Main Shivay se pyar nahi kar sakti - Page 3

One of the main point is Shivaay knows he did not signed divorce papers not Anika. Why he kept her in dark regarding this? What's the logic? Should we still think that Shivaay loves her and cares for her feelings? Gul really needs a psychiatrist for showing all this. I am not a small kid to think it as love.

Originally posted by: MrDarcyfan

Your right! That IS what a woman with self respect does. Not coz she is "Full of it". But because she knows not to keep investing in a situation where she gets no return. Not just in banking and finance, in life and relationships also you do not continue to invest where there is only loss! There is no wisdom in that, and NO that is not "unconditional love". Unconditional love is not asking for yourself to be devalued every time. You need to be able to respect and love yourself before you can love others. That is a fact.

What Annika is doing is not unconditional love, she is running herself down. Begging and crying behind a man who dragged her into a marriage and then rejected her and called her characterless , THEN saved her, is not any kind of wisdom. Showing a girl like Annika who was shown as bad-ass in this way is really dissapointing. Falling in love does not mean we loose our personality and character. If we do, that is not the kind of love that can sustain. Because I have seen love like that. That kind of love does not last. You cant "Loose yourself" and Love someone else! That is a fact! Annika has lost herself.

I support adjusting for a relation to last longer...Adjustment can be done, u can upgrade urself if it does good to u&ur partner...but in any case changing doesnt mean change ur internal character or ur basic traits(which r ur identity)..Change is welcomed in a way to upgrade oneself, not to degrade urself...What Anika is dng is not getting down my throat...All said during marraige track Anika still has upperhand just that she needs to be back...But her character gone haywire...Khushi was far better as u pointed out...She took very long tym to confess...Albeit, Anika didnt confess as of now(i hope she doesnt...or otherwise its a gone case forever) nd hope she keeps up d littel self respect left out!!!

After marriage Anika's character has changed a lot

Originally posted by: MrDarcyfan

@Ajay227:

I agree. Pyaar mai loag ghirna nahi...ubarna chahiye! Aur yaha Annika apne aap ko ghira rahi hai, pyaar ke liye! Trust me it DOES happen. I have seen it happen. But in the end, jo aapne aap ko ghiraye...wo kabhi iss decision se kush nahi ho sakti. That is the bitter truth.

All I will sayto Gul is "Please show us Annika RISE in love, not FALL in love!" Kya aap ko yeh Qubool Hai? :)

Mandy, we all know what Gul's rly will be..Mujhe yeh Qubool Nahi ki meri heroine self-sufficient ho, khuddar ho aur rich ho...When she says Bad is d new Good & in Nakul's IV also when Nakul asked her abt SSO's character being an MCP, she replied Women r gng to love this...ab is se yahi prove hota hai ki, she wont change her heroines...whatever they may be in beginning, they have to run after male lead for love...

Originally posted by: ajay227

Mandy, we all know what Gul's rly will be..Mujhe yeh Qubool Nahi ki meri heroine self-sufficient ho, khuddar ho aur rich ho...When she says Bad is d new Good & in Nakul's IV also when Nakul asked her abt SSO's character being an MCP, she replied Women r gng to love this...ab is se yahi prove hota hai ki, she wont change her heroines...whatever they may be in beginning, they have to run after male lead for love...

@juhi..then u must have missed it...she said it herself...i got this doubt that she isnt a woman while watching Qubool Hai only...i cant even forget hw she killed off SaHil,SeHaan nd even AzMa were butchered...there is no point that proves her as a sensible woman in her shows,,,she herself behaves like an MCP...

Originally posted by: ajay227

@juhi..then u must have missed it...she said it herself...i got this doubt that she isnt a woman while watching Qubool Hai only...i cant even forget hw she killed off SaHil,SeHaan nd even AzMa were butchered...there is no point that proves her as a sensible woman in her shows,,,she herself behaves like an MCP...

It's not Gul's fault, she did give an independent and confident girl but that didn't fetch any TRP, the TRP started sky rocketing only after the girl was made timid n sati savitri with no self respect when it comes to her husband