SSO is confusing me.

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Guys, what do you think is going on with SSO? I mean when I watched the kidnapping episode, it seemed like he was reflecting love for anika, from the thought of losing her...
Now, with Tia's pregnancy track, he was consoling her by saying ASAP the divorced in finalized he will marry her.

I am confused, does he really love Anika, or he suppresses his feelings when his mind takes over his heart? To me it seems like he will be keeping Anika in friend-zone for a sometime...

Anyway, what are your thoughts on our present Shivika?

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Well he is confused.On one hand he wants to keep Annika close but n the other hand he had announced Tia as his wife in front of media. So now madam Tia is taking full advantage of it. He is in a FIX right now😆 and that serves him right for insulting Annika.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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He himself created the mess...would take him a while to get out of it...
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Posted: 8 years ago
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This is what I feel. It may turn out different.

Anika is in love with Shivaay. She had her realisation before the marriage.

For Shivaay, he feels he shares a connection with Anika. Now we feel connected to a lot of people. He is someone who shares a connection with very few people. He has acted on his jealousy so may be he thinks he likes her a lot & has this physical attraction towards her, infatuation of some sort. Or just may be he thinks he was jealous of Daksh bcoz he was losing a friend. That happens with us too, right.

Truely he does love her. He just hasn't realised that yet. And that's where what you said applies perfectly. When he lets his heart rule, his heart acts on his love for her. But he has been hesitant about the realization. So when his brain rules, he goes back to resisting his feelings.

Now coming to Tia. She was commiting suicide with kerosene on her body & match stick in her hand. If at that moment he would have said he wouldn't divorce Anika, may be she would have done something. So may be he just was assuring her for time being.

Now look at him after the pregnancy news was out among the family or in today's precap. He keeps glancing at Anika. Bcoz somewhere in his head he wants her to not fall in this mirage like his family & trust him. He wants her to stay with him.

I guess this whole track will bring him to realise that he can't live without her not bcoz she is among the few people who matter or is his friend, but bcoz he is madly in love with her. Secondly ofcourse his beliefs will be shattered. And thirdly how it feels when you lose control over your life, which he did to Anika. So he will be forced to divorce her, even when that is the last thing he wants to do right now.That would be a another stop on his guilt trip!
Coming to his belief in Tia. We have to cut the guy some slack. Tia is someone who fits his parameters. He knows her since 3 years. Anika is an out of box exception for him & he knows her since 2 months. So he having a little more trust in Tia is understandable. But her actions are making him question her now which is how it is suppose to go in normal life.

Now when his beliefs in her will be broken & in Anika will get stronger, he will start trusting her more. And when this divorce thing will be till his neck he will definitely realise how difficult it is to live without Anika & finally let his heart take the decisions in the matter.
Edited by poemssyndrome - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Confused person obviously confuses us also. I think shivaay thinks in very short term basis. He wanted save family and arranges 1 day marriage with random girl! What happens next did he ever think? He didnt know if tia would come back. What was he planning😆 Same way now to stop tia suicide drama he says wait till divorce. Jab divorce ka din kareeb ayega phir se kuch karega to be not let that happen or not to move away from anika.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: poemssyndrome

This is what I feel. It may turn out different.

Anika is in love with Shivaay. She had her realisation before the marriage.

For Shivaay, he feels he shares a connection with Anika. Now we feel connected to a lot of people. He is someone who shares a connection with very few people. He has acted on his jealousy so may be he thinks he likes her a lot & has this physical attraction towards her, infatuation of some sort. Or just may be he thinks he was jealous of Daksh bcoz he was losing a friend. That happens with us too, right.

Truely he does love her. He just hasn't realised that yet. And that's where what you said applies perfectly. When he lets his heart rule, his heart acts on his love for her. But he has been hesitant about the realization. So when his brain rules, he goes back to resisting his feelings.

Now coming to Tia. She was commiting suicide with kerosene on her body & match stick in her hand. If at that moment he would have said he wouldn't divorce Anika, may be she would have done something. So may be he just was assuring her for time being.

Now look at him after the pregnancy news was out among the family or in today's precap. He keeps glancing at Anika. Bcoz somewhere in his head he wants her to not fall in this mirage like his family & trust him. He wants her to stay with him.

I guess this whole track will bring him to realise that he can't live without her not bcoz she is among the few people who matter or is his friend, but bcoz he is madly in love with her. Secondly ofcourse his beliefs will be shattered. And thirdly how it feels when you lose control over your life, which he did to Anika. So he will be forced to divorce her, even when that is the last thing he wants to do right now.That would be a another stop on his guilt trip!
Coming to his belief in Tia. We have to cut the guy some slack. Tia is someone who fits his parameters. He knows her since 3 years. Anika is an out of box exception for him & he knows her since 2 months. So he having a little more trust in Tia is understandable. But her actions are making him question her now which is how it is suppose to go in normal life.

Now when his beliefs in her will be broken & in Anika will get stronger, he will start trusting her more. And when this divorce thing will be till his neck he will definitely realise how difficult it is to live without Anika & finally let his heart take the decisions in the matter.


tHANKS,
that was very wonderfully put. Now, I am seeing your points. Divorcing Anika will be the most hardest step he will have to take and it will definitely be against his will... It will all come down to what Anika has said " you will realize how much pain it causes when you lose control of your life" and on top of that Pirveer marriage will happen.

I too feel that Shivay connects with very few people... and it is the first time he connected so well with a "middle class " person... so i guess it will take him sometime to converge his "feelings" for anika into actually giving it the name "love".

But, what do you think abt the scene where said holding lifeless anika in his arms " you can't leave me..." I felt that he really meant as he had accepted her as his "life-partner".

I guess, you are correct, Shivay must go through the fire, to realize his true feelings for Anika.😊

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Posted: 8 years ago
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This is what I feel. It may turn out different.

Anika is in love with Shivaay. She had her realisation before the marriage.

For Shivaay, he feels he shares a connection with Anika. Now we feel connected to a lot of people. He is someone who shares a connection with very few people. He has acted on his jealousy so may be he thinks he likes her a lot & has this physical attraction towards her, infatuation of some sort. Or just may be he thinks he was jealous of Daksh bcoz he was losing a friend. That happens with us too, right.

Truely he does love her. He just hasn't realised that yet. And that's where what you said applies perfectly. When he lets his heart rule, his heart acts on his love for her. But he has been hesitant about the realization. So when his brain rules, he goes back to resisting his feelings.
I too agree that he does love her (barring what he did on the wedding day - I wish we could wipe that out of our memories).
Also we have to remember that he has not explored or allowed himself to explore his feelings because he is the kind of man who takes his commitments and relationships seriously. That is a positive quality if you look at it in outside the 'ShivIka' equation. The man makes a commitment and sticks to it even if he is tempted to do otherwise. He has strong convictions and principles that he upholds no matter what. A very good quality in a husband don't you think??? Here is temptation waltzing in and parading before his eyes day and night and he still kept his commitment to Tia who he does not even love! Can you imagine his commitment to the woman he does love?


Now coming to Tia. She was commiting suicide with kerosene on her body & match stick in her hand. If at that moment he would have said he wouldn't divorce Anika, may be she would have done something. So may be he just was assuring her for time being.
I agree with that as well. I was actually very curious as to what he was going to answer Tia when she hugged him (as Annika walked in) and asked if he would always look after her and her baby. He was smart even then and said "I'll be there for you" ... I'll be there for you!!!?? really??? that is hardly any commitment to the woman you promised to marry a few hours back when she was trying to commit suicide.
The man has had his veil of 'trustworthy Tia' lifted by Tia herself. No man appreciates a scene where you are discussing private matters in public like it is around the office water cooler. He was sharp enough to ask her the right questions even then but she as usual played the emotional blackmail card and he had to back down.


Now look at him after the pregnancy news was out among the family or in today's precap. He keeps glancing at Anika. Bcoz somewhere in his head he wants her to not fall in this mirage like his family & trust him. He wants her to stay with him.
Oh! You are so right there ... lol😆 It was so amazing to see him come back grab her hand, like you would your best friends, and ask her to come with him to Tia's house. He does not trust anyone but her now and it is going to be pretty impossible for anyone to separate him from her from now on. He and Annika have found that comfort level with each other since yesterday and whatever may happen after this there is no going back from there.
It reminded me of his comfort level with Mallika but with the sizzling romance as the cherry on top. They are making me fall in love with them with this whole giggling. laughing and conspiring like besties attitude. It is so refreshing to see it in a ML and FL on a show. I think Rudy just lost his 'partner in crime to Bhaiya'. He is not going to be too happy about it

I guess this whole track will bring him to realise that he can't live without her not bcoz she is among the few people who matter or is his friend, but bcoz he is madly in love with her. Secondly ofcourse his beliefs will be shattered. And thirdly how it feels when you lose control over your life, which he did to Anika. So he will be forced to divorce her, even when that is the last thing he wants to do right now.That would be a another stop on his guilt trip!
Spot On !!!
Coming to his belief in Tia. We have to cut the guy some slack. Tia is someone who fits his parameters. He knows her since 3 years. Anika is an out of box exception for him & he knows her since 2 months. So he having a little more trust in Tia is understandable. But her actions are making him question her now which is how it is suppose to go in normal life.
And Tia has never given him reason to doubt her ever. She was the most patient, understanding and undemanding fiance who never opposed his decisions or even challenged them. So you can understand how this must come as a shock to the man who was upset just yesterday that Annika followed Tia to the resort.
Even now she only shows her maliciousness to Annika not to him. This pregnancy thing is what has affected him directly because till then it was only Annika who had been at the receiving end. She put Shivvay on the spot in front of the whole family and actually has attacked his very reputation and character. That is leaving a bad taste in his mouth because he ha fallen in his family's eyes.
With CCTV footage about his forced marriage it happened with Annika but she handled the situation where his family did not shun or alienate him. Tia is alienating him and shaming him and I don't think he is taking that very well right now.

Now when his beliefs in her will be broken & in Anika will get stronger, he will start trusting her more. And when this divorce thing will be till his neck he will definitely realise how difficult it is to live without Anika & finally let his heart take the decisions in the matter.
Yep! that day is not too far off now
Edited by asya34 - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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i think shivaay didnt realise his love for anika...he feels some connection only...he need anika for silly fight ; 2 understand his feelings etc...someone should make him understand dat it s called love...he said 2 anika dat tia wont lie...bt dont know y she s lying today...😆...i think one more shivika fight s on d way...shivaay will tell anika dat he believes tia after seeing positive dna reports 2 times...if anika said anything about tias character shivaay will insult her for her khoonkhandan...anika will recollect all d insult...after exposing tia anika will sign d divorce paper n give 2 shivaay...
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Originally posted by: reshma4875

i think shivaay didnt realise his love for anika...he feels some connection only...he need anika for silly fight ; 2 understand his feelings etc...someone should make him understand dat it s called love...he said 2 anika dat tia wont lie...bt dont know y she s lying today...😆...i think one more shivika fight s on d way...shivaay will tell anika dat he believes tia after seeing positive dna reports 2 times...if anika said anything about tias character shivaay will insult her for her khoonkhandan...anika will recollect all d insult...after exposing tia anika will sign d divorce paper n give 2 shivaay...



next Shivika fight will be very bad. Anika had suffered so much. That psycho kidnapping can put a normal person into post traumatic stress disorder...


I wish Omru gets well soon, because i feel like from the "dil bole oberoi" moment, the four oberoy should team up to solve this pregnancy track.

I feel like after the media knowing abt the pregnancy, Shivay will have doubt even though the dna report will be positive. I hope SSO, gets another dr. for a second opinion 😉

Billionaire like him should even send the sample to John Hopkins if required hehe

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