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Posted: 8 years ago
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awesome post asya
Annika -she is the most realistic charecter which I have seen till today in television...a self made girl...we most of the time think that if she separation happens between shivika then Annika will be breaking down...
Ya sure she will breakdown but she will rise like a phoenix bird...she is a fighter who knows how to handle the breakdown and loss of dearones...she is superstrong...she knows how to safeguard her heart. .
Yes true. She is not alien to loss, loneliness and disappointment. That is why she accepts all the little joys and smiles that life gives her and hordes it for days when her world is clouded with sorrow. I identify with her safeguarding her heart and completely get why she refuses to let people into her inner most self. She knows, supports and has insight into almost every Oberoi but how many of them can say the same about her. Even Shivvay has just lately started discovering who his wife really is under that ever present bubbly facade that she puts on for the world to see.

that's what she is doing now...she is not like the typical hindi serial heroine who believes in fairy tales. ...she lives in the real world...she never ever expected a prince charming to come and sweep off her feet. .. instead of that she believes in standing in her own feet with head held high...she doesn't need any prince to come and take her to the castle and to make her a queen...but wat fate decided for her is a castle and a prince charming who even made her his queen but our princess didn't want to become the Queen of his kingdom...she wants to be the queen of his heart...the key to his heart...she wants to be his love...the day he when he will give that key to her..she herself will say that she is his queen..that she is Annika Shivaay Singh Oberoi...
lol ... I have often called her 'his knight in shinning armor' because she has saved his tushie more often than he ever has saved hers and I do not mean the bullet - I mean the Tia pregnancy thing and things like that. She stood by him even when the odds were against him. She believed in his innocence even when his faith in himself wavered. She fought for him even when he gave up the fight. She picked up the sword and continued to battle on even when he accepted defeat. If a woman like that is to be given up for his NKK then I truly believe she deserves better than him.
With this NKK thing rearing its head it gives Shivvay now a chance to be a real man, husband, knight and her 'superman'. Lets hope he lives up to her expectations and ours.

Nkk plays an important role in Shivaay's life...that's we believe...even shivaay believes himself...but is it true? ?
It is true except where Annika is concerned and not because he loves her but because she has proven contrary to his long standing belief in it. So yes NKK stays but not where she is concerned if I understand from his reaction.

Ya it's his belief which deeply rooted in his mind but actually it's not completely like that...like Annika says mein sirf Annika hoom...its her defence mechanism from getting hurt...like that Nkk is Shivaay's defence mechanism from getting hurt...he believes that the persons who has that are good ones who will be less harmful...and it is the base that holds his family together...its wat his experience teached him...both Annika and shivaay are using their own defence mechanisms...if Nkk was really mattered to him then he would have stopped loving om when he gets to know that he is illegitimate...did anything changed there...no...like that nothing will change between shivika even if the question about her Nkk arises...
but this thing is not known by both Annika and pinky...
Again true. Neither women are aware of how much he has changed so they are both in for a shock of their lives. Good in the case of Annika and bad in Pinky's case...lol

that's why pinky decided to bring Nkk to separate them...if shivaay doesn't abandon om because of being illegitimacy then how will abandon his annika...his breath because of that...and pinky...she was a fool and will always be a fool...she never understands shivaay...not then..not now..thants why she was not able to hold first place in his life...poor women is thinking that if Annika goes away from shivaay he will be running back to her...but did she remember...he was not with her even before Annika came...even if he breaks down...he wnt come to you... he will go to his brothers only...unknowingly pinky is helping shivaay to break the final barrier between him and Annika for ever...if this barrier breaks...nothing will hold back shivaay from becoming Annika's shivaay...
they will become one for ever
She is the final catalyst in them breaking down the last barrier that hold them back.
Edited by asya34 - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I enjoy reading your posts. We would be getting an amazing show if the writers thought half as much about the characters.

He looked embarrassed at first because he didn't know these simple facts about her. It turned into anger when Pinky went on about NKK and kids 😆 Pinky is pushing for a reaction, but it probably won't be the one she thinks. The way she set Anika up by targeting Shivaay made her intention so obvious.

I liked the sirf Anika part, but it would be nice if the writers actually showed her actually being sirf Anika. She used to be independent, took care of her own brother, and lived her own life. She talks about standing up on her own, wiping her on tears, learning from life on her own, but at the same time she is okay waiting around to be kicked out when Shivaay finds out. I wish there was more development in her character instead her existence being about gaining acceptance from Shivaay despite not having NKK. Story-wise her life revolves around only Shivaay and his family. So it comes off as all-talk.

Edited by onlyrani - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Beautiful post... ❤️
Waiting for your FF Update..
Welcome back 🤗
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: onlyrani

I enjoy reading your posts. We would be getting an amazing show if the writers thought half as much about the characters.


He looked embarrassed at first because he didn't know these simple facts about her. It turned into anger when Pinky went on about NKK and kids 😆 Pinky is pushing for a reaction, but it probably won't be the one she thinks. The way she set Anika up by targeting Shivaay made her intention so obvious.

I liked the sirf Anika part, but it would be nice if the writers actually showed her actually being sirf Anika. She used to be independent, took care of her own brother, and lived her own life. She talks about standing up on her own, wiping her on tears, learning from life on her own, but at the same time she is okay waiting around to be kicked out when Shivaay finds out. I wish there was more development in her character instead her existence being about gaining acceptance from Shivaay despite not having NKK. Story-wise her life revolves around only Shivaay and his family. So it comes off as all-talk.


I don't think she is waiting for him to find out or his acceptance. He didnot ask her about her past anytime otherwise she would have told him without hesitation. As far as being there and no leaving, it is because she is so much love with him and just want to live in present happily till she can. She firmly believes that shivaay will not love her but she is living on this dream and does not want to wake up but at the same time she is ready for that
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Posted: 8 years ago
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After watching today's news segments .. looks like there will be two battles going on. Shivika Vs Pinky & NKK, and Shivaay Vs NKK. Surbhi hinted that although Shivaay will tell Anika that her growing up in an orphanage and her lack of NKK does not matter to him, he will still struggle to accept her internally 😭 She said there wouldnt be much of story if he accepts her that fast

Honestly like you said, after everything Anika has done for Shivaay, he shouldnt be struggling with this. It should be a no-brainer to choose Anika over NKK. He'll never find another girl like Anika who will constantly put her life on the line for him and stand by him in all his problems.

Sorry to say, Anika deserves better if this is the case.


Lovely analysis. I'm always trying to dissect Shvaay in my mind too more than Anika. What goes on in Shivaay's head is so much harder to figure out than Anika. I wish we gor more of Shivaay's thoughts shown like they showed during the November wedding.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: -Ishqbaaaz-

After watching today's news segments .. looks like there will be two battles going on. Shivika Vs Pinky & NKK, and Shivaay Vs NKK. Surbhi hinted that although Shivaay will tell Anika that her growing up in an orphanage and her lack of NKK does not matter to him, he will still struggle to accept her internally 😭 She said there wouldnt be much of story if he accepts her that fast


Honestly like you said, after everything Anika has done for Shivaay, he shouldnt be struggling with this. It should be a no-brainer to choose Anika over NKK. He'll never find another girl like Anika who will constantly put her life on the line for him and stand by him in all his problems.

Sorry to say, Anika deserves better if this is the case.


Lovely analysis. I'm always trying to dissect Shvaay in my mind too more than Anika. What goes on in Shivaay's head is so much harder to figure out than Anika. I wish we gor more of Shivaay's thoughts shown like they showed during the November wedding.


In sbb segment she said...sso kuch to jasusi karenge...i think he will try to dig her past...


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Posted: 8 years ago
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Charmed! Like always with everything that you have written. And also with entire episodes on Thursday & Friday.
You my friend as I have said before are a Magician. And I agree with everything you have said.
Annika is one of the most realistic characters I have seen. Bcoz she is the truely a representation of everyday strong women out there like all of us. And she doesn't shove it in anyone's face. She just be.
Her insecurities are relatable so much so that I feel what is holding her back is what hold most women back. Her fear that if she really let herself indulge in this reality which feels like a dream & if it shatters bcoz from her previous experiences everything that feels too good to be true ends up too good to be true, she would be broken. And if that happens she wouldn't have anyone to blame, bcoz she knew better, didn't she? So she doesn't hope much but still lives what she has been provided with.
And I love her for that. She doesn't hold back or pushes him away fearing losing it all. She lives in the present but doesn't hope for the future.
I feel everyone who wanted to put her down,underestimates her, including Shivaay in the beginning & Pinky now. She feels separating her from Shivaay, will ruin Anika. But that is so not true. Shivaay may not ever get up again after losing her, but she will stand up again & carry on. And that is not bcoz she loves him less but bcoz she knows how to pick herself up & is far more practical about life than she leads us to think. Also she has loved him with everything she had & given the choice between anything & him she will choose him. And that is her strength, she has the perfect balance between her heart & her brain.
Shivaay on the other hand is someone who has never learn to lose. So when life( with Mahi's reality) or his mom ( trying to separate them)will try to make him lose, he will definitely need Anika to stand again. You are so right. He lets her be what she wants to be. He even being him with his big fat ego, doesn't pushed himself on her. I feel he must be ready to die just to have the moments where she opens up. Oh! The delight he must feel to love, care & even protect ( not that she needs protection) & know such a strong woman.
I feel she has been closest to him, Shivaay as a person other than his brothers. And she is special that way bcoz she was noone to him. And to be here after being noone in the beginning is a big feat to pull.
Secondly, she has made him hope, first that she can be his & secondly he too can be happy like any other person his age & have the simple pleasures of life, which is something he did not believe in the beginning. I certainly feel like her, he too was uncertain about them. The only difference being he knows if he wants something he has it. And he doesn't have her fears that whatever good happens to him will go away like it always does.
The only difference being in the beginning he needed her like he does now but he didn't want her bcoz of his NKK. But now he knows how it feels to have what he has always dreamt of & he wants it to stay with him & he will do whatever it takes to keep it that way.
Now Pinky sees Shivaay as someone who rectified her existence. She is for her noone more than his mother. That keeps her going. Her insecurities are real for her bcoz she feels that Shivaay will seize being her son & she his mother once he starts being Anika's husband. If she was someone who had a identify of herself, she probably won't fuss about this as much as she is doing. Example to that is Shakti. He has transitioned well bcoz unlike Pinky his world doesn't revolve around Shivaay. Being a Single child, I get her overprotectiveness but I was amazed by her insecurities bcoz my mom being a strong woman, she never had them or may be she slayed them like all strong women do.
She wants Anika to lose Shivaay but will end up being other way around. She will lose him, that means his respect for her, he contrary to her belief does know his mother & her flaws & still respects her for what she is. The next few steps she is going to take will make him lose his respect. The only fear I have is I hope he doesn't loses himself in this game she is playing. I hope they show him stronger than ' I drink myself to my death bcoz I can't forget her'. I do hope they show a third dimension to Pinky's insecurities. I hope they don't make her just another vampy MIL
Lastly now I know why they appeal me so much, more than any other pair I have seen on TV. They are both strong people who love each other endlessly but do know that living without each other would be possible but not worth it.
Can I nag you to please update 'The heart..', pretty please. One etsy bitsy update please! (Imagine me doing Shivaay's puppy face)
Edited by poemssyndrome - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: -Ishqbaaaz-

<font color="#660033">After watching today's news segments .. looks like there will be two battles going on. Shivika Vs Pinky & NKK, and Shivaay Vs NKK. Surbhi hinted that although Shivaay will tell Anika that her growing up in an orphanage and her lack of NKK does not matter to him, he will still struggle to accept her internally😭She said there wouldnt be much of story if he accepts her that fast</font>


<font color="#660033">Honestly like you said, after everything Anika has done for Shivaay, he shouldnt be struggling with this. It should be a no-brainer to choose Anika over NKK. He'll never find another girl like Anika who will constantly put her life on the line for him and stand by him in all his problems.</font>

<font color="#660033">Sorry to say, Anika deserves better if this is the case.</font>


<font color="#660033">Lovely analysis. I'm always trying to dissect Shvaay in my mind too more than Anika. What goes on in Shivaay's head is so much harder to figure out than Anika. I wish we gor more of Shivaay's thoughts shown like they showed during the November wedding.</font>


That is so true buddy! She does deserves the best & he needs to choose her always over anything bcoz she does that for him.
And really want an insight on his thoughts too. He is far difficult to read than her. But that's what makes him so appealing, doesn't it? His Darcyness! (Is that even a word)
Edited by poemssyndrome - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Wow...Loved loved LOVED the post❤️, you do have some magic with words dear. 👏. I wish it was longer, I didn't want this reading to stop😳
will be back with my comments.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Sonu1836


In sbb segment she said...sso kuch to jasusi karenge...i think he will try to dig her past...



Underline-
I think Surbhi was explaining Annika's point of view that Annika thinks that Shivaay said those things just to save her form getting hurt not because he accepted her reality, No one knows what is going on in Shivaay's mind about Annika's NKK which is really frustrating for me at times because his actions says he has accepted her longtime back.

Question about the segment
Why Shivaay did not go after Annika? He just stopped there and let her go. People are saying Rudy is in the plan with Annika but is Shivaay in the plan too? or he didn't go after Annika because he is confused after knowing Annika's reality?

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