Emotional Stitch! - Page 2

Originally posted by: Nims47

Hey Hammie!

Long time no see! Hey simple2Joy.. As promised, here I am.

Firstly I must say I have missed reading your analysis Hammie. I have had various reasons for not reading or commenting but parking those to one side thanks to simple2Joy, I am here to read, absorb and think, think and think some more.

I love your analysis. As always a completely unique spin on the characters and the intricate detail of what is going on with them.

I love the show so much. I think I love post leap IKRS more than pre leap. I find the tales being told much more complex and clever. I hated the constant-ness of the lets get Dhani and break Viplav and Dhani up rot that had set in pre leap. It started with Raja and his awful family and then swiftly moved on to kam and Dadi bua.

Anyway, I love the show and no doubt I'll get flamed for saying it, but there you have it.. I do.

So, to the episode. I love Viplav for being so persistent. He is heartbroken himself, doesn't understand what made Dhani leave, not tell him about their child. But, despite all of the things she's done wrong to him, he still wants to make things right for her and her family,

The way he loves and cares for not only Dhani and Vidha but also Dulaari is lovely. I mean really lovely. He loves them all, with his big heart and even though he is left on the outside he shows his unconditional love so clearly, I love Viplav for what he stands for and more so post leap as it seems to have made him into a better more loving bigger hearted man.

Dulaari can see the love and care he has but Dhani has built such a big wall around her to keep out the hurt that she is also keeping out any chance of happiness.

She is also hurting, she has replayed that scene, over and over for five years. Not just that scene but she has her kam say what Viplav had also said earlier that he should have listened to his family and marrying her was a mistake.

So here she is five years later, face to face with the man of her dreams, the love of her life. She doesn't hate him, at all, she loves him but he is married and has a child and wife. She is still the same Dhani putting him and his needs ahead of her own and even her child's. She knows if she says anything Viplav will leav kam and be with her in a flash. She doesn't want to be the other woman, nor does she want to be responsible for taking a father away from her son.

The anushuman Dulaari story is a chance for her, like a crystal ball, showing her what hers and vidha's future will be. She has a chance to not repeat the mistakes her mother made. Her fear is perpetuating the myth that a child doesn't need his or her father, that a mum alone is enough.

It's honestly fascinating and I love how you describe Viplav as they consultant, trying to cure Dhani and her mother of their ills. I love that he isn't giving up.

I can see things from Dhani's perspective totally. She was wrong when she left because what she heard kam say was not true, but as a result of her running away, her misunderstanding has come to pass like a self fulfilling prophecy. She is now faced with 'proof' that she was right to have left. Viplav married kam and had a child. She doesn't know exactly what happened but her worst fears came true. And now, she is fighting her own feelings and needs and those of her child to keep Viplav at arms length. I can also see her softening, but it's almost like the more she feels the higher and thicker the wall gets.

I haven't been here for so long, so apologies for the rambling nature of this post. It's a bit all over the place.

I have missed you Hammie and I stopped reading for the wrong reasons. I'll try and be here to support you and your amazing work as often as I can.

Lots of love and hugs

Xxx

Ps - my typos haven't got any better so apologies for the many that I'm sure you will find 😉

Originally posted by: Barbie_KK9629

Oh Hammie this is wonderful.. a very very nice take on Monday's episode.. 👏

The introduction is great.. yes dhani did miss out on crucial times with her father.. She did miss the love and care of a father.. Dads act as protective shields for their wives and children.. Dulari and dhani did miss all those..but vidhu is just five years old.. I hope Dhani will learn from the broken marriage of her parents and will reconcile soon with viplav before its too late, .

I had loved the episode and enjoyed ur take.. It is really very nice.. thanks Hammie😳

Suna hai MR was not keeping well.. Yes an article came out today itself that he was hospitalised for a short time as he was ill.. and now to cover up Mishal's absense cvs are delaying vidha reunion and also dhani suspected him of having tried to kill parshiya.. Acc to the spoilers viplav will be arrested too..😕 Now parshiya fighting for life in hospital and this hospital-police station drama will continue for some time I guess till Mish resume shooting.. When will dhani realise viplav's love and care for her?? I was highly irritaed with today's episode.. I hope viplav and dhani sort out their differences soon and reunite.. It has been more than a month that Vidha MUs are not gettiing cleared..

anyways I still love mishal's show and looking forward to it..

see u tomorrow bhau.. till then take care.. Lots of love from ur Baji...😳

Originally posted by: simple2joy

aa bel mujhe mar thats all I can think about ur siggie,apa siggies represents us,na?ap kisse ladne jaogi?

Originally posted by: simple2joy

Hammie hammie hammie hammie,finally I m back to call u many times,no load of houseful of visitors.phew. hi rok...calm down was out
It is a brilliant take.
thanks taz
Such a wonderful title u gave.take se hospital wali smell aa raha hain.eager to read nusipas comments too. haaa haaa..I HAD both ofyou in mind when starting this work
This is such a perfect thing as a title for d whole track,d reunion track,"The emotional stitch".stitches r to b given to join two RAW surfaces.so that there appropriate circulation is provided and the wound can get healed. it is all about old wounds which lacks a raw surface so what we do is make d wound margin raw by a blade n make it bleed then join d two surfaces.d same thing is happening to THEIR old wounds.dulari n dhani.God d healer himself has made their old wounds raw by d face offs.now it is time to unite them.a stitch in time saves nine, yes there was no stitch in time but better late than never.
thanks for a brilliant explanation
I loved ur beginning.n what an way to interprete things on a doctor's point of view. ⭐️ ⭐️ .its amazing,d way ur brain works.some disease runs in family.impatience is d disease divered from mother to daughter.nothing can b done unless d healer is strong and adamant to heal.d jack of all trades our viplab.I loved d way u called him d consultant.baarbs will b happy,she made viplab a cardiogist in her FF she left unfinished.see titu vipu as a healer with great patience kaise lagte hain?finish ur ff.sukoon de hume.
welll you could say hold you and Nusrat in high esteem.. you both are into saving lives and healing
I loved these lines a lot.The greatest gifts for humans are their bonds and relationships.. for Dhani the presence of her father ,for Viplav the knowledge of vidha as his daughter .. for anshuman a the gift of finding his long lost family!it really is.beautiful.
thanks taz.. it was a moving episode
What I love about current storyline and ur interpretations on it is they r well focused on seperation,single parenting and d way a child suffers cz of this.its one of d common occurings in society.sabki patience level itna low hote ja raha hain that they r overlooking d fact that their children will suffer from d poison of being in a broken family.something that leaves a permanent impression on d childs mind.something that is not healed by any stitch later.
yes that's true.. children as young as vidha are at an impressionable age..
New word learnt.Emotional melanomamalignant melanoma padi thi.Google google on d net,tell me d meaning of which sounds so great. 😆 . welll... i refer to the deadlock as cancer
Thanks hammie,food for thought.ur takes make me THINK,a lot.
thank you for contining to read my takes.. how do you make the time taz?? but good like it

Abhi posting a video I can relate to ur take.for baarbs n u.
[YOUTUBE]https://www.youtube.com/watch?list=PL3C37CB137869F679&v=mVb54HS5f-Q[/YOUTUBE]
thanks... for another clip from yester years..

Originally posted by: pearl100

hi swati , how are you ? better I hope?
Dear Hammie...👏this is a master piece n my favorite take of yours...so well you linked medical terms with relationships yaar...that is soo soo true when the wounds are open n if not treated at the right time then it becomes far more dangerous than before. When the diagnosis is done then the treatment should be immediately started. In this entire post reminded me of my mom...as I belong to a doc family 😃 Still I would consider the best post of yours...how well you could relate it to the medicine. waise har post of mine is your fav... I cant even remember which was my fav

my mum tooo doctor.. chale the muhje bhi bune.. but I was more of a rebel with a cause

There are stages as you rightly point out...one is to diagnose next is to inform the patient about their problem, then comes to the solution part. Both Dhani n Dulari need someone to guide them in the right direction which is given by the counselor ie Viplav...I loved the fact that he never gave up nor did he allow AK to give up either.

haaan they feds!pooolisse

You have rightly pointed out by saying Dulari got herself a self made wound which brought her suffering for 25 long years...n viplav was right by pointing out that if they ie dhani n himself don't sort out their mess then they too shall equally suffer plus their children will have to face the consequences...one mistake a parent makes has a seriously affects children's mind. Dhani is slowly able to understand what exactly Viplav meant. The way she suffered will she be able to make her own daughter suffer or not is the question.

its decision time, wish both the ladies get their act together

Now that AK cleared the MU from his side, Dulari n Dhani are now clear with the fact that what they have thought of him was not right n Dul jumped to some conclusion. When dulari n dhan itry to make each one understand that their resp spouses are not wrong then it applies to them as well...its easier to preach than to practice.

its like they have no need of spouses they have learned to survive without them

Vidha n viplav are blessings on the earth who know how to unite people...Viplav is so much dignified these days...he understands that even Parshiya wants to celebrate Vidha's b'day...The happiness he had when he came to know that his flower's b'day is on the following day it was magical. Viplav is a doctor for me...as he solves n cures the wounds ...ie he helps people to get united n sorts out the MU's...it is not his job to do so but still as a wonderful human being he applies balm to sooth people's hearts which has been hurting for a long long time...my huge respect goes to him.

yes... I AGREE he is a peacemaker..

Hammie I loved this post...so I'm going to save this post n re read it again...very very touching post it is...this one can be applied in general so hats off to you for this wonderful post...Thank you for this wonderful, brilliant post ...tarif mai jitne shabd hai woh sab milane wala post hai...Till this take care.

thank you so much for your support swati... i appreciate you being not to well have given such a brilliant comment.. much love hammie..

⭐️

Originally posted by: Nims47

Hey Hammie!

Long time no see! Hey simple2Joy.. As promised, here I am.

hi nims and yesof course lovely to see you

Firstly I must say I have missed reading your analysis Hammie. I have had various reasons for not reading or commenting but parking those to one side thanks to simple2Joy, I am here to read, absorb and think, think and think some more.

ohhh.. ok happy you read this one was rather a touching episode

I love your analysis. As always a completely unique spin on the characters and the intricate detail of what is going on with them.

thank you

I love the show so much. I think I love post leap IKRS more than pre leap. I find the tales being told much more complex and clever. I hated the constant-ness of the lets get Dhani and break Viplav and Dhani up rot that had set in pre leap. It started with Raja and his awful family and then swiftly moved on to kam and Dadi bua.

ohh yes...how could I forget that raja hismum and aunt..😆

Anyway, I love the show and no doubt I'll get flamed for saying it, but there you have it.. I do.

no .. you safe on Ishq.. that's your opinion.. as long as it doesn't hurt any one ponintedly.. I am not into love ,romance tones, prefer , action and dealing with complexties of relationships.. and yes me like thrilling tracks to... remember the tulsi track..enjoyed that

So, to the episode. I love Viplav for being so persistent. He is heartbroken himself, doesn't understand what made Dhani leave, not tell him about their child. But, despite all of the things she's done wrong to him, he still wants to make things right for her and her family,

yes that's his saving grace he wants to make amends and she won't allow him..

The way he loves and cares for not only Dhani and Vidha but also Dulaari is lovely. I mean really lovely. He loves them all, with his big heart and even though he is left on the outside he shows his unconditional love so clearly, I love Viplav for what he stands for and more so post leap as it seems to have made him into a better more loving bigger hearted man.

yes.. post leap is more of challenge for him.. putting things right poor man is going in circles

Dulaari can see the love and care he has but Dhani has built such a big wall around her to keep out the hurt that she is also keeping out any chance of happiness.

seee dhani says she doesn't trust him..she lies blatanly as .. she is hurt..

She is also hurting, she has replayed that scene, over and over for five years. Not just that scene but she Heard kam say what Viplav had also said earlier that he should have listened to his family and marrying her was a mistake.

I suspect she needs to confront either viplav or kamini regards that FB

So here she is five years later, face to face with the man of her dreams, the love of her life. She doesn't hate him, at all, she loves him but he is married and has a child and wife. She is still the same Dhani putting him and his needs ahead of her own and even her child's. She knows if she says anything Viplav will leav kam and be with her in a flash. She doesn't want to be the other woman, nor does she want to be responsible for taking a father away from her son.

yes.. here comes in the cut one's nose to spite her face

The anushuman Dulaari story is a chance for her, like a crystal ball, showing her what hers and vidha's future will be. She has a chance to not repeat the mistakes her mother made. Her fear is perpetuating the myth that a child doesn't need his or her father, that a mum alone is enough.

such a controversial view as she persuades dhani to grant viplav his rights as vidha's father..

It's honestly fascinating and I love how you describe Viplav as they consultant, trying to cure Dhani and her mother of their ills. I love that he isn't giving up.

😆... hummm.. right from the start this bleep between the families seemed like an illness to me

I can see things from Dhani's perspective totally. She was wrong when she left because what she heard kam say was not true, but as a result of her running away, her misunderstanding has come to pass like a self fulfilling prophecy. She is now faced with 'proof' that she was right to have left. Viplav married kam and had a child. She doesn't know exactly what happened but her worst fears came true. And now, she is fighting her own feelings and needs and those of her child to keep Viplav at arms length. I can also see her softening, but it's almost like the more she feels the higher and thicker the wall gets.

well all I can say is its an awful feeling for woman to find her husband in the armsof another woman... dhani should have asked viplv

I haven't been here for so long, so apologies for the rambling nature of this post. It's a bit all over the place.

nooo loved your veiws .. my joy to read something

I have missed you Hammie and I stopped reading for the wrong reasons. I'll try and be here to support you and your amazing work as often as I can.

hey..nims.. look whatever your reasons are had... you are entiltled to have them mate... hamlet is only a writer who enoys writing. and any one can read my posts.. if people do I feel blessed and humbled.. especially if they comment.. good reading for hammie too..

Lots of love and hugs much love to you to nims.. keep smiling... yours hammie

Xxx

Ps - my typos haven't got any better so apologies for the many that I'm sure you will find 😉

NOOO didn't find any nims... all good 👏...

Originally posted by: Barbie_KK9629

Hey hammie can u please tell me when was this pic clicked.. i dont remember.. tumko yaad hai kya..??

which function is this?? mahhi-jay's reception party??

look at mahhi's mehendi.. i think its their reception party.. although i am not sure. isiliye tumse pooch liya
nooo it was jay and mahi's engagement.. pink sari wali is hr mamma.. mishal in smart cas'

Originally posted by: Barbie_KK9629

hi barbs..
hey love picture.. daya made me a dp... putting it up for you
Oh Hammie this is wonderful.. a very very nice take on Monday's episode.. 👏

The introduction is great.. yes dhani did miss out on crucial times with her father.. She did miss the love and care of a father.. Dads act as protective shields for their wives and children.. Dulari and dhani did miss all those..but vidhu is just five years old.. I hope Dhani will learn from the broken marriage of her parents and will reconcile soon with viplav before its too late, .

I had loved the episode and enjoyed ur take.. It is really very nice.. thanks Hammie😳

yes.. it was a moving episode... should have called it father's and daughters

Suna hai MR was not keeping well.. Yes an article came out today itself that he was hospitalised for a short time as he was ill.. and now to cover up Mishal's absense cvs are delaying vidha reunion and also dhani suspected him of having tried to kill parshiya.. Acc to the spoilers viplav will be arrested too..😕 Now parshiya fighting for life in hospital and this hospital-police station drama will continue for some time I guess till Mish resume shooting.. When will dhani realise viplav's love and care for her?? I was highly irritaed with today's episode.. I hope viplav and dhani sort out their differences soon and reunite.. It has been more than a month that Vidha MUs are not gettiing cleared..
wottt???😲 mishal bemaar? whats the matter with him? may be tummy bug with monsoons happening

anyways I still love mishal's show and looking forward to it.. me too... but I agree dhani does need to get off her high horse... and parshiya.. in hospital?? this whole seems like a set up.. sounds like those money lenders set viplav up or even parsiya who i heard saying to win dhani he will not stop at nothing..

see u tomorrow bhau.. till then take care.. Lots of love from ur Baji...😳 you keep smiling barbs... thanks for reading and commenting