Life is not about the people who act true to your face. It's about the people who remain true behind your back. Some of life's best lessons are learned at the worst times. It is during the worst times of your life that you will get to see the true colors of the people who say they care for you. If you focus too much on the painful past, you'll miss the beautiful future. Grow stronger from the pain, don't it destroy you. The past may hurt, but you can either run from it, or you can learn from it.
You will begin to heal when you let go of past hurts, forgive those who have wronged you, and learn to forgive yourself for your mistakes. An unresolved past never really goes away until you find the courage to revisit all the pain and accept that there's nothing you can do to change the past. What's happened has happened, and what's done is done.
The soul always knows what to do to heal itself. The challenge is to silence the mind. Healing takes courage and we all have courage, even if we have to dig a little to find it. Take all the time you need to heal emotionally. Moving on doesn't take a day. It takes a lot of little steps to be able to break free of your broken self. Time heals all wounds, unless you pick at them. You can't be a victim and heal. You can't heal without answers.
Sometimes, second chances work out even better than the first because you learn from your mistakes. Second chances are not given to make things right. But are given to prove that we could be better even after we fall. Everyone deserves a chance to clean up their mistakes. Sometimes you need a second chance, because time wasn't ready for the first time. If you're lucky enough to get a second chance at something, don't waste it.
The best thing you could give someone is a chance. So in the end do not regret the chances you don't take. Time heals almost everything, give time some time. The flame of hope should never go out from your life. Time heals what reason cannot. Let go, forget the burdens of the past, the past can't be changed. It takes a strong heart to push past the pain and go dancing in the rain. Forgive others, not because they deserve forgiveness, because you deserve peace.
Dulari finally gets to meet her past but still she isn't able to face it. When Anshuman tried speaking to her she refused to straight away. She like Dhani isn't able to give a chance to her husband. She has pointed out the same to Dhani when she was being interrogated. The rule applies to both the mother and daughter...here Viplav tries to explain that every child deserves to know about their father, be it Vidha or dhani.
He tries to make Dhani understand that by digging the past only hurts and when life has given them a second chance they must learn to utilize it well. He also mentions that when they ie Viplav and Anshuman were clueless about their children, it did come as a shock to them at first but they did try to find out what exactly went wrong, but also tried to amend things and tried to clear out the differences and both dulari, dhani must have known may not be the entire truth.
To know the entire truth firstly they need to have an open conversation, in that process the real truth may come out...which is why Viplav requested Dhani to let her parents speak. One MU has created huge gap between her parents and they have to suffer for so many years, which is why he keeps requesting Dhani to not repeat the mistake which her parents have created for it is the children who suffer for one wrong step when their parents take.
Viplav makes sense when he says that a chance should be given to a person when they try to sort out the differences. Life rarely gives a person a second chance...some wounds are healed by time for time is very powerful but for some wounds to heal a balm is meant to be applied. When you carry your wounds throughout your life, it only gives us pain.
If we need to reduce the pain, we need to close the pending chapter, in order to do that we need courage to face the past, learn to forgive others n ourselves to attain peace. We can never obtain peace in the outer world until we make peace with ourselves. For nothing more is satisfying to a human than to attain the peace. It is better to have peace on earth than pieces of earth. Be at peace not in pieces.
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This is the combination of the past three episodes. Sorry for the delay...was busy with work. Have a nice day.
I dedicate this post to Viplav Tripathi who has always put in constant efforts to rectify mistakes, help others, who has shown us the real value of relationships. He has taught us how to lead in the right direction during difficult times, with patience how one can succeed in making things right. The development in his character from the beginning is marvelous. My huge respect goes to him.
Jhanak
Shiv Shakti
