Is Annika Truly Worthy of being An Oberoi?? - Page 4

Originally posted by: dattu21

I got your point!😊 but It's their Journey & what you want is part of it, so It will surely happen even you know too but will take a little time.😆
Lifetime nahi 2-3 week maximum ... Ghaddha Singh Oberoi has been given a 'JumpStart' by his very talented and astute wife. He should thank his lucky stars that she is in his life. She can give each and every Oberoi a 'run for their money' as Risha said in her post 😆 Even the NB's find her the strongest in the house to defeat

Originally posted by: DAMZLS

Yeah got that flip part 😆 I don't know about Gauri (havent watched DBO) but yeah Saumya is also too sweet for them man! As of now, even Rudra doesn't deserve her 😆

Originally posted by: AYUSHIVISHU

exactly...she doesnt fit for that selfish family...each and every person is selfish..no one is selfles in that family...double standards..its the main trait of oberois...they say divorce wnt happen in oberoi family...still tej and shivaay is doing it...

tej and shivaay called anika as family when she save tej and shakthi from murder accusation...but now they calling her a outsider eventhough when anika is a family member

1.Dadi...she want anika because she knows anika is perfect for shivaay...even one time she thinks did shivaay deserve her...

2.tej...do i have to say about him..a man who cheat his wife...dnt care about his children...will he care about a outsider...

3.shakthi...i dnt knw wat kind of a father he is...

4.pinky...always say my heera beta.mera shivaay.mera guroor...i really doubt is she is really shivaays mom...even the khanna understands shivaay better than her...i saw people comparing pinky with ishwari of krpkab...ishwari is so much far better than pinky...even though she is over possessive for dev..she atleast give him good qualities to him...she understands dev eventhough she dnt allow to take decision...

here pinky doesnt even know 1% OF SHIVAAY...

5.Shivaay...he dnt want to accept her as his wife...but still want her beside him...he dnt give her respect of his wife...he gave license to his family to insult her...no body is asking him to confess his love,or to say to the whole world that she is his wife...atleast say she is your wife in front of your family and ask them to give her the respect of your wife until the divorce happens...

Originally posted by: asya34

I know there are rumors of her turning grey but I don't see an issue with it. Rudra is too trusting and needs to have someone like her in his life.
Here is how I have worked out the Dynamics of the O'Bros
Annika - Major Rudy and some Om, so needs a Shivvay
Gauri - Major Rudy and some Shivvay (grey bit that Om will struggle with as he does with Shivvay), so needs OM
Saumya - Major Shivvay and a little Om (who has now turned grey because of circumstances) so needs a Rudy to keep the balance

Originally posted by: fizy_wizy

I had known that most of the Oberois(seniors) are cold blooded but the person who surprised me the most today was Shakti. 2-3 days se dialogues kya milay ye to out of control he ho gaey,. Barey aey jhamela khatem kero 😡
Thank you!! I am glad someone else felt what I felt. The very insensitive way of saying it was so not Shakti.
I would have understood if he had said ponder over it and resolve the situation Shivvay because it is making things very complicated with the attitude you have OR the best thing to say to him is "Shivvay you have to decide what you really want ?"

I agree to everything you said in the post Oberois' do not deserve Anika. I am unable to say anything else. Aaj rona aa raha hai. 😭

Originally posted by: asya34

Proud, Selfish, Self-Serving, Prejudiced, Obnoxious, Gullible, Foolish, Greedy, Manipulative, Cowardly, Unethical, With Loose Morals, Cold, Unfeeling and I am sure you all could list a few more of the Qualities needed to 'Truly' be an Oberoi

Does Annika have even a single one of these Oberoi Qualities???

I am not surprised that the girl feels unworthy of being an Oberoi and the Family finds her unworthy in return??

She was so right today when she asked him to marry Tia and told him that she is the perfect match for him and his Family. They deserve the likes of Tia and especially Pinky and Shakti.

Truly, Is she worthy of being an Oberoi??

Edited and added to make myself clear in case I get chameli's

This post is to praise and point out Annika's true worth not to demean her. My post is meant to be sarcastic and list the many qualities Annika has that actually makes the Oberoi's unworthy of having her as a Bahu.

As for Shivvay being truly in love with her that I do not debate even for a minute but he has to 'Man Up' and admit what she means to him because it is words that she needs to hear now - the time for gestures is done. He needs to be unselfish and start giving what she needs not what he thinks she needs

tbh I don't want Shivaay to man up.Because I think he has been given enough chances. There were plenty of times he could have given Anika the respect she deserves. Even he himself hasn't respected her. eg "stop trying to be my wife"- that line still hurts like hell.

Now I want Anika to woman up..After this Tia fiasco is fixed,I want her to sit back on the driver's seat and sort her life out. Om and Shivaay can handle Svetlana.. With Tia, I felt she had the right to stay in that house and expose her because Tia had made her the target in all her disgusting games so many times. It was only fair if she was the one to expose her.

But after this, she should be done. The rest of the NB are not her responsibility. The Oberois are so damn ungrateful that even if she gives her life away to them, all they would say is " oh we didn't ask you to do that.."

Originally posted by: Shizuku.T

The first time I watched todays episode, I found it to be perfect in terms of performance and editing but then your post (Aysa) got me thinking...and now after reading some more great posts on the forum about this issue, I have many complaints.

When you love some one it can't be on your terms, it's on mutual terms. Shivika share a kind of soul mate...platonic relationship as Annsageflower pointed out yesterday and I agree with her.

However their connection comes with a flawed condition and that is it has to be on Shivaay's terms. There is no second person and him being the protector, saviour and the great wall will not even acknowledge what the other person needs. He is a great lover but his vision of love is very narrow minded.

The worse part is the OLV of Shitia engagement ceremony where he asks Anika to pick up the ring from the floor and then says give me your hand. Anika puts out her hand and then he repeats...Tia give me your hand and put ring in Tia's hand. Meanwhile Pinki speaks to Anika in a very derogatory tone. If this is Shivaay's idea of evoking love...then this is not love. This is not the Shivaay which Anika deserves...this is a very ruthless side of him which I dislike to the core.

I love Shivika but at this stage...Shivaay even after taking the bullet...doesn't deserve Anika.

And that is what I mean. If this is not a 'ShivIka Act' for NB's benefit then he needs to stop being the only one who controls how this relationship moves and shapes. You need 2 people to make and contribute in a relationship as well as sacrifice and give - not just one.

Up until now he has been SSO in this relationship through and through. He loves you but it is his terms and you have to tow the line - no arguments there, just as he does with his brothers. You do not follow the rules that I have laid down then I cut you off cold turkey. He is used to being in charge, in control and in the drivers seat. He has made the mistake of gauging Annika's unselfish love for her weakness and that is his downfall right there. This girl does not fight for love - she will give in and just fade away in the distance. She does not think it is possible for anyone to love her and make her number 1. The dork has forgotten her conversation with Mallika and OmRu. Causing her pain is not going to make her fight for you but make her feel even more alone. Oh! God .. how I miss OmRu 😭
Right now he is thinking about what he wants the relationship to be and what he feels is right for her but has no time to listen to what she is asking over and over again. Give this relationship a Name and make it a thing of Honor for me not your dirty secret.

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