from rakhsas,to husband,to churl ! - Page 2

Originally posted by: CarpedeimRose

hammie a gud mrng from my side,I know u may be in some other part of the day,Wow Shopping ,May,i know for what?

Amazing analysis,awesome Title dear,really yesterday's episode ,gave away ur title 's transformation,really so awesome,wonderful piece of writing,Hammie,as usual wonderful analysis ,to start my day👏

Originally posted by: aimf

Hammie!.. yes aimf... you call me hear/here

Thanks for your nice words in response to your take yesterday.
they were heart felt
I can see from the length of the take today, and your careful attention in analyzing the details, that you have really loved the episode. So did I. Kudos to you for the nice write up.
thanks, yes told you liked it for the funny bits..it was along time coming
In fact, it was flawlessly executed in the sense that yesterday's episode lay the groundwork for the future of the plot in many ways.
What you say about Dhani being betrayed by Sue and RL is indeed really true. Rajlaxmi's behavior today shed light on an important matter for me today. It was always interesting to watch the dynamics of the generation gap between the older and the younger widows at the ashram. With the exception of Dhani, the younger ones, such as Sue, RL, or Rachna were interested in age-appropriate pursuits, such as food, bollywood songs, telly shows, and men, while the older widows were happy with their memories, and their pujas. a very valid point...👏 Dhani, uncharacteristically, was like a grandmother, older even than Sita Mai in her finger-wagging righteousness in all matters widow. This is the reason she did not get much support from the younger widows. In the very beginning of the show also, RL would implicate Dhani and try to get her in trouble. Further, the younger widows kept things from each other. For instance, no one knew about Trip and Sue. We also did not know that Sue and RL like to dance and are good at it. Today's episode clarified for me the fact that the widows ashram was seen as a temporary accommodation by the younger widows who all had pipe-dreams of being happily married and leaving from there as soon as possible. superbly scaled... in fact she is shown as bit of a prude ,remember when viplav teased her, his dadi spoke to some elderly person on the phone...I suspect dulari has poured much of her staidness and gravity into dhani ,as to what is proper and improper.. funnily it reminds me of Victorian middle class attitude of women .. prim sanctimonious prudes...

The life of a widow, symbolized by stark white, eating once a day, and that too boiled potatoes, no fun, and no outings, except temples is rather bleak. Furthermore, being considered inauspicious, the widows are constantly derided and discriminated against. In small-town India, marriage starts to look like the best ticket out of widows' weeds, especially for women lacking in education. Therefore, I see now why Sue took the extreme step of marrying the violent and unscrupulous Tripurari. Now no one can call her a vidhwa or impose rules on what to wear, what to eat, where to not go, and what to not do. exactly and the suvarna marriage created such an uproar
She is now part of society, and is accepted as that, rather than shunned. Strange how just being married and wearing color can do that for a woman. I believe that RL's quest for acceptance by the society escalated as she first witnessed Dhani's wedding preparations, and then Sue's marriage. welll she said so in all honesty and I did appreciate her stance.. and have to say she does'nt mince her words either
Now she is desperate to get married to her Vakil babu. It is just fine for her to want Vakil Babu, but to rely on the wily Trip as a go-between reveals the extent of her desperation. The betrayals of Sue and RL have to be seen through the lens of the desperate undercurrent of the pursuit of acceptability in a patriarchal culture where they ironically think that acceptability and progress are coterminous with marriage..well put! and its these undercurrents in social issues that interest me in this serial.. thanks so much on your wise inputs.. hope others get to read your comment and focus on the bits about dhani the widow amongst the varied age range of the ashram.. bit of a misfit young dhani.. alas..

That is all for today. Perhaps more tomorrow. Best wishes.
yes please more tomm? means to me you are well grounded.. aacha hai you stay put.. much love yours hammie..

Originally posted by: tarun1234567

haan Bhai phelwan.. dhani ka ashiq? viplav is out to get you😆😆
u were in for hurry for shopping😆😆...me also hurry in for party so couldn't catch up yesterday's episode... partying with who? kat kaif?
just now watched it...after ages we got ViDhalian Episode n less of DT n KT scenes...but TT is getting more footage😆aaj se TT ka naam hai Footage artist...🤣 yess and TT is showing his dola shole.. phir viplav ne bhi kam dekha diya and chorres on forum going hai main mar jawaien! 😆

i will start with today RL...she is also slowly falling into the trap of trip just like suw n dhaani...Suw n dhaani has faced consequences for believing that beast...so in few episodes she will be evident of Trip's true nature...although she knew abt the equation of suw-trip n also he killed his own child n suw...why she is keeping so trust on him just becoz he is so close to DT??😆😆 because yaad kar he says people get blind in love and act stupid
...she has right to choose anyone for the second marriage...she is also justified in choosing viplav as right partner...she know his behaviour n caring for anyone...but taking Trip's health will ultimately land in trouble...we can expect cv's could turn completely negative when she heards abt ViDha love story😆if RL wants to get married to viplav she should have express her feelings directly to either viplav or DT...oh no after she will get thappad n babaji ka tullu only🤣

ahhh hooo my gawddd tis line cracked me up phelwan! jiust fallen of my settee 🤣 good to have your jokes back

coming to ViDha...

they both are having cat-fights as usual after ages😆...they are trying to win the race in taking care of each other...we can say both acquired first position...😆...i liked one particular scene when dhaani removed his shirt...he just covered himself with blanket not to make her more embarrassing😳...after that he says sunoo...kuch nahi...this scene reminded me of aashiqui 2 touchy scene..Rahul jaykar says aarohi...suno...kya??kuch nahi bas yuhi
yeahhh.. waise he was going to say aache dekhte ho in lemon outfit...nehin?

that bathing scene could have done it in bathroom itself😆😆Why to show world that we are hubby n wife???and we love to do this😆...this scene could have been more intense n passionate one in bathroom😆😆.may be dhaani slips in the bathroom vipu holds her...
oyeee baaz aaja romeo! I have an old OS, I write about bathroom scene between dutta.naku.. its very romantic but.. cant use it for vidha as they are not married... maybe if imake it into a dream sequence..?

after that he will loose control on towel...towel falls down😆😆...dhaani will screams n says hey bhagwan aaj maine kya dekh liya🤣
oohhh my gawwddd.. alll good girls shut your eyes tarun 's imagination has gone wild...😆... behave! haaahaa loved having you back in your cracking self... much love hammie

Originally posted by: mehraan

Wonderful take hanmie n beautifully xplained!!!It was one of the best Vidha episodes,their chemistry is like an addiction!!!! ...have nothing to say...im running again to watch the episode,ur analysis prompted it!!😳

Originally posted by: kompass

I love reading your intake on yesterday's episode... Beautifully explained. Much waited ViDha episode after so long. Their chemistry is totally on fire and sizzling. Anyone can get addicted to them.

Originally posted by: sura123

Thanks Hamlet for the wonderful and amazing written analysis on the rocking yesterday's episode. I like your titles😊

Originally posted by: aimf

Hammie!

Thanks for your nice words in response to your take yesterday.

I can see from the length of the take today, and your careful attention in analyzing the details, that you have really loved the episode. So did I. Kudos to you for the nice write up.

In fact, it was flawlessly executed in the sense that yesterday's episode lay the groundwork for the future of the plot in many ways.

What you say about Dhani being betrayed by Sue and RL is indeed really true. Rajlaxmi's behavior today shed light on an important matter for me today. It was always interesting to watch the dynamics of the generation gap between the older and the younger widows at the ashram. With the exception of Dhani, the younger ones, such as Sue, RL, or Rachna were interested in age-appropriate pursuits, such as food, bollywood songs, telly shows, and men, while the older widows were happy with their memories, and their pujas. Dhani, uncharacteristically, was like a grandmother, older even than Sita Mai in her finger-wagging righteousness in all matters widow. This is the reason she did not get much support from the younger widows. In the very beginning of the show also, RL would implicate Dhani and try to get her in trouble. Further, the younger widows kept things from each other. For instance, no one knew about Trip and Sue. We also did not know that Sue and RL like to dance and are good at it. Today's episode clarified for me the fact that the widows ashram was seen as a temporary accommodation by the younger widows who all had pipe-dreams of being happily married and leaving from there as soon as possible. The life of a widow, symbolized by stark white, eating once a day, and that too boiled potatoes, no fun, and no outings, except temples is rather bleak. Furthermore, being considered inauspicious, the widows are constantly derided and discriminated against. In small-town India, marriage starts to look like the best ticket out of widows' weeds, especially for women lacking in education. Therefore, I see now why Sue took the extreme step of marrying the violent and unscrupulous Tripurari. Now no one can call her a vidhwa or impose rules on what to wear, what to eat, where to not go, and what to not do. She is now part of society, and is accepted as that, rather than shunned. Strange how just being married and wearing color can do that for a woman. I believe that RL's quest for acceptance by the society escalated as she first witnessed Dhani's wedding preparations, and then Sue's marriage. Now she is desperate to get married to her Vakil babu. It is just fine for her to want Vakil Babu, but to rely on the wily Trip as a go-between reveals the extent of her desperation. The betrayals of Sue and RL have to be seen through the lens of the desperate undercurrent of the pursuit of acceptability in a patriarchal culture where they ironically think that acceptability and progress are coterminous with marriage.

That is all for today. Perhaps more tomorrow. Best wishes.

Originally posted by: --SudhaS--

hi sudha ,great to see you Iknow you are on cloud 9 due to vidha moments😛
Hey Hammie! Beautiful analysis! Loved your description of the scenes from your PoV. You covered everything so well. Even I felt Dhani was wondering actually fearing if Viplav will clarify to kaki that they're not pati patni. But only if she knows what's in our naughty vipu's mind 😉 He is probably having the best time of his life enjoying Dhani's care and attention, occasionally having fun with his harmless flirting! 😆
yes he was proper flirty.. thins is he is a uni boy from a key city Delhi remember what he was like in the beginning ,night clubbing. etc.. now given that he is a good lad.. respects women even rude girls..
I'm still smiling and blushing when I think about those amazing ViDha moments. Thanks for your post which made me relive those beautiful moments once again! Very well written 👏
thanks sudha for your full on happy feedback.. lots of smiley faces from every one these past few days much love hammie