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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: phoenix27


What is it that if a woman don't want a child then it's progressive and if man don't want child its denying wife of her right.

Why are you making this man vs woman. Here main issue is vansh always takes decision for both of them. In this relationship he is not alone ridz is also there. He needs to talk to her regarding this issue. But knowing writers they won't show something sensible. For silly misunderstanding they'll make him insensitive.
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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: SexyPotato

Why are you making this man vs woman. Here main issue is vansh always takes decision for both of them. In this relationship he is not alone ridz is also there. He needs to talk to her regarding this issue. But knowing writers they won't show something sensible. For silly misunderstanding they'll make him insensitive.


That is a diff story how he reacts to this news or how he tells ridhima that he don't want children.

But here you said so firmly that whether vansh want or not want he is going to have children, that's not how it should be done. his wishes should be as important as ridhima's.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: phoenix27


What is it that if a woman don't want a child then it's progressive and if man don't want child its denying wife of her right.

Vansh had fears about child and riddima. That is his problem not riddima s.

Ridz is a orphan. Her parents are dead. She had a family when she married vansh. She love them very much.

But if ridz don't wsnt this child then i agree. But here ridz always wanr a family of her own. That is her right.

This is itv

Either ridz walk away with child or miscarry.

And vansh will be a father whether he is ready or not

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: phoenix27


That is a diff story how he reacts to this news or how he tells ridhima that he don't want children.

But here you said so firmly that whether vansh want or not want he is going to have children, that's not how it should be done. his wishes should be as important as ridhima's.

Wish and fear are different. He lost so much so he can't loss again

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: phoenix27


That is a diff story how he reacts to this news or how he tells ridhima that he don't want children.

But here you said so firmly that whether vansh want or not want he is going to have children, that's not how it should be done. his wishes should be as important as ridhima's.

Where I firmly said he is going to have child without his wish. I've said they should talk. He should voice out his insecurity to ridz, give her a chance to talk.
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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: SexyPotato

Why are you making this man vs woman. Here main issue is vansh always takes decision for both of them. In this relationship he is not alone ridz is also there. He needs to talk to her regarding this issue. But knowing writers they won't show something sensible. For silly misunderstanding they'll make him insensitive.

Exactly Itv mein ya toh banda clueless rehta hai that he has a kid or miscarriage hota hai.Yeh humari Vanshu babu ki logic nayab hai🙏🙏Inko avi baby na chaiye Palang tor glass house kaand karte waqt condom ya pill use nhi kar sakta tha?Par na babu ko judge ban na hai. Cvs are hell bent to earn Gaali for him. And separated ho gaye toh aise lame excuse ki wajah se hi honge!
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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: phoenix27


it is not necessary that pregnancy is bound to happen, it's so unfortunate to hear. not all people want kids including me. Kids are huge responsibility if you can't give them what they deserve then don't bring them to life.

Vansh has right to decide if he wants kids or not, it's not like he is first accepting having kid and denying their responsibility. if kids are the most important thing for ridhima then she should ether look for other option or both should try convincing each-other about others wishes.

Children are not the natural next step of either sex or marriage.

Bt he cannot take this decision alone. What if Riddhu wants a baby? Agar uski pregnancy risky hoti ya problematic hoti toh bat alag thi but how can he alone just decide it. He dont want to put a innocent kid in life fine! Akela decision kaise le sakta hai? Aur agar yehi bat thi then why did not he take precaution. Parenthood should always b a joint decision. Even if a woman wants to abort. She will need her husband's signature in consent form same thing applied to Vansh. He just cant throw the decision on her face.
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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: whitewitch

Vansh had fears about child and riddima. That is his problem not riddima s.

Ridz is a orphan. Her parents are dead. She had a family when she married vansh. She love them very much.

But if ridz don't wsnt this child then i agree. But here ridz always wanr a family of her own. That is her right.

This is itv

Either ridz walk away with child or miscarry.

And vansh will be a father whether he is ready or not

if ridhima i already pregnant then definitely he will be the father unfortunately, but then too he can tell her that he don't feel ready to have the child, or he don't want child ever as he don't feel that he will be able to give the child the safe home then Ridhima can decide whether she wants the child or she too feels his fears are justifiable (i definitely feel they are justifiable). If she wants to have child then she can walk away from him (with child support) or they can discuss on what is the best way of coming to the middle ground.

If ridhima is not pregnant then she can't force him be have the baby, she can walk away from him all she wants but she can't force him to have baby.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: SexyPotato

Why are you making this man vs woman. Here main issue is vansh always takes decision for both of them. In this relationship he is not alone ridz is also there. He needs to talk to her regarding this issue. But knowing writers they won't show something sensible. For silly misunderstanding they'll make him insensitive.

I hate this quality Of him. He runs away from conversation. Matalab hadh hai.
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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: pyaar2012

Bt he cannot take this decision alone. What if Riddhu wants a baby? Agar uski pregnancy risky hoti ya problematic hoti toh bat alag thi but how can he alone just decide it. He dont want to put a innocent kid in life fine! Akela decision kaise le sakta hai? Aur agar yehi bat thi then why did not he take precaution. Parenthood should always b a joint decision. Even if a woman wants to abort. She will need her husband's signature in consent form same thing applied to Vansh. He just cant throw the decision on her face.


he can't decide alone even in case of risky pregnancy. He can only tell his wish regarding the baby. if ridhima is pregnant then she she has to decide what she wants. if not she can't force him to have baby, she can divorce him but can't force him same way vansh can't force her to abort the baby, he can tell his wish.

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