Takkar ki ishqbaazi??

Originally posted by: Docshradha

Hi guys ! This is my first ever post . I started watching this show in november and have been hooked ever since . And also i have been a silent reader to the beutiful posts that you guys make.

Now coming to my question -- do you guys think shivaay has accepted anika as his wife ( i mean in his heart )?In the past few episodes we have seen how shivaay has subtly started showing concern , care and authority over anika , in a way a hubby would ,towards his wife . But today after reading neha's update about todays episode , i am very disspointed with shivaay's attitude ..SPOILER ALERT !!!

I apologize in advance for the long post

How can shivaay tell anika not to interfere in between ? Okay she is not coming in between them as in listening to their heart to heart talks or being a part of their o bro moment . It only happened twice wen she was just passing by and was invited in by omru. But today was different . Today om was implicated for something that is not expected out if him and it in turn affecting shivaay . Anika had come in to console and support him . But alas was chided away by shivaay . If he would have accpeted anika as his wife at some sub conscious level , then he wouldn't have said these things to anika .
lol Docshradha, I guess scene was put in for all the people on the forum who always bash Annika for jumping in between the O'Bro's and trying to sort their issues for them like a 'Super Bahu'.
Ok.. ok... just kidding before I get bashed for saying that so pls ignore the above statement ... it was just in light humour people😆

On a serious note I think Shivvay is still adjusting to the fact that he has someone to share his problems and worries with. OmRu have always been only his responsibility all these years and he has always taken care of things related to them himself. He has accepted Annika as his wife but has accepted her more as another addition to his list of responsibilities - not someone who would share his responsibilities and help him fix problems. She does that as her 'right and duty' as his wife - he does not willingly include her in this task. He is still adjusting to the whole new feeling that he is not shouldering all this burden of the Family alone with no one to discuss or talk to about it. He is adjusting to his new role as an equal partner in a relationship, where he is looked after and taken care of as well.
He has never had someone look out for him, discuss with him, give him courage, prep talk him or even bother about how he is going to deal with a situation. It is just expected that he will in the Oberoi Family - that is his unspoken task and duty.
What he did was not unlike his nature till before marriage. He has not realized that things and his life has changed. The 'Great Wall' has a 'Great Wall' all his own that is supporting and holding him up. Even after we marry, for the longest time, we hold on to our old ways, individuality and old habits fighting any change that might unsettle us. That is all ShivIka is going through - the first few months of a newly married couple.
And where Shivvay is concerned it is all about control over situations so this man is not going to give that up easily and have an open ear to Annika's suggestions or discussions about his brothers at least for now.

Tab kya hua tha wen shivaay had taken away her home , kidnapped sahil ? . Ek credit toh dena higa shivaay ko he loves his bro like he says he does . He will go to any length to save them . But can this be said for anika . Does she love sahil like she claims to ? Agar aisa hota toh she would not have so easily forgiven shivay! Would he forgive her if she did the same ? And mind u he never even apologise for that .
That part of his redemption is huge and that would have to be post Tia's exit. Annika may have fallen in love but by no means has she forgotten that wound and scar. That will be re visited at a later date. Right now he is working up to that with all the major steps he is taking towards accepting and respecting Annika.

He has apologised for misunerstanding her, but never for forcing her and harassing her bro
That is true becuz I remember mentioning it as well. But that like I said is a huge redemption that he has to earn post his realization that he loves her and cannot live without her. That is a completely new track and promo I am sure.

. Aabhi tak toh shivaay has not even taken any effort from his part to know anything about anika !
Where is the time with all the NB schemes to spend some peaceful quality time with her to even ask about her day forget the past !! The NB's are keeping them on their toes and Om is his priority now - Annika's past is not. All he cares about right now is that she is safe in OM and is under his care. As for Sahil, Shivvay is making a genuine effort with the little boy for the wrong he has done him. I am sure once he loses the dagger named Mrs. Kapoor hanging over his head he will be himself again and support his wife and her brother.

Her family means nothing to him , and somehow even she has not been concerned about sahil as much . Shivaay ek kharoch nahi dekh sakta aur yaha toh baat hi alag hai.
Nothing has happened to Sahil, no one hurt him physically. There was a accusation that the boy had stolen the necklace and it was made by Tia with Mrs. Kapoor in the shadows watching Shivvay. I can understand Annika's anger and her P.O.V but I can also understand the choice Shivvay made. I would have done the very same in his shoes.
If I was given a choice of my brother being revealed as illegitimate that would push him over the edge emotionally and another brother being accused of a theft and being asked to apologize, I would choose as Shivvay did.
I am sure he made it up to the boy and apologized for what happened out there in private over their bowl of ice cream. He even seemed to have shared with him that he did not have a choice in the matter which is more than what he did with Annika, he did not give her an explanation. Sahil he knows is easier to handle and will understand but Annika will worry about what is bothering him and start hounding him about it.
Both boys know that she goes into 'panic mode' the minute something happens to one of them and hence decided to keep it among themselves. It is touching to see how much Shivvay depends on Sahils 'head on his shoulder' kind of maturity ❤️

Abhi tak koi bhi problem solve nahi hua .

Tia has not been exposed

Romi , who we thought is gine for good has made a comeback . This time as a kapoor sister

Svetlana , for body sake om saw her walking ( and even recorded her ), shivikaomru almost exposed her .

Anika's back story about chitki and her being an orphan is still a mistery.

Somya's story about her dead brother, her talks about getting engaged to the guy eho's name i forgot

Prinku 's ordeal with her abuser/stalker/knight in shining armour/policeman/woukd to be hubby. For god sake she has been giving the same breathless expression since day 1 in the bsckground .

Yeh cvs kar kya rahe hai for the oast 6 months ? Ek baat hai , chahe jo problem aa jaye , par oberoi's will celebrate all festivals that comes their way !!
lol ... if they solve everyting within the first 100 -150 episodes then bache ga kya dekhne ??? ... this is one of those 1000 episode wala shows with all the stuff that is still left unfinished.
But yes!!! Tia needs to end because she has started grating on peoples nerves with her kitchen politics and her obsession with Annika