Tolerating injustice is a bigger crime than committing injustice !!!

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Silverrmoon

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Posted: 9 years ago

#11

Hello Meenu 😃 thank you for reading and sharing your view...true self respect is very important for everyone and yes no should be allowed to tamper with it .No human deserves to be disrespected at all...dhani is no less...she has to face bua and let her know she wont tolerate it anymore...Till then take care.

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mehraan

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Posted: 9 years ago

#12

Lovely write up JAAN...

Its high time Dhasni should stand up for herself, for her respect n pride...UNless n until u dont speak up or be assertive with the ones who mistreats u, u cant gain or demand respect...THIS is the reality...others will walk over n trampled u by humiliating n insulting...the best way is to speak up wats right n shut others mouth!!

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Mishfan

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Posted: 9 years ago

#13

Absolutely right.

Tolerating injustice = protecting the criminal or the wrong doer.

It encourages them to not only continue their chosen path but also commit greater harm.

Standing up against injustice is not easy.

It takes a lot of courage & strength.

Sadly here Dhani is potrayed as a typical, meek & obedient Bahu.

She also has the most lovable & supportive husband in Viplav.

But until & unless she realizes she deserves to be respected both as a family member of AN & as a human being, the injustice meted out to her will continue.

Dhani, please listen to Viplav , & stand up for yourself .

Let justice be done to you & your loved ones.

Thanks again for yet another thoughtful & insightful post!

Edited by Mishfan - 9 years ago

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Silverrmoon

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Posted: 9 years ago

#14

Hello Mehr 😃thank you for reading and sharing your view...yes you are absolutely true...silent can be often misunderstood and make be taken as weakness...speaking the truth shall definitely shut them up...else the bullies will continue to do their work.Till then take care.

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Silverrmoon

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Posted: 9 years ago

#15

Hello Mishfan 😃 thank you for reading and sharing your view...true one encourages the sinner to do greater damage if not confronted at the right time...this of course requires lot of strength and is no easy job as you said.

The way she stood up against Pc or raja she needs to do the same here...they all shut their mouths back then ...it has become a habit in AN to disrespect her all the time...she needs to be very clear that she will not allow anyone to disrespect her no matter what...Till then take care.

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samanthana

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Posted: 9 years ago

#16

Hi Swati

Kamal kipost hai ... Very well written

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Silverrmoon

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Posted: 9 years ago

#17

Hello Samantha 😃 thank you for reading and commenting dear...Till the take care.

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premparbat

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Posted: 9 years ago

#18

Hi Swathi

There are a lot of people in this world who cannot stand up on their own against injustice , they need support . They are not cowards that just are scared and don't know how. At times it's not part of their nature.

Dhani started out to be one . She fought for her ashram with Viplav but not the Panditsvwho humiliated her . Vip helped change that and in recent times yet again she stood up to PC when he accused Vip .

What Dhani does not do is stand up against the Tripathi women who humiliate her . Kanak and now bua. It's a couple of things here. First is her upbringing if not answering back and despite Vip telling her that she has his permission to do do she does not . Next is her insecurities somewhere she goes believe herself to be inferior , coming from a humble background . And also it's in her nature to tolerate and that is who she is. When it comes to others she will fight but when it is her she is not able to . And this is where vip comes in .

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Silverrmoon

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Posted: 9 years ago

#19

Hello Ratna 😊 thank you for reading and sharing your view...I agree one's nature can play a role in how one tackles situation or people...of course they are not cowards, they have not faced it before or they simply don't know how to tackle the situation..at such times one needs help just as you said.

Even the most silent person if they had enough will have no option but to support them self when the situation absolutely demands, when they just had enough .. they have no other option left anymore or they can;t take it anymore...having to face injustice over and over the pent up feelings which they have kept it to themselves if they come out it can stun people around as they least expect it.

As far as dhani is concerned she has always been taught to respect the elders...but there is no such rule where elders have the right to disrespect younger people...yes dhani when it comes to helping and supporting people she does it without any hesitation but when the same applies to her she doesn't...this is the point where the people in AN have taken advantage of.

She will viplav's help needs to make it clear that she shall not let any one humiliate her... just because she is humble in nature, her silent is taken as weakness by these people...once in while when situation demands she needs to change...and changes take time and efforts hopefully with viplav's help she shall change with time.

Till then take care.

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Tahsinomi

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Posted: 9 years ago

#20

Pearl , this is an age old saying , amazed by d fact how u interpreted d episode this way.indeed , those who dont stand up against evil,they support it indirectly.

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