You cannot hang out with negative people and expect to live a positive life. You can't keep a clean reputation hanging out with messy people. You cannot change the people around you but you can change the people that you chose to be around with.
Hence chose your friends wisely. Keeping good will keep you from going astray. Bad Company corrupts good character.
As much as people refuse to believe it, the company you keep does have an impact and influence on your choices. The people whom you allow into your life can build you up and create a positive influence on your life or they can be toxic and create a negative influence on your life. Thus bad association spoils useful habits.
You friends are the reflection of who you are. Surround yourself only those people who lift you higher. The sayings ...Do not imitate others. Be yourself. Allow the people whom you admire to inspire you. It is far better to fail in originality than to succeed in imitation. In everything truth surpasses the imitation and copy. The worst acting is about imitation...holds true.
It is always better to be hated for what you are than to be loved for what you are not. You don't need to change your personality .Just be yourself. It takes lot of courage to grow up and turn out to be who you really are. By copying someone you lose yourself and your unique personality, thereby you lose your individuality.
Bua's guidance to kamini has led to lead a wrong path. In spite of being aware of Viplav's marital status she wishes to go ahead to lure him...she pretty well knows that his love for dhani is immense and she dares to commit the sin to separate viplav and dhani.
Bua's company has influenced her a lot and her ability to distinguish the right and wrong has vanished...on the other hand we have dhani who always thinks of keeping the relationships intact while kamini is hell bent on breaking up viplav's marriage the reason being the guidance they got in their life, the path they chose to lead...it's the teachings of dulari and sati bua respectively.
Kamini puts up an act of being good to earn people's faith in her...her personality is totally lost when she started to go astray...she is simply an imitation of bua's words...she wants to impress her in the process she lost her goodness in her...her originality is lost.
She wants to take dhani's position in viplav's life in the end she will end up losing the respect she gained from viplav.
Bua's toxic thoughts did have an influence on kamini to a great extent and kamini did develop bad habits. Sometimes when we allow a bad company in our lives it very difficult to get rid of it, you will be simply stuck up with it.
Be it kamini being influenced by bua or kanak or tripurari being influenced by DT the end result is the same...their negative thoughts of the former did have an impact on the latter ones.
The choice is simply left to us who we wish to surround our self with...just for the sake of impressing people one need not stuck oneself with some people...where there is no growth in our character what purpose does the company serve.
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