Originally posted by: asya34
Annika has grown and that is what I wanted. This realization, this will to fight for her relationship and this whole I will pick the pieces up if he shatters is what i wanted from her and she is there now ... what is missing is that to me her words lack the conviction as she is still playing with his feelings with these games.
If she wants him to come back to life again it is very very simple ... lay the truth before him. That is enough to make him react - positive or negative that is his choice
exactly...she wanted a reaction or a sign...and she got both yet she's still there trying to manipulate him...what does she want exactly? (Annika i mean)
She wants him to say he still loves her and will take her back without an explanation??
why is she still playing the game when she knows how her obscene have made a shell out of him??
even if she doesn't want him to know the truth...she should try to win his trust back at least ..shouldn't she?
These FNP games, if they are at Face Value, are the saddest thing I have seen and I am sorry but they pain me more than make me smile. If I was Shivvay and I came to know about this later on I would feel like the biggest Jackass.
i honestly cried in Thursday's epi when summer held her and shivaay saw...even when she told him that she doesn't care about what he thinks of the dress as the one she wore it for thinks it's great
this is not funny ... the jealousy game is NEVER funny..i don't like it EVER
she's hurting him...a lot more than anytime before
from what he said today...he knows she wanted to leave 3 months before ...so she either left on purpose of by majboori
the fact that he's wearing the ring means he was/is waiting for her...for her explaination...but what does she give him? a fiance
shivaay is in a vulnerable state right now where he's actually insecure about how much importance he holds in her life
he became a living shell without her (& he's reminded constantly of that by his family) ...he's not able to move on...but he looks at her (the side she's showing at least)she's content..happy still the same & is moving on while looking at him..shivaay is still standing near the mandap 3 months ago waiting for an answer to the one question he asked...WHY?!!!
She decides that she wants to leave him - his opinion not asked and now she decides she wants him back - again his opinion not asked ... I am wondering who is the bigger manipulator here, Shivvay or Annika??? If this is not playing him like a puppet then what is??!!
When he forced her to marry him he was straight up and up front about what he was doing and why he was doing it. He never lied to her or hid it from her. It was manipulation I agree but he was bold enough to be the bad guy, the dark one and he even stated why he was doing it to her.
i have been thinking about this since the day separation was announced as a parllel for the wedding...it's much worse than the wedding..not just because they're in a good phase of their relation...but because nothing is straight forward
as u said ... he was the devil..he had the courage to stand and say i did wrong but (according to him) for the right reasons
She is making a bigger fool of her husband now because when he comes to know the truth about why she left and then her games after her return he is going to feel like a 'bigger jackass' for being played twice in the span of 3 odd months by his wife who again was presumptuous enough to make decisions on his behalf.
according to u (& i think u as a writer might understand HS's way of looking at all this)
how do u think this will end up?
i mean when shivaay finds out (he's obviousely not going to be told by his family that's for sure)
do u think his pain will be more for the nkk than the fact that his entire family lied to him?? for me i am expecting a hulk kind of an SSO who will punish EVERYONE for manipulating him twice