Originally posted by: asya34
Ohh kya mere post se laga ki I'm not happy about this development 😆 I'm very happy ki finally Shivaay ki batati jaal gayi! 😊 And I totally completely agree with what you have written, asya!!
Yep!! I am so happy I am doing the Sallu moves as well ... lol 🤣Haha 🤣
But mera issue is - as soon as I start rejoicing woh stupid forced marriage track ki inconsistencies yaad aati hai and then, I feel the need to add a disclaimer to my posts 😳(and also to protect myself from any bashing 😆)
I know what you mean and I do agree that what he did is not to be pardoned easily ... but my post was more for people who say he is not to be pardoned at all ... we need to remember that as wrong and hurtful as his actions were the fact remains that for some dumb reason the girl loves him ... she did not fall for this cruel man but for the one he is going to revert back to ... to err is human
Ohh yeh toh thoda personal preference and POV ki baat hai.. Point is mere liye current Shivaay is irredeemable but I know that the character Anika ke liye he is redeemable(if CVs give them a proper track)..
And unfortunately for Mr. SSO he gets judged by me in 2 modes - mera personal mode and Anika ka mode 😆 Just Kidding 😊
Mein toh shuru se CVs se khaafa hoon 😆.. Shivaay se zyaada din nahi reh saki.. I think it is kind of obvious, I adore this character 😳
You mean the 'duh' Shivvay when he is around Annika .. right?
Not exactly.. I love the awkward Bilu for sure - he is adorable..😳
But I was(and I think will be) a huge huge fan of the EVOLVING Shivaay 😃:
The one who did not scream at Anika when she took Om's situation lightly even though this is the same brother he sent her to jail for,
The one who did not say anything to Anika after Daksh's incident even though in his head he had a lot to say, (instead he smashed the plate)
The one who shook his head in denial when he questioned if Anika can do this after Daksh's incident, even though his eyes were screaming the apocalyptic scene he saw,
The one who thought he can make her zindagi 😆 but still did not want to directly add her to his zindagi 😊
The one who said Sorry to Anika after the Dev instead, even though for him SORRY still seems to the hardest word, 😆
The one who went to talk to a lonely and sad Anika at his engagement, even though he was supposed to stay away,
The one who was conflicted between the head and heart..
The one who was learning and evolving 😆
I knew that the head had to win the first battle but I still expected the heart to have some say 😊- which the Jo Bheji scene gave and the manhandling one did not - and hence the disappointment 😭
Again, Not sure if I made any sense 😊
But according to me, what SSO did on that wedding day(the manhandling without any hesitancy) was not in character(and sab aiwi hi add kar diya).. Emotional torture that it was but 'Jo Bheji Thi Dua' was.. 😭😭 😭
Sadly, I have seen this in real life with a relative of mine ... till date neither he nor his wife can understand what took over him the day he physically abused her in a rage ... to say that even 7 years from the date he is ashamed of what he put her through that day is putting it mildly... she left home and he spent the next few months trying to redeem himself and boy did he try... she did forgive him (love as I said - it's makes us soft) and they have been happy since then ... he has never repeated it again ... what he did that day was out of his character as well and shocked our whole family
I have actually seen both sides of this coin.. 😭I have someone close who went through something similar.. Frankly, she(and many others have) have forgiven him but I still have not and I think I will never be able too.. 😔 I'm civil with him(because he hasn't repeated the mistake) but he knows and I know that I have this grudge.. And I understand that this is my flaw 😆am not very forgiving 😔 - if someone crosses a particular limit 😭
But this one is happy-ending case, there is another case, where the guy redeemed himself but then suddenly reverted back to the 1.0 mode and she keeps forgiving in the name of love 😭
Okay.. This became thoda serious back to Sallu rejoicing happy mode 😆
And nahi sweetheart ... I was agreeing with the disappointment and 'chodo' part ... i am disappointed too but like you I am like "choddo'' lets move forward and salvage what is left of the ShivIka ... lol
Agreed!! Chodo is the motto and I hope and pray that CVs bas mujhe consistency de de.. I'll be happy 😊
Jhanak
