Originally posted by: poemssyndrome
Today's episode was definitely a lot to process. I saw it with my parents & my father was more disgusted than both me & my mom.
It was abominable , how he behaved. Some men have this innate cruelty when pushed to breaking point. I have seen it myself. I knew my husband for many years before I married him. And yet after marriage, I witnessed one really scary loss of temper that put the fear of the devil in him. It wasn't directed at me, but i had to put down ground rules, that what i saw wasn't healthy and I will not put up with it around my children. And he made an effort. People change.
I saw that extreme version of Shivaay yesterday. Although I hate it, it must be dealt with. Either by his family or the woman he eventually lives with. He cannot threaten people and get away with it like this. Bullying and oppression is NOT sexy.
I believe both of them are evils bcoz at the bottom of it they donot respect women. If Daksh took the decision of making Anika stay in his life without her will. Even though she said yes, her yes was a product of a whole lot of manipulation. Shivaay too is pressuring her to marry him using Sahil. Both of them thought of her as a thing to possess. If SSO thinks that he can use & throw her, Daksh thinks he can own her as his property.
Exactly. That staggering lack of respect for her frightened me. I don't want him touching Annika anymore and I hope she doesn't let him without repercussions (scratches, slaps, kicks whatever).
I take my words back. He doesn't love her. He may be obsessed with her or infatuated with her, but it's not love. Love is selfless and giving, generous, consuming. He is not there yet.
I hope the makers make it a show of Shivaay realising his mistakes & working on himself. The rage actually has to wash away for him to see what he did to Anika. He hating himself will be a better redemption that Anika hating him. I hope they show that
I hope so too. Manhandling , threatening Sahil is just evil. Himself a brother of 2, he could do that to her is just pukeworthy. Janwar.
Please no tracks where Anika takes it on herself to prove her innocence. She never has to prove herself, even if she had slept with Daksh. It's a Woman's will to do whatever with her body.
I think he had thought her different. I don't think he judged her for the act, but that she acted like a virtuous person to him. And that illusion broke, hence the disgust. She need not prove anything to him now, except get the hell away from him fast.
And I agree to it. He is no Darcy. Darcy's only bad doing was separating his friend & Jane. For which he redeemed himself not just by bringing them together but helping Lizzy a hell lot. He even gave her choice & respected her choices.