Originally posted by: kankabhor
Doing mistakes means as a human we are not perfect and do mistakes every day. There should not be burden of being perfect sanskari girl. We learn from our mistakes. Ahaan keeps saying my Sonu will never do any mistake which makes her lie, not own up her mistakes and as a result she doesn't learn from it either. If she doesn't have that pressure from Dado/Ahaan she will be open and own up her mistakes because mistakes to hogi hi sabse.
Sonu's character development is also important. That's why I want her to gain some strength by seeing Ishqi and accept what happened to her in front of everyone. She should not be apologetic about what happened with her but should apologize Ishqi for not telling truth to everyone. I also think they can show her talking about molestation openly on forums and help other girls. They can build good story around sonu instead of making her housewife and Sarla's doormat
Of course it's human nature to make mistakes, but, if it's done repeatedly, then we can't name it as a mistake.
See, we should not be burdened to meet expectations of others, but it's up to us whether we consider it as a burden or not.
Agar hamari family hamse koi ummeed rakh rahi hai to hamare upar hai ham use bojh samjhe ya ye samjh ke use accept kr lein ki hamari family, hamse pyaar krne wale ye chahte hain.
Serial me sanskari hona burden show kiya hai par ye koi burden nahi hai aur hona bhi nahi chahiye.
See, trio sibling bond was very pure, they shared each and every thing but I think Sonu never shared anything with them. She could have told about her boyfriend to her brother's, they have also shared about their girlfriends. And if she thinks her family doesn't like it, then she could have avoided making one or could have made them understand that there is nothing wrong with it.
Aur uske brother's itne supportive hain ki uski baat sune..Sonu unhe apni marzi se kuch nahi batati. Party fiasco ko lekar bhi Sonu ko ye laga ki uska bhai support nahi krega, lekin usne ek baar batane ka try bhi nahi kiya.
We can learn from others mistake too. She faced insult and humiliation her whole life because according to society her mother left her and his brother for money.
@b: I agree dear.👍🏼
Edited by PassionStar - 4 years ago
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