'MOTAPA' seriously..?

Originally posted by: ..Roopal..

thanks for raising this topic..i was about to make a post on this...but keeping short here

motapa..a word very commonly used...for majority, its fun quoting someone with this word but the impacts the person suffering have always stay unknown...in today's world, (talking about india where i reside) advancement is made...people are thinking above obesity but still it have its roots spread all over...a person suffering obesity looks nothing more than a toy to play with, to many...the ill comments of society on their obesity makes those people very low in confidence, scared to face the world and the pain they suffer inside can never be felt...obesity is a problem to which solution should be suggested but the way some people react to it, it looks more than a curse now...the situation worsen for girls in the name of marriage...the skinny slim girls are preferred by all...those fast girls are always out of choice list...when a girl is fat in childhood she may look cute...but as soon as she move to teenage and then youth, her head is filled with taunts for her being fat and being rejected for marriage from all...this fear grips many minds so tightly, that they start opting out for the dangerous means to solve their problem...their soul is torn by the society...appearance is the thing that matters..qualities are overshadowed always...same is happening with shalu...she is sweet, innocent but that are the things which will be noticed on spending time with her...having convo with her...but people reject her on the first glance only...seeing her overweight...this is the problem...those people are never given a chance to showcase their inner beauty...as they are rejected at the very beginning for their appearance...

and with dashrath's advice to shambhu to assure that this time her motapa don't come in mid may simply refers to what we call in other words - a bribe...when people are disabled or there are stupid reasons like obesity coming in way of their marriage, the wealth is used...as we can see in shambhu and kanak's case...shambhu was disabled but kanak married him for the luxury..now shambhu is expected for this...before those visitors can say no to shalu, they should blind them with the shine of their gold...its something like selling the piece u think defective with a loss...