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FlauntPesimism

@FlauntPessimism

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Posted: 8 years ago

#11

For whatever reason she has fallen for him but this is good that she wouldn't admit it, it would be Shivaaaye who will fall for her n then confess first, the only saving grace

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Teju

@--Zehnaseeb--

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Posted: 8 years ago

#12

W/o Shivay's redemption slightly it is looking bit weird.. I agree on d this fact.. Becoz he yet didn't say sorry for kidnapping Sahil N forcing her into marriage.. I am glad.. Anika made him remember how badly he treated her till date.. "Yeh sorry aaj ke liye tha ya, aaj tak jo hua un sabke liye.." means she is still waiting for his sorry.. she remembers his behaviour till date... Hope Anika realizes this reality... that he won't ever accept her.. it's ok.. she is in love.. he saved her twice second time even he himself was in pain still he saved her n shown his care.. Orphan girl like her might have thought that she is being cared n loved by someone other than Sahil.. MAy be Shivay too loves her.. but he doesn't respect her at all for being just anika..N.. he still doesn't realize his feelings.. so if choice option will come Anika will be at loosing end.. may be this time he will also feel the pain.. 16th jan epi he said abt marriage.. somewhere that's how his SSO mind still thinks that One day this marriage is gonna end.. but then want to ask him why he didn't sign divorce papers.. ? I enjoyed these nok-jhok scnes btwn.. but again Aniak u havestrted taking this marriage seriously completely put me off.. later.. means Shivay is still SSO.. yes I know he will take lots of time to turn Shivay from SSO.. But till that day.. anika will get hurt..

One more issue.. why why on the earth.. it should be always husband who needs to accept his wife to carry on with their marriage.. ? Why Wife's wish is not being considered in marriage..? Will Gul mam ever show this that anika will reject him one day n will walk out of his life paying all his debt... he needs strong redemption.. he should realize worth of Anika n her love.. Things coming to U easily U don't value them.. but when soemone does struggle to get it.. they value it dearly never to let it go... yeah I know it's just serial.. n I will watch it till there is something not much extreme.. but I will love it if Anika herself will choose for her life.. n relation.. not under someone's debt n all.. plz no..

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Archie

@_SilverLining_

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Posted: 8 years ago

#13

Good post!

Well, I may be in minority but I don't think there's anything wrong with Annika falling in love with Shivaay. Yes he tortured her, forced her to marry him, insulted her, accused her of sleeping with another man for money.

But he is also the same man who flinches every time she gets even a scratch on her, worries like crazy about her, and has already saved her life twice. I know it doesn't mean he should be forgiven for everything in the past - but what I mean to say is it gives Annika another perspective into the man's life - his caring side, his loving side. And Annika is in love with that Shivaay.

Forgiveness and love do not need to go hand in hand. She saw the better side of him and fell for it. It's just that simple for me.

What she does with her feelings now is another story. And whether she accepts him or not, forgives him or not, that's up tp her and the CVs. But in my POV falling in love bit was not that illogical.

Shivaay loves Annika too, he has not realised it yet but his feelings are there and they have been springing up to the surface quite a bit recently and I'm sure he'd introspect about them in the near future. And once he does and realises how much he has hurt the woman he loves - I don't know what circumstances will lead to this introspection, maybe he'll do it himself, or Annika will do something to make him think about all that has transpired between them - I'm sure he'll be repentant and make up for all those bad days. It's his journey to love and it's not over yet. We just gotta wait and watch what happens.

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TheTroubleMaker

@TheTroubleMaker

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Posted: 8 years ago

#14

Originally posted by: _SilverLining_
Good post!

Well, I may be in minority but I don't think there's anything wrong with Annika falling in love with Shivaay. Yes he tortured her, forced her to marry him, insulted her, accused her of sleeping with another man for money.

But he is also the same man who flinches every time she gets even a scratch on her, worries like crazy about her, and has already saved her life twice. I know it doesn't mean he should be forgiven for everything in the past - but what I mean to say is it gives Annika another perspective into the man's life - his caring side, his loving side. And Annika is in love with that Shivaay.

Forgiveness and love do not need to go hand in hand. She saw the better side of him and fell for it. It's just that simple for me.

What she does with her feelings now is another story. And whether she accepts him or not, forgives him or not, that's up tp her and the CVs. But in my POV falling in love bit was not that illogical.

Shivaay loves Annika too, he has not realised it yet but his feelings are there and they have been springing up to the surface quite a bit recently and I'm sure he'd introspect about them in the near future. And once he does and realises how much he has hurt the woman he loves - I don't know what circumstances will lead to this introspection, maybe he'll do it himself, or Annika will do something to make him think about all that has transpired between them - I'm sure he'll be repentant and make up for all those bad days. It's his journey to love and it's not over yet. We just gotta wait and watch what happens.

Very Well put and completely agree :)) Copy pasting my views I wrote somewhere else yesterday on Similar topic in this context :

Shivay has changed...Yes he has changed and He loves Anika too, he has no realization of his feelings for her coz he has not yet given it a thought, but he loves her too, he has proven it by risking his own life to save her life...coz now she is his life!

He has to sit back and think over his feelings for her but circumstances are such that he is so much occupied right now, to think about his own self, own feelings,...but still he shows love to her in his own unique ways, sometimes by cooking for her, sometimes by lifting her, smiling with her getting upset with her, teasing her, joking with her, trusting her doubts over others in the house and by taking her along on such serious issues...wen he woke up, he was so concerned for her, first checked her hands if she got injured, if she is fine! He tries to make her smile wen she was sad in the car by joking around, he comforted her wen she just hugged him instantly!

Yes he is completely changed, just the realization remains and that will happen at the right time too, I have full faith in it...Its his journey afterall😆

And regarding Anika, SC in her offscreen byte did say that I had to keep the emotions intact in that scene where she goes under the couch to hide for him,...she said that Anika is going through many emotions and she is feeling love, she cannot control those feelings coz she is in love but she is doing all sorts of weird stuff to run away from him!

In a way she is running away from her feelings and acceptance of her own love! But in the end she was unable to control her feelings anymore so she gives up and hugs him tightly without saying anything, wen he questions her on why she is running away since morning!

I think Shivay understood she is troubled with her feelings and going through some emotional tension so he caresses her & comforts her wen she surprise hugged him!

No harm she is feeling for him, we all do...and somewhere she knows feelings are not one sided...yes the circumstances are not favorable right now and Shivay has not given a thought to his own feelings, but I don't agree with those who say he doesn't respect her or he doesn't love her...whatever e is doing her is not just something he would do for any random girl, Shivay himself always maintained, Anika ki baat alag hai! Yes Anika is different and he not only cares for her, subconsciously that girl has become the most important part of his life and he has no realization of that...I agree, e needs to introspect and he would do it at the right time!

As of now I am enjoying the subtle, silent moments and exchange of sweet lil feelings between them which also is a sort of way of showing love to each other <3 ❤️

Edited by Crazy4Mayur - 8 years ago

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Soapoperasrfun

@Soapoperasrfun

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Posted: 8 years ago

#15

I agree with ~SilverLining~

Before anyone starts jumping down my throat, I am on Anika's side and certainly don't support any of Shivaay's actions during the wedding. But that is one side of Shivaay, and like Anika, we have also been privy to his other side. And as ruthless as he may have been during that time, from having watched the show for a while now, we know that that is not the real him.

I am reminded of something Mallika said to Anika during her time at OM. That Shivaay has had to manage so many things since such a young age that it is imperative for him to put on a strong, bold and ruthless front for the world. He has to do it. During the wedding segment, Anika was an outsider to him, and he truly believed that she was of low morals. Again, not justifying his actions, but since the time she has been married to him, he is a changed man and his attitude towards her has changed completely. And Anika can see that...

She can remain angry with him forever for his actions and never forgive him completely. He deserves that too. But the man was almost on his death bed. That wasn't a time for her to look at his negatives. Despite his negatives, she has fallen in love with his positive and sensitive side. She acknowledged that to herself. That is alright!

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pooja

@uppaas

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Posted: 8 years ago

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Originally posted by: _SilverLining_
Good post!

Well, I may be in minority but I don't think there's anything wrong with Annika falling in love with Shivaay. Yes he tortured her, forced her to marry him, insulted her, accused her of sleeping with another man for money.

But he is also the same man who flinches every time she gets even a scratch on her, worries like crazy about her, and has already saved her life twice. I know it doesn't mean he should be forgiven for everything in the past - but what I mean to say is it gives Annika another perspective into the man's life - his caring side, his loving side. And Annika is in love with that Shivaay.

Forgiveness and love do not need to go hand in hand. She saw the better side of him and fell for it. It's just that simple for me.

What she does with her feelings now is another story. And whether she accepts him or not, forgives him or not, that's up tp her and the CVs. But in my POV falling in love bit was not that illogical.

Shivaay loves Annika too, he has not realised it yet but his feelings are there and they have been springing up to the surface quite a bit recently and I'm sure he'd introspect about them in the near future. And once he does and realises how much he has hurt the woman he loves - I don't know what circumstances will lead to this introspection, maybe he'll do it himself, or Annika will do something to make him think about all that has transpired between them - I'm sure he'll be repentant and make up for all those bad days. It's his journey to love and it's not over yet. We just gotta wait and watch what happens.

BEAUTIFUL... I share the same sentiments...love hai yaaar it happened ...anika is more emotionally vulnerable than shivay..I dont think anyone had cared or worried or protected her like shivay does inspite of everything n she is pure n straightforward n has never withheld her feelings ..shivay is emotionally challanged n will take time to realize n admit...he is in character so is anika..that what I think

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FlauntPesimism

@FlauntPessimism

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Posted: 8 years ago

#17

People I do understand that Anika falling isn't an unusual thing but is surely an indication of weak personality, it's like falling for your kidnapper because he was good to you, till now Shivaaaye hasn't given any heed to Anika's wishes it is all about him , he wanted so get married, he wanted so sign divorce papers, he wants so attend the reception , he wants so don't say to the world that you are married, he might care of her n love her but he certainly doesn't respect her till now n any girl who falls for a guy who doesn't respect her is that of a weak personality which I don't want Anika to be

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K.AJAY MANIKANTA

@ajay227

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Posted: 8 years ago

#18

Originally posted by: FlauntPessimism
People I do understand that Anika falling isn't an unusual thing but is surely an indication of weak personality, it's like falling for your kidnapper because he was good to you, till now Shivaaaye hasn't given any heed to Anika's wishes it is all about him , he wanted so get married, he wanted so sign divorce papers, he wants so attend the reception , he wants so don't say to the world that you are married, he might care of her n love her but he certainly doesn't respect her till now n any girl who falls for a guy who doesn't respect her is that of a weak personality which I don't want Anika to be

But sadly thats d case with Gul heroines...A strong woman will automatically stop trying if she feels unwanted.She wont fix it or beg, she will just walk away(read this line somewhere)..So this is definitely not d case with Anika..instead of walking away, she is clinged to Shivaay nd wants to solve all his pblms...Hard to accept but Anika is ruined!!!!

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Mandy

@MrDarcyfan

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Posted: 8 years ago

#19

What do we call a woman who falls in love with a man who accuses her of selling herself for money? I dont even know? That is what Annika has done. Leave aside self respect, what woman with even one jot of pride would do that? What does Gul want to show? That no matter how much a man insults you, as soon as he is "Nice" to you, you fall at his feet? Sad.

Since the forced wedding, they have been showing Annika in a weak light. I know they wanted TRP, and showing her as a Bechari who is wanting the acceptance of her forced husband is a good way to get it. But they didnt have to take it this far. They probably could have got TRP even showing her maintaining some distance from Shivaay and keeping her dignity, but still being a good DIL as per Daadi's wishes, coz she respects her. But here they showed the opposite. Within a day of the forced wedding, Annika is willing to be annouced as Shivaay's wife and even after a huge come down, when Tia is announced, she still sticks around. OK fine, she stayed. But then she is doing rituals and crying all the time. Then after Shivaay saved her from Daksh, all she did was fight with Tia about how she is the real wife, and how she will save Shivaay etc.

Now she is in love and going to confess? (Sorry didnt see the last few epsidoes). The problem here is that it's ALL about Shivaay. Even the people who have commented Pro Annika falling for him is seeing it from Shivaay's POV. Not Annika's. It's like she doesnt matter at all, and only that Shivaay has "changed" matters? Like how? WHY should it matter if he has changed? Has he acknowledged the wrong done? Has he apologised for victimising her, and always running the show? Marry when he wants, divorce when he wants, stop the divorce when he wants? Yeh ho kya raha hai? Annika ki koi VALUE bhi hai ya nahi? Sorry, but I dont understand this stockholm syndrome love story. Even in Gul's last SP show, the heroine took a LONG time to accept her feelings for the Hero. In fact HE confessed twice before she did. The "I love you" on the phone and "I love you dammit" on the terrace. She only said it after that. People used to diss her and Gul those days too, but yaha toh Gul had hi kar di!

I am just telling it like it is! Anyone who likes Annika confessing and thinks Shivaay deserves her love. Fine. Your opinion. But this is mine. I dont think Shivaay has redeemed himself. He needs to TELL Annika she is important, and not just Annika, tell everyone what she is to him! The day he tells the world Annika is his wife, not Tia, stops treating her like a dirty secret...THAT is the day I will say he deserves Annika's love. Not before.

Edited by MrDarcyfan - 8 years ago

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Mandy

@MrDarcyfan

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Posted: 8 years ago

#20

Originally posted by: ajay227

But sadly thats d case with Gul heroines...A strong woman will automatically stop trying if she feels unwanted.She wont fix it or beg, she will just walk away(read this line somewhere)..So this is definitely not d case with Anika..instead of walking away, she is clinged to Shivaay nd wants to solve all his pblms...Hard to accept but Anika is ruined!!!!

Your right! That IS what a woman with self respect does. Not coz she is "Full of it". But because she knows not to keep investing in a situation where she gets no return. Not just in banking and finance, in life and relationships also you do not continue to invest where there is only loss! There is no wisdom in that, and NO that is not "unconditional love". Unconditional love is not asking for yourself to be devalued every time. You need to be able to respect and love yourself before you can love others. That is a fact.

What Annika is doing is not unconditional love, she is running herself down. Begging and crying behind a man who dragged her into a marriage and then rejected her and called her characterless , THEN saved her, is not any kind of wisdom. Showing a girl like Annika who was shown as bad-ass in this way is really dissapointing. Falling in love does not mean we loose our personality and character. If we do, that is not the kind of love that can sustain. Because I have seen love like that. That kind of love does not last. You cant "Loose yourself" and Love someone else! That is a fact! Annika has lost herself.

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