Shivaay's behaviour is again whitewashed conveniently

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Shivaay twisted Anika's arms again n manhandled her before saying those insulting things to her. But after she signs d divorce papers n leaves d room Shivaay is shown to have not signed d divorce papers. Wow! Wat a convenient way to whitewash Shivaay's behaviours like Gul always do? So all his mistakes moments ago is forgiven as he did not signed d divorce papers? Wat a mahapurush he is who did not signed d divorce papers but can't include Anika in d plan n mistreat her again n again physically n verbally?

Moral: A man abusing his wife is forgiven as long as he does not divorces her. So she should bear his tortured as he is doing a favour on her by not divorcing her.

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Jho log dekna chahthe hai vahi dikhayegaa Gul...i dont blame her entirely..becoz in most of our indian households Wives wil be like Anika only...not like Aaliya of Beintehaa...They will be forgiving nd even overlooks cheating,infedility as long as hubby is with them...becoz its a notion created by society nd a woman left by a man after marraige or even divorcee r a taboos in Indian society till now...The thinking nd d perspectives have to change, then only we can see some change in Indian tv content!!!
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Posted: 8 years ago
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First of all I really don't understand why would Anika not want to divorce someone who blackmailed here to marry n never gave her the rights of a wife post that. What made her feel that she is Shivaaaye's wife? I know rituals mean a lot but more than that it is the mutual respect n respect to the relation that binds two people together into any relation

Ok yes he loved her but not one behaviour of his revealed that.

Some people might say forgiveness is divine. Undoubtedly forgiveness is divine. Anika should have forgiven him but since when did forgiveness become equal to living a married life? When did forgiveness become equal to loving the other person as her beloved?

Secondly yes so Shivaaaye can manhandle Anika and treat her like a trash but since he didn't divorce her he is good. Although this time they have given him a good reason n justification that his brother's repute was at danger so OK marry someone for your family repute divorce other for your brother's repute and all with force. It is all justified

As we know Anika will not leave the house n would rather do the pehli rasoi where Shivaaaye will eat all her burnt food n hence prove his love everything about the past would be forgotten

And you can't blame Gul for this doormat Anika brought much more TRP than the brave n self sufficient Anika. The Nayi Soch of doormat wife n abusing husband was liked by all

Actually for TRP audience a girl going against her husband even for her hygiene rights is not acceptable but a husband is allowed to do anything till he doesn't divorce the wife or sleeps with the other woman (allowed if he actually sleeps then) and that is what they are showing
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I don't care abt Anika anymore as she is disappointing but I can't see Shivaay being whitewashed again n again. He manhandled n insulted her again but he is excuses just cuz he was tensed regarding Om' s illegitimacy n dat he did not signed d papers. If it's so why did not be included Anika in his plan wen she was d only one to stand by him n trust him? Why he his plan 4m her? Forcing her to sign by manhandling n insulting but not himself signing(widout her knowledge) does not makes him a good person n justifies his actions.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I hate this Anika.
It's okay to feel down cause she thought that she finally had a family but staying with a person who blackmailed you into marrying him and is still man handling you is not acceptable.
I don't feel any emotions for these two anymore.
And then Star Plus will give her the best patni award.

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Posted: 8 years ago
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All I need to say is its all becoz of love. The hidden love from both Shivay's and Anika's side. In real life also if we start to love someone then we will eventually start to forgive them for their mistakes. I don't knw about others. Buy in my case it is like that.
Like great thoughts says "everything is fair in love n war"& "love is blind"
For me the great sin which cannot be forgiven is cheating in love. Others are forgivable
There would be no need for love if perfection were possible. Love arises from our imperfection, from our being different and always in need of the forgiveness, encouragement and that missing half of ourselves that we are searching for, in order to complete ourselves.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I agree that Annika is being shown weak and yes Shivaay is being whitewashed. This is a GUL show and we all knew that Shivaay will NEVER get a redemption track coz Gul doesnt think Shivaay needs to be redeemed. He has done nothing wrong. That is why she was gushing on Insta and calling his actions the "New Good!". What more do you expect?


@Ajay227:
I dont agree that only when "society" changes that TV content will change. Then I guess it will never change? What was the point of showing Annika as a strong girl who wont take her insult, if now they show her doing "Item songs" for a man who insulted her so badly, and treated her with so much disrespect when he forced her to marry him. I have no further expectations from her and their track.


@Raina1234:
SP's Nayi Soch is just a joke when it comes to Annika right now. Yes she will get best patni award! It's too disapointing to even discuss, when this show was promoted as a progressive show. But I guess what gets TRP is regression and showing a woman as a doormat who would rather stay married to a man who never gave her the position of his wife, then I guess that is all they will show.

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Posted: 8 years ago
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true👏👏👏

well written:D




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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Anuradha.anu

All I need to say is its all becoz of love. The hidden love from both Shivay's and Anika's side. In real life also if we start to love someone then we will eventually start to forgive them for their mistakes. I don't knw about others. Buy in my case it is like that.
Like great thoughts says "everything is fair in love n war"& "love is blind"
For me the great sin which cannot be forgiven is cheating in love. Others are forgivable
There would be no need for love if perfection were possible. Love arises from our imperfection, from our being different and always in need of the forgiveness, encouragement and that missing half of ourselves that we are searching for, in order to complete ourselves.


As I mentioned forgiveness doesn't mean loving. And loving doesn't mean letting the other off their crimes.

Being imperfect is one thing and being criminal is another. Shivaaaye behaved as a criminal here. He threatened to undress her n if you can forgive those you are a saint but if you want to continue your life with that person you either are foolish or without self esteem.

Forget wife I would not say the mother of a terrorist who hid her son's crime as pardonable

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