Why a girl would prefer to die...

Yes, she will...imagine her situation...i will explain in context of dhani...she just woke up...to face the thing...what would be her first reaction?...the same dhani gave...brushing the guy off...when u have no balance of mind...panicked..shocked..shattered...how can one think on the words of the guy?...calm mind is needed...she didn't believed him and found herself a victim...shattered from inside...even before she can make efforts to forget it, when she was not even able to accept what happened to her, still in shock, she is given another jerk...the society humiliating her...imagine her mindset...to think on anything, to move on, to stand, to accept...time is needed...time to calm down herself...time to gather courage...time to accept that it wasn;'t her fault..but this time is majorly never given...at such a sensitive stage, such humiliation can't be tolerated and death will be preferred undoubtedly...and this doesn't marks she is coward or anything...just didn't got time to move on...coz i majority of cases, i have read girl committing suicide within a week...

Yes, life is very precious...more than the izzat thing...life should not be given up on being a victim of the hunters of society...but then...its not about the importance of life...its all about society...everyone loves their life...hence fear death...anyone who even jump off seeing a vehicle moving towards it, loves life...but what's life if one have to live it- crying all the time, getting beaten all the time, having nothing for himself/herself...doesn't quality of life matters too?...don't we all will desire to live a peaceful life atleast even if we don't have much...a painful life will be never preferred...same goes here...when a girl , specifically, is struck in such a situation, the peace is gone...except for few cities in india, at majority of places, such things are a taboo and over hyped...in almost all rape cases, the girls are not criticized, coz there are proves..medical reports...but in cases like such, no proofs, and the only proof available is against, any random person will find it difficult to believe what the girl says...they will believe the proof coz anyone struck in such situation will try to prove herself/himself innocent...the society makes a mindset...and then start hitting the girl...with their teasing smile, whispering to each other whenever the girl or her family members passes by, commenting on them, making it a hot topic of gossip...emotional humiliation...and this is worse than dying...getting ur family targeted because of u , having ur dignity being torn with every step...when u have no fault...

easy to say but too hard to follow...how can society be avoided as such?...when u r urself a part of it...till how long it can be avoided?...girl x is in such situation...she steps out of her door...to call for rickshaw..the driver recognize her and gave weird looks..she moves to a shop and shopkeeper does the same..rest present start whispering...smiling...so she should stay back at home in order to in ignore?...coz personally, i feel it too hard to avoid what reactions people around u are giving u...isn't it a thing to get bothered on?...kahan tak bhagenge..

Yes definitely...and in most cases, its family's support too which allows us to fight back, stand still...but what when family too blames one?...like dhani's case...when vipu thrown colors on her, dhani was shouted by dulaari...the whole ashram is her family but still...whole world at one side and dulaari on other..m much sure dulaari too will burst on dhani for this...such things makes it more hard to cope up...

yeah..there will be many people from society in support...but u know, majority of them will be those living far away from u...in other states, cities...they will support but they won't come to visit u, or be a shield for u at ur place...and those around u, will watch everything like puppets...like dhani is being humiliated and all are busy recording...coz in the name of reaction, they can only watch it and spread online...inviting objections from all over, but those who were recording won't do anything..and those are the people one have to live with...they will witness everything, keep mum, but encounter them the next time, their eyes will remind u of everything...one more thing...if u meet a guy..just randomly...forgot his name...say he is bald...when recalling majority will say "arey wo ganje wale the na...kya naam tha"...negative points are kept up for long time..not positive ones..so support for dhani may die but not those opposes...

many ways...move out of the city...get a new beginning...but this certainly is not possible for dhani...