What will Vansh do when he will know Ridhima is pregnant? - Page 6

Originally posted by: phoenix27

he did said that but when you hear his whole dialogue you will realise that it is more from fear than his imposing behaviour. in whole dialogue the way he talked about baby it felt that he was already feeling his baby and wanted to protect it.

Originally posted by: pyaar2012

Ha i agree. Yeh dar jayez hai.Par he is becoming very unreasonable. How can he said mein yeh hone nhi dunga.yeh decision woh khud nhi le sakta. Ek aulad ma bap ki pyar ki sab se priceless and beautiful nishani hoti hai.Riansh 's baby is a sign of healthy and happy marriage of their life. Yaha pe woh khud ki dar k wajah se riddhima ki happiness nhi chin sakta. He is scared its his love! But telling that he will not alow it its wrong. Baccha hoga ya nhi yeh ma bap ki joint decision hota hai. He just cant say his point and go away. He needs to atleast address riddhima that what he is thinking.yeh decision agar usney akele me le liya toh its will b unjust and insensitive. Mein uska dar galat nhi keh rahi hoon.The decision he has taken is galat. i am just saying he can not just take it alone.

Ok so according to you those who can't have/don't want to have children unki marriage happy nahi hoti ? he is fearing because he don't want his child to suffer after him, this fear in not even unreasonable looking at the fact he has just came out of death.

A child is just a child, vo kisi bhi chij ka certificate nahi hota, certainly not of a happy marriage. Otherwise vo log to kabhi divorce hi na lete jinke bacche hote.

Rahi baat vansh ki, he has said that to his sister and best friend Ridhima and vansh hasn't confronted yet. When they will confront then we can talk about that. Unreasonable doubts se we will only give negative publicity to the show., which is the last thing we want and need.

Originally posted by: phoenix27

the conversation he has with angre and siya was mature one. he told them his fear and why he don't want children. that same thing he needs to tell to ridhima. he hasn't gone to his room so assuming that he will not talk to ridhima is a bit insensitivity at this point. this guy has this realisation just now about how dangerous his life is and what kind denger he can put both ridhima and baby. let him sink in and let him at-least make the mistake before putting all your guns blazing at him.

People, who think he is unreasonable.. sorry but I don't think cv's could have shown Vansh's emotion so well as they did today. Have some faith in Vansh.

Originally posted by: bahi.

I agree, it was matured conversation, and he explains his fear so well. Why assume that he will avoid Riddhima. It's not her fault. They are married and have consumed their marriage, so this will happen. He just have to sink in. I have a feeling that Siya might have a huge role in convincing him. He will not do anything to hurt Riddhima. In today's episode he never talked ill about about the child. he just doesn't want to put a child in danger and the fear of what will happen if the child lose a parent. He has experienced that, so he will not risk it. And he can't live with himself if his child dies because of him. Riddhima is his responsibility and he felt today what this fear does to him. A child will only add more worries for him. Yes, he said: I'll make sure that there won't be a child. But he doesn't know that he is already going to be a father.

People, who think he is unreasonable.. sorry but I don't think cv's could have shown Vansh's emotion so well as they did today. Have some faith in Vansh.

That's what i am saying we you see the scene then only you will understand how good both the scene and Rrahul were in that scene.

Originally posted by: pyaar2012

i have not watched yet. Did he not say i will make sure ki bacha na ho? The reason may b whstsover.He cant dictate it. Vansh ko ridhima se bat karni chahiye if he is having hesitation He can ask Dadi or Siya 's help. She is his life partner. Ussey bat toh karni hogi.

Originally posted by: phoenix27

kabir is not obsessed with ridhima he is obsessed with everything vansh has, the closer vansh and ridhima will be the more obsessed he will be with her, that is most consistent thing in this tv show. the revelation of anupriya in one episode was a bit fast paced but that was not in-consistent. the whole track after that was bad because of ahana not because of vansh's revenge. and falling from cliff and surviving is not miracle many people do that.

Last line- umm okay. Let it be. We're not clearly getting each other point.

Originally posted by: bahi.

If you haven't watch the episode, then it's better to wait with your assumptions. He was just expressing his fears. Yes, he said that he will make sure that there won't be a child, but he doesn't know that he is already going to be a father. He said it with fear not hate. There is a difference. Try to understand Vansh's background and fear. There is nothing evilness in it. it's very matured convo he has with Siya and Angre. He knows the pain of losing a parent. He doesn't want that for his child nor does he want to lose a child (especially because of him). He didn't know that Riddhima will have such a huge impact in his life. But today he realise that she is not only his strength but his weakness. He fears to lose her and he fears to die, because it will kill Riddhima. A child will become another weakness for him and he can't handle more than Riddhima. Weakness it means that Vansh already knows he will love his child unconditionally.

I have absolutely no doubt regarding the fact that he will b a great and excellent father. I am discussing the point that his habit of hiding things to Riddhima for his own well being sometimes work negatively for his relationship. Mein yeh keh rahi hoon yeh discussion usey Ridbima se karna chahiye .Siya and Aangre will b a good listner but Riddhima can change his perception or can help him in thinking other way around. Varna agar Kabir ko yeh pata chala woh is bat ko Riansh k khilaf istamal karega. Lets see how he react jab usey baby k bare mein pata chalega!

Rest family will be happy. So will he But at same time he will share Share his fear to riddhma .. and his fear is not wrong the world he lives in. Is full of. Dangerous not onlt from outside house and from inside the house ..