!! The way the exhibition fiasco broke her, I just don't get it. I know she's pretty much rationalising Omkara's behaviour but it doesn't make sense that something she already knew and had accepted would break her like this. Plus, this English spoiler.I don't even want to speculate on it before it airs, whatever "it" is. But it does seem troubling. Gauri has always been comfortable in her own skin. Hell, she didn't even want to change her clothes when she thought Omkara would ask her, and now she'll learn English for him? Something doesn't compute. Either Omkara's rejection/Pinky's taunts have broken her to the extent that she has no confidence left in herself or she's suddenly become so desperate for acceptance that she'll do anything for him. But when did either of these things happen? Both seem ooc to me. Ugh! I just want the epi to air to see what happens next. My heart can't take this stress😆

Edited to add: about the Mrs.GOSO thing, i don't think it was a slip of tongue, cause omkara corrected himself and said Mrs. GOSO lol. . He was just trying to make it sound poetic. Cause in the next sentence he said rudra singh oberoi. Like you know, two fools related to each other and their foolish plan backfired. Something like that😆

Both of them expect each other and us viewers to be a mind reader. 🤣

Monologues toh Milne se rahaaa!

I agree abt the gauri ka personality transplant though. She had become an 'ActionChirraiyya' post the inspiration scene. Now I guess back to 'AblaChirraiyya'

As Om confuses one and all, Gauri's thoughts n feelings have also confused me always, esp in regard to what she feels for Om.

She Has seldom been honest about her feelings. She always hides her feelings behind her PATNIDHARAM and never acknowledged that she cares for Omkara as a person than what he is to her. I always wonder, without the 'Pati' tag, what is Om to her? What does she feel for him without the title of Pati? Which is why I always wanted a monologue of gauri too, sometimes even more than Om.

Because Omkara has always treated Gauri like an individual. An actual person. His feelings are clearer compared to her.

He has started to 'care' for her.. and he doesn't do it because she is his ghar Ki 'Sirf Bahu'.. He cares for her because she is Gauri. The person. An individual. For who she is. Not for what or who she is to him or his family. Which is why I feel when it comes to feelings, Om has always been 'honest' in comparison to GKS.

Om's feelings be it hate or care he has openly showed it to her! But gauri's feelings towards him only surface when he is in mortal danger. Rest all the times it has always been about what he thinks /feels about her and not what she feels about him.

Nice analysis Priya on Rikara.

Originally posted by: SRKisLove

Yaar, our connection has to be strong, 'cos I wrote almost a similar understanding of Gauri's version, of the situation, a few pages back. 😆

This is some new Gauri, an insecure, desperate one, which we are seeing since Thursday.

Theory: Svetlana kidnapped the real, self-respecting, non-imposing Gauri, put her in a freezer box, and replaced her with this needy version. 😲