PART5
HELP YOURSELF
All the advice in the world will never help you until you help yourself. If no one is there to push you, DRAG YOURSELF. You cannot always depend on others to help you out, you also have to help yourself. In order to help people, you have to first learn how to help yourself.
If you're still looking for that one person that can change your life...Take a look in the mirror. The light at the end of the tunnel may be dark its up to you to make it brighter...you have to help yourself and your goals first, before God can help you.
The golden opportunity you are seeking is in yourself. It is not in your environment, it is not in luck or chance, of the help of others, it is in yourself alone. As you grow older, you will discover that you have two hands, one for helping yourself, the other for helping others.
Putting yourself first doesn't mean you don't care about others. It means you're smart enough to know you can't help others if you don't help yourself first. God helps those who help themselves.
Push yourself because, no one else is going to do it for you. The first and most important person you must believe in is yourself. Trust yourself, you know more than you think you do. Your biggest enemy is yourself, so be your best friend.
Nobody can bring you peace but yourself. There's nothing you can do to help someone who doesn't want to help themselves. Don't bother people for help without first trying to solve the problem yourself.
Everybody talks about wanting to change things and help and fix, but ultimately all you can do is fix yourself. And that's a lot, because if you can fix yourself, it has a ripple effect.
We either make ourselves miserable or we make ourselves strong. The amount of work is the same. Don't be disappointed if people refuse to help you...Remember the words of Einstein: I'm thankful to all those who said 'NO' because of them I did it myself.
In the show Ishq, Dhani in the post leap, has emerged much stronger than she was before. She got herself educated, learnt to stand up for herself against any injustice against her. She became independent, though she did take help from Parshiya, she always decided to help herself before taking help from others. There is such a huge development in her which is clearly visible.
A person who was scared of the people, emerged much stronger slowly and gradually. The difficulties she had to face in her life gave her experience and she has learnt to stand up for herself no matter what. She has been through a lot at a very young age and instead of giving up, she was highly determined to help herself and her child at any given situation.
No wonder at times what a mother does for a child cannot be described in words. The extent they go to protect their children is astounding. She had to help herself to give protection to her child.
She had always been concerned about others before, later she did learn to give herself the time, respect, the efforts she deserved it. She had to push herself hard to emerge victorious in her life, when she very well knew nobody is going to do it for her. She regained the respect she totally deserved it which she could never in AN.
She invested her time in improving self; she herself became the light while she was facing the darkness in her life. The other person who stood up for herself is Raj Lakshmi. She never feared to put forth her opinion and she always did she felt was the right thing to do.
Self help is indeed the best help. Helping ourselves during the adversity is the biggest gift we can give ourselves. We can make ourselves much stronger during such difficult times. There is nothing better than fixing our flaws and develop ourselves.
This is a huge accomplishment in itself our lives. Since a person's mind is so powerful we can invent, create, experience, and destroy things with thoughts alone.
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Edited by pearl100 - 8 years ago
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