the separation that everyone wants to see

Hi there

This show is notorious for its negativity as if the theme of it was - Terminate Dhani and maybe it is ... I thought the show was about widow emancipation . A women finding dignity and love when fate gives her a second chance .

There is no greater character I want gone than Kamini and I questioned myself as to why .

When a women becomes lustful of a married man and wishes to harm the women he loves this is where I say shame on her ( did not want to use curse words ) such women deserve the worst . And Kamini as a character represents that to me . A home wrecker ...

Evil cannot win ... Can we get a break and I am not asking for romance ... Can we have a real tiff for a real reason without leads being dumb.

Kamini needs to go yesterday.

I would like to see Viplav and Dhani separate only if they show Dhani educate herself and become independant. I feel she was more independant when she was a widow, now she is completely dependant on Viplav, who has not even thought of giving her basic education. What had he planned to do about improving her life?

Originally posted by: captkirk

I would like to see Viplav and Dhani separate only if they show Dhani educate herself and become independant. I feel she was more independant when she was a widow, now she is completely dependant on Viplav, who has not even thought of giving her basic education. What had he planned to do about improving her life?

Originally posted by: captkirk

I would like to see Viplav and Dhani separate only if they show Dhani educate herself and become independant. I feel she was more independant when she was a widow, now she is completely dependant on Viplav, who has not even thought of giving her basic education. What had he planned to do about improving her life?

Well said capt. 👏

Originally posted by: Nuttyme

Very spot on captkirk.

What has viplav done for upliftment? It was always that he fell in love with her and decided to marry in an impulse. He should have gauged how his family will respond to such a union. Put his cards clear and make a statement... still as we all do we take family for granted and think all wish well when all are happy. This is what precisely doesnt happen with Viplav. Still he is that support Dhaani has always found at AN.

Anyway... IKRS has kept the drama much to reality. I am sure marital alliance where the family isnt very happy for the son or daughter has an undercurrent running. But... Dhaani should stop acting like a bechari and become bold to take on detractors. Thats what is needed.

IF now there is a separation ... dhaani should gain her self confidence and give a damn to people who are pulling her down. Her good nature and kind heart needs a self confidence for standing up to righteousness. I will be very happy if the separation brings in this change in dhaani... then the soap is surely spot on on its concept. And viplav will get the credit for this change coz if not for his anger she would never go ahead to prove a point.

Oh ! How lovely it would be to see Kamini really gone bag and baggage from AN. But seriously the problem goes deeper than that. What if another Kamini arrives soon after? It is not the externals that Vidha have to fight against rather they have to mature and become more worldly wise which sadly both are lacking at this very moment. Otherwise their marriage will be jeopardized time and again. The problem with Viplav is that he was so engrossed in love that he did not think that Dhani needed to address some of her deficiencies like education . True it did not matter to him that she was totally unlettered when he fell in love and married her but once that was done he should have taken that responsibility. It needed a vile woman like Kamini to suggest this?

Hi agree with the point of what viplav did for Dhanis up liftment to Some extent. think we should ask what did dhani did because any change needs to come from within one self. One of the main attraction for dhani from viplav side is her boldness where did that go? Don't think viplav stopped that in fact he asked her to stand up to his mom. But dhani wanted more than what she got she wanted to be liked by everybody. So she compromised her self and what she doesn't realize it is she has to be Doormat all her life in order to get in their good books. She need to speak up in her own defense. We teach the world how to treat us. In our culture woman are taught to obey the elders which they should but should also be taught to respect them self first.

On a lighter note it is really interesting to note how varied and sonetimes funny our IF usernames are!!

Will go with captrik and Nutty's post.