The quotes...Before you assume, learn the facts. Before you judge, understand why. Before you hurt someone, feel. Before you speak think. It is easy to judge or jump into conclusion when you don't know what is behind people's lives. Ask before you judge, you will see their lives with another perspective...holds true.
Quick decisions are unsafe decisions. Haste makes waste. Never reply when you are angry. Never make a decision when you are sad. Never make a promise when you are happy. Do not judge people's choices without understanding their reasons.
Always remember that your present situation is not your final destination. The best is yet to come. The quote...Impulsive actions lead to trouble, and trouble could have unpleasant consequences...holds true. Impulsive decisions later always lead to regret only...it resembles that of a squirrel when crossing the street.
The biggest communication problem is we do not listen to understand. We listen to reply. When you talk, you are only repeating what you already know. But if you listen, you may learn something new (Dalai Lama) Learn to be open minded and respectful to people's opinions, even when you don't agree.
The quotes...I like to listen. I have learned a great deal from listening carefully. Most people don't listen. One of the most sincere forms of respect is actually listening to what another has to say. You don't listen when I talk, maybe you'll listen when I walk...holds true
Never deprive someone of hope, it might be all they have. Wisdom will come as we listen to learn. Listen, speak and listen again. Your ears have value, learn to use it.
Viplav Tripathi has reacted in an impulsive manner. He heard only a part of the conversation between Dhani and DT...when Dhani was requesting him to listen to what she has to say he blindly refused to listen...his temporary feelings led him to make haste conclusions which he shall regret it later.
Even in the court the both the victim and the accused are given a chance to present their defense over here he just concluded, being a lawyer he must know that there are always two sides of a coin...just because something he saw may not always be the truth...the trust Dhani had in him was shattered with in a matter of few seconds.
It would not take much time for him to listen to Dhani's reason behind the refusal to apologize to DT...when he can blame Dhani for not contacting him and sparing some time while she was attending the night school would it not apply to him as well ???
People do create misunderstandings because they refuse to sit down and listen to each other...that is when a third party thinks they are welcome in...this is exactly what DT has done ...he just added fuel to the fire. Viplav and Dhani's relationship is now of a broken mirror no matter what the mirror once broken will never look in the same way again, the cracks shall still be visible in the reflection...the mirror here represents the trust.
And most importantly he has decided to end their marriage without consulting Dhani in this matter...He may think this is the best decision but neither did he think of Dhani's situation nor did he think of the after effects of it ...similar to the way when a bad medicine or the one which doesn't suit one's body if consumed side effects are bound to happen...eventually it only leads to regret after he gets to know the truth.
He may be extremely upset but he should have given her a chance to explain herself and the decision to quit a marriage is based on temporary feelings he was going through...there by never make permanent decisions on temporary feelings.
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