IKRS~ Compilation of Thought of the day !!! - Page 6

Sorry re swat.
Bhul gyi thi.
Unres kardi at last.

Originally posted by: simple2joy

dear swat,
Miss ur school a lot.
U came into this forum a bit late.
U couldhave joined earlier, cz I missed my opportunity to read more ikrs thoughts from u...
Thought of d day, d way u blended ur thought with what is shown in d episode,I found it a very innovative post.I know I could never give long replies,only when I had to differ I gave my opinion,otherwise my comments were extra short.but I was ur ardent pupil.I discovered truths,I rediscovered truths.
N ur thread always reminded me of my nana, he had a diary full of quotes n he used to read it in front of me n tried to teach me.thanks swat for d wonderful trip back to d past, ur time machine is lovely.
Miss posting on ur threads terribly.
Cant u keep d forum live with ur wisdom?

TOTD Series Index

Life is a dream for the wise, a game for the fool, a comedy for the rich, a tragedy for the poor !!!

In the show Ishq ka rang safed, there are some significant lessons which cover the entire show, I shall be presenting them in few parts ... In this show each and every character is flawed, some of them have done pardonable mistakes while others have done unpardonable crimes. Let's have a glance at what has the show taught us all this while.

Before we start with the lessons let us know what is it which most of us humans want in our lives ? Everyone wants happiness, no one wants pain, but you can't have a rainbow without a little rain. While in reality nobody is in charge of your happiness except you. Happiness is not out there, it's in you. We tend to forget that happiness doesn't come as a result of getting something we don't have, but rather of recognizing and appreciating what we do have.

PART ONE

ATTAACHMENT

The root cause of suffering is attachment. To be free from suffering free yourself from attachments. Things are as they are, we suffer because we imagined different. You only lose what you cling to. The emotional attachment comes in when your happiness rests upon what you expect from something or someone, which is when you are stuck. Detachment is not that you should own nothing. But that nothing should own you.

Attachment is based on fear and insecurity and the need for security is based on not knowing the true self. Attachment is the strongest block to realization. He who is overly attached to his family members experiences fear and sorrow, for the root of all grief is attachment. Thus one should discard attachment to be happy (Acharya Chanakya).

The less attached you are, the more peaceful you are. Our mind is such that it starts clinging to each and everything. It starts becoming identified, attached, it does not know how to keep a distance, hence the misery. We attach ourselves so strongly to people, when they're gone, a part of us is too. Detachment means to not to be owned by what we own.

Most people fail to see this reality, for they are attached to what they cling to, to pleasures and delights. Since all the world is so attached to material things, it's very difficult for people to grasp how everything originates.

In the show there are two kinds of attachments which were shown, One over attachment towards family, two over attachment towards materialistic wealth. In the first case, Viplav Tripathi has always been overly attached towards his family, so did Dhani as well. Viplav has always considered his family to be most generous, kind and saintly kind of family, when in reality they have always been the opposite. Especially when it came to his Grandfather Dasharath Tripathi, Viplav always considered him nothing less than Godly figure. His over attachment failed to let him see the reality of DT's true colors and his hidden deeds.

No family would like to hear about big crimes committed by their family members even in their wildest dreams especially when you are extremely close to them just the way DT is to Viplav. But the truth cannot change irrespective of one being close or not. Viplav never believed what Dhani had to say regarding DT and Kanak, when she herself witnessed it with her own eyes.

When you are over attached to a person, you become so blinded that you fail to see the reality around you, you don't wish to break that happy bubble in which you were residing all this while for you fear the bubble to burst any time soon in case you accept the truth which leads to sorrow, so in the show Viplav had been in denial when he heard about DT's deeds and refused to accept the truth.

Things always don't happen the way we expect it to be, this is how life is. Viplav was blinded by DT's love and affection for him that he failed to the happenings in his own home. Has he ever seen the way DT treats Sushmaji, has he ever thought how much hurt she must have felt with DT's behavior? Because of this very over attachment he had to lay his hand on Dhani, he had to be separated from her. He never wanted to listen to the truth told by Dhani for he was insecure and had his fear ruling his mind. He chose the other safer option to not to listen and be in his safe zone and allowing her to move out of his life.

Dhani is equally attached to her mother out of all the people in her life, but towards the end of the show, she did commit a mistake by listening to everything what Dulari had to say. When Dulari had suddenly announced Dhani and Parshiya's marriage, she had blindly supported her decision. Dhani knew very well that she would not be happy without Viplav and her child deserves to know about her father, yet she went ahead with her mother's decision.

Dulari herself knew Viplav has come for Dhani and Vidha and genuinely loves them, in spite of that she wishes to get Dhani married to someone else. Instead of guiding her in the right direction, she herself leads Dhani in a wrong path. Dhani's affection and respect for her mother is understandable, but in certain decisions, it is best for Dhani to decide for herself, for it is Dhani herself who has to live with such decisions throughout her life and no one else.

In the second part, the over attachment which becomes obsession and greed towards wealth, Be it Kanak or DT or Tripurari they have always been running behind money throughout their lives and haven't gained anything in the end. The trio have been so attached to the wealth, that they haven't been able to seen anything beyond it, their thoughts begin and end with wealth only. The people in their lives never really mattered to them at all. Kanak and DT never have been able to see the real wealth in their lives ie their family.

Money is important for every human being but when one makes it everything in one's life, people do actually miss out precious things in their lives. And once people do realize about it in later stages it might be too late to rectify their mistakes, just the way Kanak and DT had lost everything which was precious to them...Viplav.

Anything in excess is a problem for any person. Too much of attachment is no exception, our happiness lies within ourselves, when most of time we do tend to forget and try to find it outside. In the end it's all in the mind and the path we decide to choose can lead to regret or happiness. In the end the choice is yours. I cannot write the entire parts all at once so I have decided to split them in few parts.

Do share your views. Do let me know if want me to continue with the entire show lessons or not. Then I can go accordingly. Till then take care.

I'm going to answer you. really liked your views on the family and the love I feel for the family. we are all in some way blind when it comes to our loved ones. we will never rewrite the mistakes that they make them but we blame someone else. because we're afraid of the truth. The truth is sometimes fatal for those who are afraid that out. I think it's Viplav depths of the soul and knew what his family just was afraid to say it out loud. and Danh is led to the logic of that mother knows best for your child. but heard Dulari not once but twice. the first time when she agreed to marry her to Tripurari a second time when he decided to marry her to Parshaya. although for Parshaya somehow and I'm not sure how much it would be a mistake on the side Dulari it is the mother who fights for her child. and her child was always threatened when he was near Tripathi family. Perhaps he just wanted to protect her. It is this blind facts. and wrote there are plenty of topics for polemic discussion.

Originally posted by: zajedno

I'm going to answer you. really liked your views on the family and the love I feel for the family. we are all in some way blind when it comes to our loved ones. we will never rewrite the mistakes that they make them but we blame someone else. because we're afraid of the truth. The truth is sometimes fatal for those who are afraid that out. I think it's Viplav depths of the soul and knew what his family just was afraid to say it out loud. and Danh is led to the logic of that mother knows best for your child. but heard Dulari not once but twice. the first time when she agreed to marry her to Tripurari a second time when he decided to marry her to Parshaya. although for Parshaya somehow and I'm not sure how much it would be a mistake on the side Dulari it is the mother who fights for her child. and her child was always threatened when he was near Tripathi family. Perhaps he just wanted to protect her. It is this blind facts. and wrote there are plenty of topics for polemic discussion.

unres wise pearl,
Yeee so wise pearly k pathsala is chalu again. 👏 so here is ur pupil ready to learn...oh nooo u wrote about attachments,yeah me being an emotional fool, get attached to things that end up teaching me lessons.see I got attached with this show and forum,and at some point this attachment gave me headache n heartache, mishal to leave d show, the show to end...too many tension around me, I never watched ikrs carefully from january,but when they said it will end, it meant like end of world to me.and I did end up having fights with few forum members,as if I have nothing else to do in life...but yes it happened,all cz of attachment...when one gets attached , d fear of losing it never let him to b in peace.I m scared, what if d forum gets closed?d forum is lucky to have forum members like u.baarbs,zady,sura,dazznr doing great jobs.
Thanks for writing for us.

😆 The first para na ...I tried so many times to edit that part, it isn't changing only...I'm unable to understand what went wrong...Yaar if I edit the main post I have to again Pm the mods and plus if I continue to write more topics I have to keep editing the main post so I have res'd the page for the Index itself in the prev page.

Bit busy thangachi...Will b back soon DEAR...Thanks for reminding me😃