Originally posted by: pearl100
The quotes...Meaning of FAMILY is Father Mother I Love You. Anyone can have a child and call themselves " a parent". A real parent is someone who puts that child above their own selfish needs and wants. Your children need your presence more than your presents. Parents are the ultimate role models for children.
Every word, movement and action has an effect. No other person or outside force has a greater influence in a child than the parent. Your child will follow your example, not your advice. The sign of great parenting is not the child's behavior. The sign of great parenting is the parent's behavior.
When kids focus on excuses, parent need to focus on the responsibility. Children shouldn't have to sacrifice so that you can have the life you want. You make sacrifices so your children can have the life that they deserve. Parents can only give good advice but the final forming of a person's character lies in their own hands...hold true.
It's not the child's responsibility to teach the parent who they are. It's the parent's responsibility to learn who the child is. Keeping a child away from the other parent because you don't want them to be in a relationship with anyone other than you is a form of child abuse.
Don't worry that children never listen to you, worry that they are always watching you. Time is the most valuable gift a parent can give to their children. Parents may not be perfect but they are the most precious gift God has ever given you.
Every person has a different role to play in their lives. A man becomes a son, a brother, then a husband, a father. Similarly among the parents what one of the parent can provide cannot be provided by the other parent ...ie the mother cannot fulfill the role of a father, similarly what a father cannot fulfill the role of a mother in the child's life. Each have significant role to play in bringing the development of a child. This essential mix is absent in single parents homes.
No love is greater than mom's love. No care is greater than dad's care. One father is worth more than hundred schoolmasters. A father holds his child's hand for a short while, but holds his child's heart forever. A father is neither an anchor to hold us back, nor a sail to take us there, but a guiding light whose love shows us the way.
Dualri was right in giving advice to Dhani regarding the importance of Viplav in Vidha's life. She clearly has told Dhani that the role Viplav plays in Vidha's life is different from hers and vice versa. And Vidha has equal right to receive love and affection from Viplav as well and she is equally Viplav's responsibility.
For Vidha's proper development it's better to let Viplav take care of vidha as well and keep their differences aside. Viplav himself has right to know about his daughter and he deserves to give Vidha the best he can. Running away from Viplav doesn't solve her problems and they may face each other any time.
Dhani's sacrificing ie keeping her differences aside can make lot of difference in the development of her child. Both Viplav and dhani will play a role model in their child's life. Both of them have a great influence on vidha. So it is up to Dhani whether she decides to let Viplav in Vidha's life and let him fill her life with happiness and he does have right to it as well.
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