Thought of the day...Your best teacher is your last mistake !!!

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The quotes ...Everyone makes mistakes in life, but that doesn't mean they have to pay for them the rest of their life. Sometimes good people make bad choices, it doesn't mean they are bad. It means they are human. Don't waste time grieving over the past mistakes. Learn from then and move on...hold true.

Mistakes have the power to turn you into something better than you were before. Making mistakes is a part of life, we learn from them so that we don't repeat the same ones again. No one is perfect and it is in human nature. More than making a mistake, how we correct them define us.

Your past mistakes are meant to guide you not define you. Making mistakes is far better than faking perfections. A mistake should be your teacher, not your attacker. A mistake is a lesson nota loss, it is temporary not a dead end.

The quotes ...Be humble to see your mistakes, courageous to admit the and wise enough to correct them. Don't carry your mistakes around with you. Instead, place them under your feet and use them as stepping stones to rise above them...holds true.

Forget it enough to get over it, remember it enough so it doesn't happen again. Forgive others for their mistakes as quickly as we expect God to forgive us. In order to heal we must first forgive...and sometimes the person we must forgive is ourselves.

Sometimes in our lives some people in life no matter what we say will always make a mountain out of a mole hill then the saying ..The true mark of maturity is when somebody hurts you or makes mistakes and you try to understand their situation instead of trying to hurt them back...is true indeed.

Mistakes are always forgivable; if one has the courage to admit them (Bruce Lee) so learn to admit your mistakes before someone exaggerates the story. The first to apologize is the bravest, the first to forgive is the strongest and the first to forget is the happiest.

Agreed Dhani did a mistake, but instead of trying to see the reason behind it bua and others make a huge issue out of it...she deserved to be heard at least. They kept attacking her like they have been waiting for this opportunity for so many years...instead of her letting her to rectify them they taunt her mock her, humiliate her.

Had it been Kamini would they give her the same treatment?? She is a human after all irrespective of being educated or not , even she can make bad choices, bad mistakes...why forgive her then and not Dhani ?? Even Gods themselves make mistakes at times, we are humans after all...we are bound to make them at times.

Dhani realized that her lack of education did put everyone's life in danger...so she decides to get educated...that is the first step to rectify the mistake...the end result is positive. At times when we make huge mistakes we do have this need to rectify them and it will prevent us from repeating the same one over and over same is in the case of dhani.

Bua, DT and kanak know only how to make a mole out of mountain hill, when they themselves such huge mistakes or should I say crimes. They have never learnt from their past mistakes at all... DT and kanak very well know viplav's love towards Dhani, they couldn't separate them before yet they wish to continue to choose wrong paths.

Viplav has forgiven his wife instantly knowing her situation that is the best part of the episode and he also decided to rectify her mistake by helping her to get educated.

When we learn to forgive and look at the positive things people have done for us instead of just looking at one mistake then our lives would run much more smoothly. It all eventually depends on the individual how they tackle the situation and also on how grave is the mistake.

Do share your views.😊

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Hiii,
here i am in acchesochwali pearl mam ka classroom.
Beautiful thoughts, d way u present them is more beautiful.
Mistake is d integral part of human life.to err is human.n those who r smartest learn from their mistakes.
I m glad dhani is finally getting educated.
I wanted it from d beginning.
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Hello Dr Joy who spreads so much joy 😃 good to see you ...thank you for reading and sharing your view...Yes yes aapki tamanna puri hui ...Dhani's education will make her much more stronger and it will teach a lesson to the people like DT and kanak as well...as it is she is a constant learner and she will eventually emerge as a winner...Aapka name simple2 joy hogaya aaj 😆 Till then take care.
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Originally posted by: pearl100

Hello Dr Joy who spreads so much joy😃good to see you ...thank you for reading and sharing your view...Yes yes aapki tamanna puri hui ...Dhani's education will make her much more stronger and it will teach a lesson to the people like DT and kanak as well...as it is she is a constant learner and she will eventually emerge as a winner...Aapka name simple2 joy hogaya aaj😆Till then take care.



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Joya joya 😆😆 simar ke yahan se visit kari hogi shayad bhoot...usse kisiki madat ki zarorat nahi...self help is the best padhi hogi shayad 😆 resolve kyun hua pata hain 😆😆 bechara bhoot thak gaya hain tang kar kar ke 😆😆
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Swati u write it beautifully yar,, loved it,, theres too much negativity around n I understand wud b difficult to search the positive point n write the post..😛 good job dear..⭐️

Making mistakes is far better than faking perfections. wow frst part apt for dha, the 2nd part goes to K indeed,, 😆 mooh k bal gire ge K,,wait n watch,,😆
Dha n Vipu hav shown us time n again how human they are,,..😃 they r not Gods so they bound to commit mistake bt surely they will use those mistake as stepping stone,,well said..
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Hello Nuss 😊 thank you for reading and sharing your view...Yea it is dofficult to find the apt quotes...Yes viplav and dhani are far more genuine than others and show humanity every now and then ...they learn for their mistakes and rectify them as well...most of them are quotes Nuss bohut mushkil se milte hain...yes DT, KT, Bua and Km are all fake and will one fine day falter ... then the truth wins on that day...Till then take care.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Great post !! Pearl !
Loved reading every lines so powerful !! Thanks for sharing your intellectual thoughts that looks precious !!
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Hello Archana good to see you 😊 ...thank you for reading and commenting dear..thanks for the compliments dear...can you please make some moments of day related to viplav and dhani plz we all miss them...till then take care.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Hello pearl,
Wondering how best to describe your post...
You make a valid point--- as humans, we make mistakes all the time.
Learning from these mistakes & not repeating them is the right thing to do.
You are right, mistakes are our best teachers.
Your quote " failing from mistakes is better than faking perfections" is so appropriate while comparing Dhani vs Kamini

While Dhani & Viplav make every effort to change for the better, the rest of AN household ( except Dadi ) will not give a second thought about their personal misdeeds/ sins-- so there is no question of correcting their mistakes or changing at all. ... God help these sinners!

Thanks again for a wonderful post, Pearl.
Your thoughtful posts make my day!
Thank you



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