the separation that everyone wants to see - Page 2

everyone wants vidha separation and dhaani getting educated,becoming independent etc etc but where will this leave viplav ??? a jerk who has kicked out his wife and leaves her to survive alone 😕... they could have better killed viplav for a while if they are planning to show dhaani surviving on her own fighting the odds...

Originally posted by: -JaZ-

everyone wants vidha separation and dhaani getting educated,becoming independent etc etc but where will this leave viplav ??? a jerk who has kicked out his wife and leaves her to survive alone 😕... they could have better killed viplav for a while if they are planning to show dhaani surviving on her own fighting the odds...

In this seperation , DB nd KM should nt take undue advantage.

Originally posted by: -JaZ-

everyone wants vidha separation and dhaani getting educated,becoming independent etc etc but where will this leave viplav ??? a jerk who has kicked out his wife and leaves her to survive alone 😕... they could have better killed viplav for a while if they are planning to show dhaani surviving on her own fighting the odds...

Originally posted by: mthiru

Hi agree with the point of what viplav did for Dhanis up liftment to Some extent. think we should ask what did dhani did because any change needs to come from within one self. One of the main attraction for dhani from viplav side is her boldness where did that go? Don't think viplav stopped that in fact he asked her to stand up to his mom. But dhani wanted more than what she got she wanted to be liked by everybody. So she compromised her self and what she doesn't realize it is she has to be Doormat all her life in order to get in their good books. She need to speak up in her own defense. We teach the world how to treat us. In our culture woman are taught to obey the elders which they should but should also be taught to respect them self first.

Originally posted by: Nuttyme

Jazz... the problem lies with the fact that viplav is impulsive. Even during shambhuz death when dhaani was being pragmatic and practical... he was the one throwing anger and tantrums and not being practical. But dhaani withstood his tantrums to an extent that she was even ready to apologise to kanak for her behaviour in the ashram.

There is a lesson viplav also needs to learn... stop being impulsive stay practical. Ask yourself why did someone do it.. put yourself in the others shoes and view.

I hope thats what even the ph is trying to drive. Being in love and being physically demostrative about it is gud and much needed specialky for dhaani who never knew what is it is to be loved so much... but yes marriage is beyond just hugs and kisses.

I am damn sure viplavz trust in dhaani will not go down. In fact every time viplav faced dilemma he turned to the ashram... thats where he finds solace and peace .. and am sure dhaani back in ashram will bring in that peace in viplav life... because people there make him undrstand his way... not scream and shout unnecessarily.

Originally posted by: Magnolia2

Oh ! How lovely it would be to see Kamini really gone bag and baggage from AN. But seriously the problem goes deeper than that. What if another Kamini arrives soon after? It is not the externals that Vidha have to fight against rather they have to mature and become more worldly wise which sadly both are lacking at this very moment. Otherwise their marriage will be jeopardized time and again.

The problem with Viplav is that he was so engrossed in love that he did not think that Dhani needed to address some of her deficiencies like education . True it did not matter to him that she was totally unlettered when he fell in love and married her but once that was done he should have taken that responsibility. It needed a vile woman like Kamini to suggest this?

What I understand as separation is different from a break in relationship. It is staying way from the other person for a brief length of time. So with separation they will get the space to introspect . In the process both might emerge stronger. It could be taken as a lesson in life.

Originally posted by: -JaZ-

everyone wants vidha separation and dhaani getting educated,becoming independent etc etc but where will this leave viplav ??? a jerk who has kicked out his wife and leaves her to survive alone 😕... they could have better killed viplav for a while if they are planning to show dhaani surviving on her own fighting the odds...

Jaz that is the exact reason I am not in favor of a break for more than a few days . Where does it leave Viplav coz of you see so far he is being patient and even yesterday asked her to back off dadaji accusation. He is supporting her . If he leaves her for an extended period then the entire proclamation of his Ishq has gone and he is a declared jerk , which neither Viplav or Mishal will accept of his character ,

Leaving a pregnant wife - never.

Originally posted by: premparbat

Jaz that is the exact reason I am not in favor of a break for more than a few days . Where does it leave Viplav coz of you see so far he is being patient and even yesterday asked her to back off dadaji accusation. He is supporting her . If he leaves her for an extended period then the entire proclamation of his Ishq has gone and he is a declared jerk , which neither Viplav or Mishal will accept of his character ,

Leaving a pregnant wife - never.

Originally posted by: premparbat

Jaz that is the exact reason I am not in favor of a break for more than a few days . Where does it leave Viplav coz of you see so far he is being patient and even yesterday asked her to back off dadaji accusation. He is supporting her . If he leaves her for an extended period then the entire proclamation of his Ishq has gone and he is a declared jerk , which neither Viplav or Mishal will accept of his character ,

Leaving a pregnant wife - never.